Folks any time i take decision in my house, my wife tells me she will think about it. Thereafter she consults her idle elder brother or old mother, only to come and say she disagreed. When things were really going down for me, we both agreed to reloate the family but not long after she declined. I cannt plan my home, pls advise on what i should do.

@ poster
Take full responsibility of your home as a man.Even the white women can't control their black husband that way let alone black women controlling black men.

Sit er fat thin azz down n get it straight in2 er empty dry skull,u r d man n u v ryts as er husband
BTW do u live on er family?

I think you need to put your foot firmly on the ground, you are the man of the house and you have the final say on what happens there.

My advice: there's somfin btw ur legs, cut it off, u don't deserve it. God gave us balls for a purpose. If d elder bro is staying in ur house, ask him d hell outta ya house, I've always been against hitting women but in dis case, ur wife needs some.

Op is ur wife the bread winner?cos i don't see why u shouldn't be able to have control over a house u pay for.

Do they live with you?