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Re: . by amadiwati(m): 7:15pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
You want to use your hand to destroy your marriage because of another man. He's your husband not your boyfriend. He has 100% control of your life. As much as you do. I dont understand the role of privacy in marriage. "Two shall become one". Beside, there are some conversation that is not suppose to happen with an opposite sex when you're are married. Personally, it is better you walk away from a marriage that cheat. I'm not criticising you. It is just my opinion. PrincessJoyy: |
Re: . by Femsyn(m): 7:27pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
OP, you too judge yourself. Why are you so hellbent in the continued "relationship" with your childhood friend, and discussing intimate issues. Your husband is a very calm man. By the way, i appreciate your sincerity in the write-up. 1 Like |
Re: . by bukatyne(f): 7:30pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
crackkhaus: The feeling of been desired is a general human feeling. Everyone wants to be desired As a married woman/man, you automatically have only one person you should desire their desire. The OP is very selfish. Hubby was romantic and she was in love. He stopped and instead of her to fetch the reserve in her love bank account and make the guy romantic again, she drained her love bank account waiting and turned to her ex. The husband even came back to start afresh and madam continued with the ex instead of her to embrace her husband and build their love accounts again. As it occurred to her that her husband stopped been romantic because his own love bank account is empty because she never gave and only took? I don't know why some people like to solve a problem with another one. Instead of her to invest her emotions making her husband romantic again, she decided to face an ex that did not love her enough to marry her. |
Re: . by sisisioge: 8:12pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Bet why are you still carrying on with the childhood love after being happily married? If your ways are indeed pure, you wouldn't have to be "chatting and deleting" like you were. Biko be guided...do not get carried away unnecessarily. |
Re: . by pocohantas(f): 9:44pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
izzou: Lol, she no well at all. I want to believe she is trolling. This is why God commanded the man to love o. When a man loves, e go hard for am to let go. Imagine if say her husband na one of these red pillers- this her mumuness done reach to end the marriage since na. When them knack am twice, her blood go come down. Then she'll lose both men. Not like she ever had the childhood friend. Instead of her to help her husband to plan their retirement and rekindle what they had (after 11yrs in marriage), she dey mumu. Toor! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: . by Nnetriplet: 10:08pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
I don't know how to say this without being harsh but you are a very stupid woman...what is it that your husband must have done that you cant forgive him... And one thing most women don't know is that all men probably reason the same way...that your so called childhood friend will also be seeing you as a hoe....she just kept the other one there not for anything but just as something or someone to "console" herself that she has someone outside after all if anything happens someone is waiting for me outside that kinda thing ...mumu |
Re: . by crackkhaus: 8:18am On Jan 31, 2020 |
bukatyne:@bold, it's easier said than done. By the time the OP receives her exes' rod two or three times, her sight will be clearer HOPEFULLY. Hopefully because, when it comes to women who find themselves in situations like this, you can never know what those emotions can make them do. I mean, I know of a young married woman who met a guy and the only thing she kept telling him was how they should run away together even after they had started having sex, she just did not want it to end there. I could not believe my ears when I heard the gist. When people say a cheating wife is far worse than a cheating husband, they're not far from the truth. The OP does not have any deep feelings for her husband anymore, as is usually the case for any married woman who develops feelings for another man. Unlike men who can have deep feelings for two women equally for different reasons, it is very difficult for a woman to have deep feelings for two men at the same time. Those who can accomplish it are gamers or career hos...quote me anywhere. Your emotional reservoirs were not built with those kind of specifications. |
Re: . by Lamanii22(f): 5:29pm On Jan 31, 2020 |
Don't be stubborn... Respect your husband's wishes... Stop talking to that guy... The more you keep connection with that other guy.. The more you start developing feelings for him... So my dear, no one's that disciplined, it takes a split second to cheat.. You're the only one who can make peace reign.. Your husband simply want your undivided attention... 2 Likes |
Re: . by cococandy(f): 9:55pm On Jan 31, 2020 |
How do you handle the situation? Cut the guy loose. Block him. Ignore him. Tell him those conversations are over. Concentrate on your family and let him move the fvck on. Can’t believe you created a thread for this. 1 Like |
Re: . by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jan 31, 2020 |
Pls NLanders I need ur help unseeing this trash?
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Re: . by yvelchstores(f): 6:29am On Feb 01, 2020 |
Are you OK madam? Which nonsense child hood friend is that? Respect yourself and stop communicating with that friend of yours. Your husband even tried. What you are brewing, when it is ready, you will not be able to digest it. Mind yourself, you no try, honestly! 1 Like |
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