Stacyomolola:

Who is deceiving who with marriage talk ?
op never made any instance of her forcing marriage on him, i think op is the one deceiving her with marriage issues
Imagine marrying someone u know barely 3months or 3weeks

so in other words u saying op is just using the marriage angle to deceive the girl so as to chop free kpomo ?

zigirl56:
Men sha, here I am having problem with my my guy for not calling my ex that we broke up a long time ago and here is another guy having problem with his girl for calling her ex. Nawa o this life na pot of soup sha. Lol

This is the worse thing I have heard all day... ur guy dey vex say u no dey in contact with ur Ex?

Babe dont take that guy serious o.. the color of his problem is diagonal grey

fulaniHERDSman:
Dem use U dey pass time. Once whistle blow dem go re-start 2nd half.
My guy, approach the game with TIP TAP FROM BOTH SIDES WITH OCCASIONAL TEAR AWAY.
ATTACK TOO CONSTANTLY FROM FLANKS, BUT DON'T FORGET TO FIRE FROM OUTSIDE THE BOX.
DO I HAVE TO REMIND U TO MAINTAIN DEFENSIVE SOLIDITY, WHILE ENSURING VERSATILITY IN MID FIELD.

Coachie.

aimuan:
Hello Nairalanders.

Pls I need a genuine advice.. I met this girl for like 2 months now, and we just started dating about 3 weeks ago. Sincerely I am not interested in sex or whatsoever now until maybe later or after marriage.

The reason I really want to marry her is because of her family. I know her sister and the husband, they are very kind, so that's why I am interested in marrying this girl.

But however, she speaks pationately with her ex, which add credence to the fact that they are still in love, though she told me there is no chance of them ever coming back, even though the guy wants her back..

I feel she may go back to him in the future given how they communicate. Should I end the relationship and search for another girl?

Please I need advice

Dude run away from that relationship.... Speaking from experience

RisenPhoenix:


Then your only solution is to find a woman without an ex. If she has an ex, she will always wonder what it would have been like if she was with him instead of with you. She will sometimes dream of him and maybe imagine him doing the do while you are doing all the sweating. And she will certainly have a quickie or two if she can get away with it; I've had an ex a week to her wedding before and several others have tried hard to hook up after their marriages, so I am sure of this.

Ask any truthful woman with an ex who dumped her. She will tell you... with a dreamy smile behind the mask.

Ha mofo o, well u are damn right

royalpens6200:


okay,,,,, come and marry me,,,, dm if you are interested... waiting

Hello

aimuan:
Hello Nairalanders.

Pls I need a genuine advice.. I met this girl for like 2 months now, and we just started dating about 3 weeks ago. Sincerely I am not interested in sex or whatsoever now until maybe later or after marriage.

The reason I really want to marry her is because of her family. I know her sister and the husband, they are very kind, so that's why I am interested in marrying this girl.

But however, she speaks pationately with her ex, which add credence to the fact that they are still in love, though she told me there is no chance of them ever coming back, even though the guy wants her back..

I feel she may go back to him in the future given how they communicate. Should I end the relationship and search for another girl?

Please I need advice

Break up with her, so that she will be talking with yo passionately as the most current EX.

Be wise man

baralatie:

so you want to marry somebody you are just seeing for 3 weeks
naa soo!

this is what happen when you are desperate to get married and u where not in any serious relationship before, that's why i will always say don't wait until you want to get married before u start looking for a girl or serious relationship

I don die, I laff sotay I forget brockos inside toto

fulaniHERDSman:
Dem use U dey pass time. Once whistle blow dem go re-start 2nd half.
My guy, approach the game with TIP TAP FROM BOTH SIDES WITH OCCASIONAL TEAR AWAY.
ATTACK TOO CONSTANTLY FROM FLANKS, BUT DON'T FORGET TO FIRE FROM OUTSIDE THE BOX.
DO I HAVE TO REMIND U TO MAINTAIN DEFENSIVE SOLIDITY, WHILE ENSURING VERSATILITY IN MID FIELD.

[quote author=aimuan post=88034391]Hello[/quot
Drop your WhatsApp no,,, I will chat you up

Chaiii.
Wise up bro, go find another GF, plenty nice family dey.
No rush take your time.
Nothing good comes easy.
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aimuan:
Hello Nairalanders.

Pls I need a genuine advice.. I met this girl for like 2 months now, and we just started dating about 3 weeks ago. Sincerely I am not interested in sex or whatsoever now until maybe later or after marriage.

The reason I really want to marry her is because of her family. I know her sister and the husband, they are very kind, so that's why I am interested in marrying this girl.

But however, she speaks pationately with her ex, which add credence to the fact that they are still in love, though she told me there is no chance of them ever coming back, even though the guy wants her back..

I feel she may go back to him in the future given how they communicate. Should I end the relationship and search for another girl?

Please I need advice

you are a fuckboy walai.......

aimuan:
Thankx for the advice anyway. But I am actually not interested in that Toto.I have gone past that.Toto does not really move me,I just need a wife that all..

Mugu, you are not interested in toto but need a wife, can you hear yourself?

AfroKnight:
Let me paint a picture.

She continues to contact her ex without hiding it from you. You begin to think she’s at the least, honest with you cos she is not concealing this fact. After a while, you get worried at the frequency and nature of their conversations. So you complain about it. She becomes defensive almost immediately. She tells you there’s nothing romantic between them, that they are just friends. She may even imply (or declare outright) that you are insecure. This jab hurts you but “love” compels you to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Little by little, you are conditioned to condone this unusual friendship she shares with her ex. You raise your suspicions and she shuts you down again and again. Then she begins to call you a controlling and intrusive partner. She says you are letting your insecurities drive you.

Meanwhile, she’s having steady sex or going on dates with her ex. But you’ve been browbeaten to accept the lie she feeds you. Until one day she makes a mistake and you catch her red handed and then she gets angry or teary eyed and she walks away from the relationship, claiming that he seduced her in her moment of weakness or some other bullshît like that.

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Bro, you are leading yourself to this bus stop. It is the worst feeling, when your gut tells you something and you fold your arms and watch it metamorphose into a nightmare. Make it a binary solution. She either limits her contact with her ex drastically or you breakup. If you condone nonsense she will take advantage and ruin you.

The artist.... I give it to you......your really an artist... The guy is still a learner, though I think he needs to learn something from that thing he's calling a relationship, make the girl use am play draft first........ Anyways what do I even know?, some boys are dumb and foolish @ same time sha.

Don't just leave yourself in the middle of "No where'", even you:know it.


Just free her to decide; the matter, and Waka. Your lost is okay; at least,Toto no mean anything to you.

OR :Otherwise ; "YOU ARE FAR FROM YOUR JUNCTION"!

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Flames000:


This is the worse thing I have heard all day... ur guy dey vex say u no dey in contact with ur Ex?

Babe dont take that guy serious o.. the color of his problem is diagonal grey

same thing here, original me when we are dine oti pari we are done, two day ago me I am still making contact with my ex cos a friend said it's not polite and my ex wants to keep tslking to me

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I've broken up with him a long ago. Lol

Flames000:


This is the worse thing I have heard all day... ur guy dey vex say u no dey in contact with ur Ex?

Babe dont take that guy serious o.. the color of his problem is diagonal grey

You're just a rebound.

Na express you dey guy man

aimuan:
Hello Nairalanders.

Pls I need a genuine advice.. I met this girl for like 2 months now, and we just started dating about 3 weeks ago. Sincerely I am not interested in sex or whatsoever now until maybe later or after marriage.

The reason I really want to marry her is because of her family. I know her sister and the husband, they are very kind, so that's why I am interested in marrying this girl.

But however, she speaks pationately with her ex, which add credence to the fact that they are still in love, though she told me there is no chance of them ever coming back, even though the guy wants her back..

I feel she may go back to him in the future given how they communicate. Should I end the relationship and search for another girl?

Please I need advice

"The reason I really want to marry her is because of her family. I know her sister and the husband, they are very kind, so that's why I am interested in marrying this girl....."
Guy you must be a comedian

Papertrails:


The artist.... I give it to you......your really an artist... The guy is still a learner though I think he needs to learn something from that thing he's calling a relationship, make the girl use am play draft first........ Anyways what do I even know?, some boys are dumb and foolish @ same time sha.

just because I seek for opinion so I have become foolish? I never said the girl was using me or I was much into her..The way some of you nairalanders reasons is really pathetic. Spits

Shine your eyes bro.
Don't be in a hurry find another girl, its tits time we stop letting girls use of head wise up bro.

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aimuan:
Hello Nairalanders.

Pls I need a genuine advice.. I met this girl for like 2 months now, and we just started dating about 3 weeks ago. Sincerely I am not interested in sex or whatsoever now until maybe later or after marriage.

The reason I really want to marry her is because of her family. I know her sister and the husband, they are very kind, so that's why I am interested in marrying this girl.

But however, she speaks pationately with her ex, which add credence to the fact that they are still in love, though she told me there is no chance of them ever coming back, even though the guy wants her back..

I feel she may go back to him in the future given how they communicate. Should I end the relationship and search for another girl?

Please I need advice

first of all.....u re stupid for planning to marry a girl because of her family n nt because u love her.....how old re u.
dnt nid advice, ur first step already is totally wrong... anything u see frm d girl take it like that n carry ur cross

aimuan:
Thankx for the advice anyway. But I am actually not interested in that Toto.I have gone past that.Toto does not really move me,I just need a wife that all..

Do you mean you don't mind that her ex may still be nyashing her?

If you collect the toto in this case, it is a sign of commitment to you. If you no collect, you have given her the excuse to keep fvcking her ex.

Basically, it is after she sex you that you can be sure of one step closer to marriage. A responsible girl will not do you and her ex at the same time. If she no sex you she is still with her ex.

Giving that she still talks with her ex is not confirmation for anything, you just need to mark your territory like most animals will do.

Homeboiy:


Look at this one

So all the people given u advice here are fornicators abi

Well collect her ex number and start speaking with him also

Nzuzu

You don't insult one because of his belief. It makes you look stupid.

He said that he's not interested in having premarital sex.
Na dat one dey vex you so?

sogud:



first of all.....u re stupid for planning to marry a girl because of her family n nt because u love her.....how old re u.
dnt nid advice, ur first step already is totally wrong... anything u see frm d girl take it like that n carry ur cross

You are very stupid. Why don't you pass by if you have nothing to contribute?

Women are moved by the least things u expect, a lady's next move in a relationship, even she self doesn't know,they make decisions instanter especially when they are not yet married

aimuan:
Hello Nairalanders.

Pls I need a genuine advice.. I met this girl for like 2 months now, and we just started dating about 3 weeks ago. Sincerely I am not interested in sex or whatsoever now until maybe later or after marriage.

The reason I really want to marry her is because of her family. I know her sister and the husband, they are very kind, so that's why I am interested in marrying this girl.

But however, she speaks pationately with her ex, which add credence to the fact that they are still in love, though she told me there is no chance of them ever coming back, even though the guy wants her back..

I feel she may go back to him in the future given how they communicate. Should I end the relationship and search for another girl?

Please I need advice

Same thing my ex said, that made me leave her. Guess what?
They got married last year. Be wise!!!

Now that you know, you only have two options, either you leave her and find another suitable lady, but know this thing that, you can never get a perfect lady.
Option two is to hold on to her and carry your cross with her. No man will ever help you carry your burden. Have a safe choice

aimuan:
+233558408645..let's chat on telegram rather.

sorry, I'm not on telegram, you can drop you Gmail or Whatsapp no....

if u like make u dey do like mumu, take ur time look for another beta woman , if u end up marrying her, trust me the pikin wen una go born nor go be ur own .... my broda just dey enjoy that toto first and look for another one .. or pass me her number make i help u dey Bleep am well well