How can I find a good and matured man for my single independent mother. (She’s 46)
I am a young guy in my 20s and I just recently rented an apartment that’s just like two hours drive from her because I need my own space and privacy and to hussle as a man.

I lost my dad when I was still a teenager but before then my mom and dad where separated. (He married other wives thought)
Truth is deep down I knew my mom never wanted me to rent the apartment but I had to make that decision and move out for my sanity because I can’t do any reasonable thing in the Godforsaken state I am so I needed to move out and start life as a man

The problem now is I know for sure my mom will be lonely. She has already started disturbing me to take her to my house I rented even when I have not packed in lol. She had other relationships that I knew of but non worked out. She’s overly spiritual too and believes you have to seek the face of God for a man lol. That made her loose a good man that I know. Her reason was she had a bad dream about him lol and a pastor told her he’s not her husband and so many bullshit

She’s not into social media so that option is ruled out.
It has to be physical. She needs a man in her life before she start invading my privacy because of loneliness
She doesn’t have any female friends. She ends up having problem with them at the end.

He life is just church and business. Infact she’s mostly in church. So please guys if you have any good idea and advice, kindly drop. Thanks

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Did ur mum knows about this? You think getting a man to lash her kpekus is the best solution to you abi? She has her reason(s) for staying thus far without any man abi u wan give her heartbreak at this her age if the man chop her and run? She's old enough to decide on wot she wants.

Selfkontrol:

How can I find a good and matured man for my single independent mother. (She’s 46)
I am a young guy in my 20s and I just recently rented an apartment that’s just like two hours drive from her because I need my own space and privacy and to hussle as a man.

I lost my dad when I was still a teenager but before then my mom and dad where separated. (He married other wives thought)
Truth is deep down I knew my mom never wanted me to rent the apartment but I had to make that decision and move out for my sanity because I can’t do any reasonable thing in the Godforsaken state I am so I needed to move out and start life as a man

The problem now is I know for sure my mom will be lonely. She has already started disturbing me to take her to my house I rented even when I have not packed in lol. She had other relationships that I knew of but non worked out. She’s overly spiritual too and believes you have to seek the face of God for a man lol. That made her loose a good man that I know. Her reason was she had a bad dream about him lol and a pastor told her he’s not her husband and so many bullshit

She’s not into social media so that option is ruled out.
It has to be physical. She needs a man in her life before she start invading my privacy because of loneliness
She doesn’t have any female friends. She ends up having problem with them at the end.

He life is just church and business. Infact she’s mostly in church. So please guys if you have any good idea and advice, kindly drop. Thanks

Give her your pastor na

does she need a bedmates or finances?

Selfkontrol:

How can I find a good and matured man for my single independent mother. (She’s 46)
I am a young guy in my 20s and I just recently rented an apartment that’s just like two hours drive from her because I need my own space and privacy and to hussle as a man.

I lost my dad when I was still a teenager but before then my mom and dad where separated. (He married other wives thought)
Truth is deep down I knew my mom never wanted me to rent the apartment but I had to make that decision and move out for my sanity because I can’t do any reasonable thing in the Godforsaken state I am so I needed to move out and start life as a man

The problem now is I know for sure my mom will be lonely. She has already started disturbing me to take her to my house I rented even when I have not packed in lol. She had other relationships that I knew of but non worked out. She’s overly spiritual too and believes you have to seek the face of God for a man lol. That made her loose a good man that I know. Her reason was she had a bad dream about him lol and a pastor told her he’s not her husband and so many bullshit

She’s not into social media so that option is ruled out.
It has to be physical. She needs a man in her life before she start invading my privacy because of loneliness
She doesn’t have any female friends. She ends up having problem with them at the end.

He life is just church and business. Infact she’s mostly in church. So please guys if you have any good idea and advice, kindly drop. Thanks

She will surely get one I the church but she has to be flexible because of her rigidity

If you recommend any for her, it will not work, let her pick one herself

But before then, pls keep an eye with her, you are the only male she has and don't be too close or to far from her

But keep telling her she needs a man and she should learn more if social life

It will not make sense to her but with time, she will key in

Selfkontrol:

How can I find a good and matured man for my single independent mother. (She’s 46)
I am a young guy in my 20s and I just recently rented an apartment that’s just like two hours drive from her because I need my own space and privacy and to hussle as a man.

I lost my dad when I was still a teenager but before then my mom and dad where separated. (He married other wives thought)
Truth is deep down I knew my mom never wanted me to rent the apartment but I had to make that decision and move out for my sanity because I can’t do any reasonable thing in the Godforsaken state I am so I needed to move out and start life as a man

The problem now is I know for sure my mom will be lonely. She has already started disturbing me to take her to my house I rented even when I have not packed in lol. She had other relationships that I knew of but non worked out. She’s overly spiritual too and believes you have to seek the face of God for a man lol. That made her loose a good man that I know. Her reason was she had a bad dream about him lol and a pastor told her he’s not her husband and so many bullshit

She’s not into social media so that option is ruled out.
It has to be physical. She needs a man in her life before she start invading my privacy because of loneliness
She doesn’t have any female friends. She ends up having problem with them at the end.

He life is just church and business. Infact she’s mostly in church. So please guys if you have any good idea and advice, kindly drop. Thanks

Bro, Firstly when you need serious and mature advice it's always better to post in the family section, here is full jokers and kids (no offense)

It seems you are an only child, if you are, then I'm happy to announce to you, you can't get "rid" of her, She is your first wife, she is always going to be in your business as long you are closeby. My friend who is also an only child didn't even allow the mom to know his house even when they are in the same city, though he goes home to visit every weekend. Maybe you should adopt this means too, it seems unfair but if you REALLY want that privacy then you should.

I know you are looking out for her happiness, I can't even imagine how lonely it can get, it also good she is devoted to the church to at least occupy her time.

The best place for someone like her is nowhere except where she spends most her time, the church but I'm sure she doesn't just interest. Talk to her pastor about your worry and concern, the pastor will be in the best position to help.

Finally , please don't be too far away from her in the name of "hustle and privacy"

mrjojo:


Bro, Firstly when you need serious and mature advice it's always better to post in the family section, here is full jokers and kids (no offense)

It seems you are an only child, if you are, then I'm happy to announce to you, you can't get "rid" of her, She is your first wife, she is always going to be in your business as long you are closeby. My friend who is also an only child didn't even allow the mom to know his house even when they are in the same city, though he goes home to visit every weekend. Maybe you should adopt this means too, it seems unfair but if you REALLY want that privacy then you should.

I know you are looking out for her happiness, I can't even imagine how lonely it can get, it also good she is devoted to the church to at least occupy her time.

The best place for someone like her is nowhere except where she spends most her time, the church but I'm sure she doesn't just interest. Talk to her pastor about your worry and concern, the pastor will be in the best position to help.

Finally , please don't be too far away from her in the name of "hustle and privacy"

yes bro you’re right. I’m the only child. I don’t think keeping her away from my house is a good option, It won’t be funny at all but I might be forced to do that and I feel bad because I know how lonely she would be and she would read a different meaning to it. She’s based in yenegoa but mostly in Port harcourt because of business Nd church (80% of the time) and I just rented my place in ph so she would always give me unwanted and unexpected visits which I don’t want.

mrjojo:


Bro, Firstly when you need serious and mature advice it's always better to post in the family section, here is full jokers and kids (no offense)

It seems you are an only child, if you are, then I'm happy to announce to you, you can't get "rid" of her, She is your first wife, she is always going to be in your business as long you are closeby. My friend who is also an only child didn't even allow the mom to know his house even when they are in the same city, though he goes home to visit every weekend. Maybe you should adopt this means too, it seems unfair but if you REALLY want that privacy then you should.

I know you are looking out for her happiness, I can't even imagine how lonely it can get, it also good she is devoted to the church to at least occupy her time.

The best place for someone like her is nowhere except where she spends most her time, the church but I'm sure she doesn't just interest. Talk to her pastor about your worry and concern, the pastor will be in the best position to help.

Finally , please don't be too far away from her in the name of "hustle and privacy"

Oga for God's sake just leave your mum , she will be okay soon

The kind men in Naija? Hmm just be very careful

Religion is supposed to make the sane saner but instead the sane misconstrue the teachings of religion. If your moma is praying for a man, is she not supposed to be open to advances, she instead let a man go because of her religion, now what do we call that. It is the insanity displayed by the religious people that makes us have a lot of atheists, say a prayer then work towards it, don't ever expect a miracle, it's a fiction that sets you back.

I wonder if you people read at all or you just check the topic and make suggestions

Untainted007:
Did ur mum knows about this? You think getting a man to lash her kpekus is the best solution to you abi? She has her reason(s) for staying thus far without any man abi u wan give her heartbreak at this her age if the man chop her and run? She's old enough to decide on wot she wants.

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Op, dont start what you cannot finish
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I'm available, if she can pay me 60k per month to be her companion.

I'm a very jovial, lovely and mature guy...

And precisely, she can't have Jesus and still be lonely.

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On a serious note, it's pointless trying to seek a man for your religious mom whom you know if you find a man and her pastor is not in support or she hasn't seen a vision, she will reject him and the circle continues.

Go back home and stay with your mom, for there will be no man who will treat her better than you.
You're her husband now, you carry your Dad traits and she sees him in you.

If you're running away from her because you need a space to go on a fückin spree, I'll look for you whenever you are and knack you jazz.

It will be very hard o. This one that you said that she had a good man but her dream made her end things. It's hard to interfere in the business of people that are overly religious and superstitious, cos one morning, they can say pastor said this, or I had a dream this man is the cause of my problems, and then everything ends.

Offpoint:
I'm available, if she can pay me 60k per month to be her companion.

I'm a very jovial, lovely and mature guy...

And precisely, she can't have Jesus and still be lonely.

...........
On a serious note, it's pointless trying to seek a man for your religious mom whom you know if you find a man and her pastor is not in support or she hasn't seen a vision, she will reject him and the circle continues.

Go back home and stay with your mom, for there will be no man who will treat her better than you.
You're her husband now, you carry your Dad traits and she sees him in you.

If you're running away from her because you need a space to go on a fückin spree, I'll look for you whenever you are and knack you jazz.

lmao aswer bro you’re hilarious. Thanks for your weird advice lol