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Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Equal2DeTask(m): 1:50pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
virgoquin: I have an uncle like that.... |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by drmikeadams(m): 1:53pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Davash222: ![]() ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 1:53pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Sanchez01: Same here. I'd rather give what I can afford than lend. The huge sums of money I lost before I learnt my lesson, eh. Dumb people who don't repay don't seem to realise that funding a business with stolen money is a surefire way to ensure that the business never prospers. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 1:54pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Davash222: Thank you brother. They're both stupid. |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by maasoap(m): 1:55pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
We4all: Not this kind of saving to begin with. Secondly, how will he be sure that he can repay the loan when he is not investing the money? |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by tiwiex(m): 1:55pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Anonymous29: Why didn't he just tell him he did not have. It will shock him that the guy sef get money we pass in savings. He is taking the piss and using this girl friend story to get money because he is aware of the money and knows how loyal his friend can be. Bleep him and keep ya money. 2 Likes |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Ebenezar2020(m): 1:55pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
affable4: @OP izospindle if the money he's borrowing is a capital to invest on a business which will fetch him more income then I'd advise u lend him but since u stated plainly that it's for his girlfriend then there's no assurance he'll repay it. Just don't give him else you'd regret it |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Martinez39(m): 1:55pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Your friend is a fool. He is borrowing and going into debt because of a girl. A girl that he isn't certain to end up with. A girl that is sleeping around and has many "options" (she will eventually end up with her best option financially). Why must he be her financial messiah? She no get papa? Her mama no dey? She no fit hustle? Your friend is a fool. ![]() You should have dismissed him right away instead of attempting to give him the money under safe condition. Dismissing him is what he deserves. 6 Likes |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Sanchez01: 1:56pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:On point, the emboldened! A case of hoping to add weight after eating a meal that is cursed. |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by missimelda01(f): 1:57pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
You're smart ma'am virgoquin: |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Cchuks27(m): 1:58pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Lenadiva: Baby girl you looking sharp. Permission to slide into your pm? |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by doncollins84: 1:58pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
guy if you give him that money your name na sorry |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by slaypapa: 1:59pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Don't give him the money. Full stop! |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Ebenezar2020(m): 1:59pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
stieyven:mumu stop quoting bible passage ignorantly. go and acquire education cos religion without senses makes u look stupir 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by bluecircle470: 2:02pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
They should keep a close watch at that friend ooo because him go wan commit suicide sooner the girl go jilt am 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by SocialJustice: 2:03pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
izospindle:Let him go away. Loan to pay school fees. Country is hard, do not borrow any money except you can afford to lose it or have it repaid in pieces and a very long time. That form you're even asking him to sign is no guaranty you will get your money back. |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by overlord77: 2:06pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
virgoquin: Very eloquently and smartly said. Chop knuckle abeg. ![]() |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Sirseedorf(m): 2:07pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
It's easy to borrow money but hard to return it. People smile when receiving borrowed money, but turn it to fight when you ask them for the return. My Guy, get sense. |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by CyberWolf: 2:09pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Immediately you mentioned to pay girlfriend school fees, my intestines turned. So some niggars still make this stupid mistake? Tell him to simply tell the girlfriend that he doesn’t have money to pay her school fees. If she loose the admission because of lack of funds, she should look for work, save up money and try again next year. Nonsense ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by DexterousOne(m): 2:11pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
jaxxy: True sha Women |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by xavuv: 2:13pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Huh! Which kind yeye form. Let us change the question : should you borrow you friend money to pay his GF school fees? See, it is easy to answer OP with a definite 'NO' but Pls i want us to understand the scenery at play here. In the OP's case, now let us put on our school day's OT & advise him in that manner. These guys in the narrative are still in school. We all know what is obtained therein as we take issues girlfriends/boyfriends too serious as if that's what our parents sent us there to do. Yes! We know It is wrong, but that is school life for you. So there should be no surprises if a guy wants to pay his girlfriend school fees. Now OP, this friend of yours, if he is a close/tight friend then please lend him IF you can. What he wants to do with the money should NOT SOLIDLY be your concern. That is what tight friends do - support each other, right? If he's not a close friend then you can easily tell him you don't have instead of asking him to fill a stupid form. Or are you too living a fake life/doing BABA OLOWO in school? ![]() ______ Me wey i don leave school tey tey, gathered more life experiences, seen ups and downs and OP asks me that kind question then my first response without thinking will be NO just as many that responded here ( as in why should OP borrow his friend money just to pay girlfriend school fees). However, "NO" is a wrong answer. izospindle: |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by munezo(m): 2:15pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Nice one. My simple rule is exactly what your bold texts depicts. It settles it all. virgoquin: |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by therajah: 2:16pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
izospindle:You gave half of ur savings to some1 just by filling a form!!!!? At this time!!! You dint collect any collareral?? Abeg let him say watever!! That u even borrowed him at all he shld be grateful. He is not ready to pay back that money! If he doesnt talk to you, does it reduce ur account balance? Or does talking with him increases your account balance? If that kind of person 'unfriends' you, God has started answering your 2020 prayers to take away your problems'. You have done the wise thing! I shld have done same in the past. I lost 100s of thousand cos i dint ask pple to fill forms! |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 2:17pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Temiemmanuel: Then send him the money to borrow his friend. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 2:24pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
To be broke is a really bad thing |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by captainking(m): 2:26pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
You did not.. But next time.. You don't have money.. That should be your response.. Gorrit? If it's for health.. Or something life threatening.. You can borrow.. |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
What is the meaning of a girlfriend please?? 100L fresher don't have parent to pay her school fees?? |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by redpencil: 2:30pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
stubbornman:Stubborn man. I hail ooo 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
imiski:Noted ![]() |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by iso604: 2:31pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Davash222:But the money nor go reach to buy sense |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by avast01(m): 2:32pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
your friend is just trying to be smart borrowing money to fund a shakily flimsy relationship its a win win for him cos he doesn't have to pay you back, even with your form. |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by sulaak(m): 2:32pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
izospindle: You have done the right thing. Friends will normally exploit your relation and refuse to pay back the money. In future, just say you haven't got the money. I have four former friends that own me thousand of dollars, there will never be a fifth borrowing friend. |
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