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Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by Amanee(f): 8:42am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Op you are 100% right 4 Likes |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by Nobody: 12:16pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Acidosis:true. We really need better orientation as a society. Family approval is important in a marriage 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by Ishilove: 3:12pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
crackkhaus:It's a simple sturvz, really ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by fredopareto(m): 9:57pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
I can say she is right and also Wrong..I see it as an open eye..### |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by GreatResearcher: 10:59pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:Have u ever asked yourself, when these women leave their jobs to stay with relatives in the hospital, who provide the bill? The men of course. Did that your friend tell u that most of these women when they are bein sent by their husbands to go stay with relatives in the hospital for some weeks, they spent few days in the hospital and most of the days in their sugar daddy's hotel room. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by Nobody: 11:59pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
GreatResearcher:you are very bitter and insecure. I would advise you to see a therapist after what happened. You are becoming a toxic person. 6 Likes |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by GreatResearcher: 8:32am On Mar 14, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:i am not toxic. It's d truth 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by frozen70(f): 1:28pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
Your question about sickness and health works better in situations where thean really prove himself by taking care if his home amd loving his wife No woman will leave such a man |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by proclinician: 3:02pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: This is the most irrational and unintelligent post i have ever read today. I won't go into the dynamics of women being psychologically more empathic towards a helpless one and would be more triggered to offer help which is why women starting with Florence Nightingale started the nursing profession. I will focus on the inequality in income distribution in Nigeria and world over. It is no news that men preponderantly receive more pay in salaries than women whom do not really get to climb in careers because of the glass ceiling. In nigerian households where both parents are employed men tends to get more pay than women and this has been a subject of feminist debates in saner climes except the imbeciles in Nigeria that seek entitlements from men all in the name of feminism. You even have households where women are unemployed or self employed or even underemployed while the men are the breadwinners. Which is why the women are most of the times available because of the flexibility they enjoy and are in a better position psychologically and otherwise to be there and provide care. How many times will employers grant a staff leave with allowance to go and stay with a sick child in this Nigeria? During my primary school i was admitted in a hospital my dad works in a bank and my mom was a teacher. The bank provided medical insurance for our family already so we didn't have to pay medical expense and It was easier for my mom to come to the hospital and stay since she has to teach one or two subjects 3-4 days in a week and of course earns less than my dad with no insurance. My dad only gets to drop by in the morning, during lunch to bring ice cream and in the evening before going home to prepare for next day work while my mom stayed. Pls before you talk nonsene understand some pressing issues pay attention to dynamics. Before u come and reply nonsense here ask yourself between ur dad and mon who earns more money and whom will it be more economically viable and wise to resign and take care of a sick child or parent while the other stays on the job. Peradventure you have a useless dad it's not my problem. |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by Nobody: 5:01pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
proclinician:Well your dad came, some don't come at all. Not coming at all is what I have an issue against. Abandoning your terminally ill wife is what my issue is. If you work in the clinical setting, you know how it is. I am not in the mood to fight abeg |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by Nobody: 5:01pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
GreatResearcher:it is your truth. Not the truth |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by Magnoliaa(f): 9:46pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
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Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by Magnoliaa(f): 10:14pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
Ishilove: I wonder what the point of anything we do is then. Since it's nature. It can't be changed. There's no point of civilization, education, social institutions and structures, communication and technology. All of these are NOT natural. I wonder how and why we changed, to get to this stage that we're at in human history and development. The suitable, compatible natural design would have remained since it's natural. It could have only been the best way. We should have remained naked, eating raw food and drinking from rivers. So, I wonder how deviations from 'conventionality' arose. Where they came from. Unless you'll agree that it's not all natural, then nothing else could explain the changes in human behavior. Certainly not biology. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by pocohantas(f): 7:41am On Mar 15, 2020 |
proclinician: Wow. So women are now psychologically more empathetic? I thought after devil women should be feared o. Franchasng, what do you have to say about this? ![]() ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by franchasng: 7:52am On Mar 15, 2020 |
pocohantas:To some extent he is right; women love fixing spoilt things to acquire, not to fix and let go. That is why they fall for bad guys, they want to change them and become their Cinderella but it always end in tears or grave. Women show more empathy to an outsider than men, but just remain outside their home because when you come into their home, their empathetic behavior towards you may turn to horror. And the women empathetic behavior is common to mostly white women, it can be found among very few black women. Google 'Resistance Women' and read more about their bravity. White women are way different from black women when it comes to empathy, but black women also have some areas they are better than white women |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by pocohantas(f): 7:55am On Mar 15, 2020 |
franchasng: But we are talking of black women here na. All the women in the story tending to a sick child and horseband are black/Nigerian. Can you kindly stick to that and explain? ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by franchasng: 8:03am On Mar 15, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:This is Biological than psychological. Before you can understand what you wrote better, you need to understand Biology. A woman is a vessel of production designed to produce, care and give life to her loved ones, a man is a vessel of protection designed to protect and provide. Women have the genetic trait to care for their loved one due to their biological design than men. A woman can patiently breastfeed her sick baby hoping he or she gets well but a man won't be patient enough to do same because he is wired to act and react different to such situation. The only place I disagree with is in the area of financial provision because I doubt that part of your post. The men would believe by natural default that providing money will take absolute care of their sick loved one even if they are not physically around while the women would naturally believe that staying around is the most vital to the persons recovery. So this thing has to do with human biological trait than assumed gender misbehavior like you think 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by franchasng: 8:08am On Mar 15, 2020 |
pocohantas:yes you guys are absolutely correct; women are more empathetic to their immediate loved ones than men when it comes to care giving. This is different from how you treat a distant relative, a stranger or a child who isn't your biological child that is living in the same home with you. Women's empathy towards strangers and non-immediate relatives end the moment they move into the woman's home, once you do, she assumes you to be her slave and expect you to quantify whatever little favor (feeding, shelter) she is giving to you with quadruple workload, and if you fail, you incur her wrath |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by ednut1(m): 8:09am On Mar 15, 2020 |
This babe funmi u get issue smh |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by proclinician: 8:22am On Mar 15, 2020 |
pocohantas: LoL queen relax. It used to be that way then things changed. Nursing initially wasn't a profession just a group of ladies that love to come around the hospital to clean up patients, feed them, just help them. then gradually they felt they should have some sort of organization or a union with rules u know dos and donts then gradually a profession with code of ethics of practice. |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by Magnoliaa(f): 2:57pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
FrLukas: No. Not exactly. Don't see negativity in everything... There are many things the thread points to. And also draws attention to. Like how men can be more involved in emotional matters. |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by DateMynd44(m): 3:10pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
crackkhaus:the guy sef don japa |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by Nobody: 3:20pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Magnoliaa: Well, I would concur with your view, but here's the last statement she made on the thread which makes it all suspect These men ain't loyal!! Sounds like she has a beef with men. If she was counseling men to be more emotionally involved, the tone of the post won't be accusatory. It would be more engaging. |
Re: Dear Wives, Is In Sickness And In Health, For Better For Worse Really True?? by Omenaalanka: 3:21pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
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