densiks:

You should be more worried about contacting Covid-19

proclinician:


It's all about love. Leonardo Di' Caprio could have saved his life in the Titanic shipwreck but instead switched his life for the lady. I don't want to talk about Jesus Christ. Love look what you made me do. Each day I go to crunches to eat I see a man and a lady on same table and the Lady will be eating food while the man just mopes. Well

LadyBeee:
Since I started dating, I've never met a man like this. So caring, cute, neat, hygienic, generous but unfortunately, he doesn't have much but the little he has, he'll spend on you and make you feel like a queen.

He stays in one room face me I face u. Initially, when I found out, I said I was going to quit but the love he showed me was so overwhelming and I couldn't quit. He said he's making plans to move out and he won't be renewing his rent in may. I agreed.

I fell in love with him too and became comfortable with his room but I made it clear that I will never pass the night at his place. You know how love can be blind, I found myself pass the night once and again and again then I asked him about his plans to move out, how much does he have at hand to rent a new place because I was secretly planning to support him with some money to add and he said he doesn't have up to 30k. I was angry and so dissapointed at him.

Right now I'm thinking the whole thing over. I don't think I can continue. Please advise me


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Ariza:
If you can't rent house for him like he would do if reverse were to be the case , Aunty carry your bag and go!

You can't cook food in the passage but you can comfortably eat out making the guy spend more. Aunty you have eaten his accommodation money already nah.

emmaodet:


Abi ooooooo.
Funny enough, if you check where the lady is staying, it is still face me i face you too but will be looking for a richer guy.

LadyBeee:
fool. Kids , hiding behind their keyboards

emmaodet:


Ode. You are the real fool and kid here.
Broke lady looking for relationship/marriage to alleviate her from poverty.
You better go and double your hustle so as to live a good life you are yearning for.
Whether you marry him or not, it won't change the fact that you will still live a poor life if you don't hustle.
Ozuo

LadyBeee:
at least I mentioned that I wanted to support him with some money, that's to tell u I'm not broke. Has ur girlfriend ever spent 1k on you? Idiot. read my post well before you comment or go and die

emmaodet:


Lol.
First of all, am married with a kid so don't do bf/gf ishh anymore.
Personally, i won't even date someone like you even if am single and to date.
Why?
Because you assume you are not broke just for been able to raise a meagre 30k.
To me, you are broke and we are not in the same societal class, thus our thinking, taste and wants won't be on the same frequency.
It's your call, you can dump him because you are not really doing him any favour by staying.
Ciao

LadyBeee:
you are so dumb . Read my post well please. I see u don't understand simple English. Where did I mention that I raised 30k? Maybe you have eye problem

Nn3muka:
The day you start supporting a man to pay rent, will be the beginning of all your problems.
Be ready to continue paying rents for the rest of your life.

It's either you take a walk now, or support him.

Belafonte:


In other words, he can only have sex when he has money, aka olosho tinz

LadyBeee:
you are so dumb . Read my post well please. I see u don't understand simple English. Where did I mention that I raised 30k? Maybe you have eye problem

BigJoe19:
She should quit the relationship if she wants to, at least the guy would be smarter next time to keep his money to himself and see through women's fake love.

ImaIma1:


Really? Never heard this before. Where was it stated that someone cannot have love and riches?

Lightangel65:


Nope would you still love him if he goes broke

emmaodet:


Abi ooooooo.
Funny enough, if you check where the lady is staying, it is still face me i face you too but will be looking for a richer guy.

Ariza:


You guys dey try nah

emmaodet:


Maria, u sabi laffffffffff. Wetin
Any comment u make, u must put laffing emoji.
Maria, come bi my second wife now? I don dey give u dis offer snc last uear u dey du shakara.

lefulefu:
u mean those ones in lagos? a gate man in lagos will be living in one room with his wife and 15 chuldren when he can easily locate to his hometown and rent a decent abode and get a good job.everybody wants to live in lagos

ImaIma1:


Not every lady will suffer with a man from scratch. It doesn't make them bad people. Each person has what they can and cannot take.

emonis88:

And the already made guy, when he might have financial issues, the lady il find another already made man. What does that make the lady? Parasite? Or what?

ImaIma1:


Why is that always the argument? That he must have financial issues later. It's becoming a cliche.

Must every lady marry a struggling guy?

Are already made men supposed to remain single? Is it only the struggling guy that deserves to be married?

Is it every already made guy that will have financial issues that will make him broke? Financial issues have levels.

Let's be open minded and stop portraying struggling guys as the best option for marriage.

CsRockefeller:


You are right.