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Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by nedekid: 1:35pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
izospindle:You did great. Next time refare him to paylater, sokoloan etc ![]() 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Zane2point4(m): 1:35pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
The way naija girls broke eeh,its too alarming. Give me money for hair. Money for school fees Money for pad Money for accommodation Money for virtually everything. Yet there popsi deh alive o. My brother if you cant afford to loose that money better run for your life,he isnt putting it in an investment just for a girl that can run tomorrow. 3 Likes |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Emperor4tune(m): 1:35pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
if ur friend is a strong business type & u know his husstle can generate over 150k in a month or less than 2 month,then i see no big deal in lending him 70k,paying for his girlfriend school fee is no big deal,not all women are betrayers,they may have a deep secret & plans you may not no,dont be suprised if the guy ends up marrying the girl,there are still true lovers & true friends on earth,but the wickedness in the heart of most people has made it quite difficult for one to trust another. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Sanchez01: 1:35pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
vincentjk: ![]() ![]() ![]() Story of my life. Mine was super manipulative that he always apologized for not paying up the moment he saw me. I became the one who avoided him just so it wouldn't look like the money made us jam. ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by pek(m): 1:37pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
I want to ask you a rhetorical question. Which will you lose and you won't feel too bad about it? The money or your friend? If you don't lend him the money, you will lose your friendship with him. However, if you want to GIVE him the money, your choice. But if you lent him the money, you will you lose your money and your friendship cause you ain't getting that money back! 5 Likes |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by holicupp(m): 1:38pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
things falls apartment |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Cutehector(m): 1:38pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
You didnt do wrong. Pls dont give in to emotional blackmail . he should go do obuaja work |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Baamm(m): 1:39pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Hold on to your money... Trust me u won’t regret it. Let him go source for the fund elsewhere 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by jaykay68(m): 1:39pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Why are you post this trash here, after you have taken your decision why seek for advice? Abeg borrow yourself some brains. |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by AerialMapper: 1:40pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
You cannot use the words friend and money in one sentence! It doesn’t ever end well! Either your friendship goes sour or you lose your money ... depending how desperate your “friend” is... even your life. Only give the money if you can afford to lose it 2 Likes |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by hollah123: 1:40pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
in case u really don't understand what u are about to do let me break it down for u. For your friend to come n meet u for school fee which is one of d most important thing in after admission, it shows that your friend is d one shouldering all d responsibility n probably seeing her through school cos where are her parents? And that translates to the fact that he has other bills to pay too which might affect him paying back your money, n I believe it will affect u. Bro, I can tell u from experience if u take him to police station for loan default bro I swear down d guy for tell police he will b paying u 1k per month n police will tell u "guy, police no dey draw debt ooo n we no fit detain am, if u mean business carry am go court".Just imagine d stress n d heartbreak. And to that your useless friend who have refuse to get sense in 2020,its obvious d girl has little or no back up except your friend n if your friend can't meet up she must lean on other guys for survival which means breaking up with your guy is imminent. the basis of my long Tory is that either way u want to think about it, Na u go lose pass 5 Likes |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nathan2016: 1:40pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
coldFLARES1: I literally have to reply this. Last comment was funny AF Borrowing Nigerians money is like doing Bet 9ja games. 5 Likes |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Temiemmanuel(m): 1:41pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
It may sound funny, but I see nothing bad in lending a friend that amount for the said reason. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nasir123(m): 1:42pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
izospindle: Please, just borrow me just 150k, am ready to fill the form correctly. I'm ready to even pay with interest. Your friend need to get the money somewhere else if he's so Angry. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 1:42pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:YES!. Most people lend with evil intentions, not that they need the money but they do so in other to thwart the good plans one had 4 him/herself. |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 1:43pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
izospindle:You did not do anything wrong. But i'd have preferred you just tell him you don't have to spare than tell him to fill a form. Best case scenario was not giving him the money and still having him as a friend. As for your friend, I'm surprised men still commit this much to women when u are not certain she's yours. If as at university level he's still borrowing to pay her fees what's going to keep her from following a man who can do that and more without sweat? Loyalty? faithfulness? Poverty dey clear woman eye o...besides what about her parents? Abi is it the sex that's blinding his eye? Sex that he's not the person that started first and he won't be the last is what he wants to kill himself for and then lose a friend in the process? I sure hope this girl does not disappoint him or else we will see another thread from you. 3 Likes |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Originalsly: 1:43pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
First of all.... is your friend telling the truth?.... and second.... is his girlfriend telling him the truth? Bro..... so if he signed the form it means he will pay you back? How much would you have to pay to see the matter go to court?.... and how much would it cost you until judgement day?... and even so... if he is not working... or working for a small amount... the judge is likely to order him to repay you like N1000 per month. Don't ever lend what you can't afford to lose. 2 Likes |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by amstamon: 1:44pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
We4all:Oga stop saying rubbish!! You're just stupidly getting me pisssed off. I'm very sure you are that stupid and foolish friend that wants to borrow money so as to pay a girl school fees. One question for you,.. How long would this borrowed for school fees last? Are u still gonna borrow for her 200l,300l,400l,projects, feeding allowances and also for miscellaneous also? And what would be your reaction if she finally dumps you which is certain (by the time she starts making friends, tasting young and perfect dicks, and getting exposed to campus life). I pity your papa wey born you. U just no get sense. Coconut head. Gerrrrrrrrout joor 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Virginkpekus(f): 1:44pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Temiemmanuel:As dangote wey you be na! Hope you saw where he said that 70k is 50percent of his life savings. 7 Likes |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 1:45pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Temiemmanuel:The moment you judge based on your own situation or financial power you will mislead people who are not supposed to lend such money. 3 Likes |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by GamalNasser: 1:45pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
izospindle: Trust me that guy is not your friend but a blackmailer better cut him off now |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by shineeye1: 1:46pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
If you understand why Fulani fears Amotekun, you will also understand why your friend hates documentation of loan... Steer clear from those who abhor taking responsibility for their actions... 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Cchuks27(m): 1:46pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
izospindle: Bro I don't know you but in the name of God don't lend him that money. He won't pay you back! Don't trust people. That was my biggest mistake last year and it has cost me something very important. Don't lend him, I repeat, DONT LEND HIM! 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Akinboboz(m): 1:46pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
As for me oo, don't have much to say, Shebi him get BVN rit , and also android phone, if yes, den ask him to download sokoloan and branch apps, dem fit borrow am, him go get sense laslas 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by DexterousOne(m): 1:46pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
izospindle: You dodged a bullet |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Kobicove(m): 1:46pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
izospindle: You were not wrong. Before lending money to close friends and relations it's always good to agree on repayment terms ![]() |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by stanisbaratheon: 1:47pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
It is so sad that guys are still training pigeons in this day and age. |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Meritocracy: 1:48pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Don't borrow your friend money you couldn't give, whether filling the form or not, you will regret your action at the end. Beside he's not spending money on business but shameless hole. |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Originalsly: 1:49pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Temiemmanuel: For the said reason.... would you lend your friend half of your life savings? Feel free to pretend you didn't read this. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Sanchez01: 1:49pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:Sincerely, I don't expect him to pay up again. I moved past that episode already. I am quite active on WhatsApp and he sees my status updates regularly and the fact that I completely shut him out is enough. Fiancée is angry and she wants me to take the issue up as the money is weighty someone but I can't. The way I raged when we had a confrontation over what he owes made me realize most of those around me do so because I am non-challant about things. The clown told another of our friend he was surprised I could ask for the money. Money you borrowed to finance/support your business o. And it wasn't like I owe him for an act or something he did. I doubt he has been beneficial before. These days, I tell those around me who ask to lend them money that I wouldn't lend money to anyone. If you come to me hoping to lend 100k, I'll whole heartedly give you 10k. That way, I know I gave it rather than have my mind fixated on something that will ruin so many things later. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by cjscon(m): 1:49pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
izospindle:where does this ur friend and girl friend stay,i could help |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by stieyven(m): 1:49pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Davash222:He who calls another a fool shall be in danger of hell. Matthew 5 :22 |
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