Adakintroy2:


If you want to ask a question ask like a curious mind. Not like a belligerent mind trying to subvert authority. There are things a out there you are ignorant off. even the common sense things.

A man and a woman can take their vows in a narrow space with no one in sight there conscience alone baring them withness as to the truth of their confessions.

So even without the ceremonies they will be married before God. ( true state of the heart)

We fornication when we have sex with another with not the promise of the heart to keep the body and soul all unifield. A loose arrangement is what fornicating means more or less.

Iyiataata92:
He ''masturbates for a living''?
As in he masturbates and people pay him?
What a noble profession!!!

fulaniHERDSman:
Mumu talk. If na me, the slap U go receive, teeth no go remain U for mouth again. Na your priick
No respect again for this world.

freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

FatherBona:

I owe you a plate of isiewu for this reply

Babatunde40:
You are living with someone and judging him for masturbating. Have you thought maybe your presence hinders him from bringing girls home. Pack and let him be

freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

Iyiataata92:
He ''masturbates for a living''?
As in he masturbates and people pay him?
What a noble profession!!!

donbachi:
they are coming 4 u.

freeman131:


I never mentioned he's involved in premarital sex even if he's involved I really won't get guilty of what I know nothing of.

I'm only concerned about the one I've seen him do.

Seandisputed:

My brother i weak like mad.
Some so called Christians with their high level of hypocrisy.
One na sin but he sees nothing wrong in the other.

kiddkash:

show me the list of hall of famers
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tosyne2much
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lala

all of them follow abi?

NigeriaEngineer:
Bro. Masturbation is the works of the flesh and no psychological solution could help. The only solution is taking the problem to the cross of Jesus. Let him confess this words of romans 6:6-7 to the Lord.

"For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body ruled by sin might be done away with, that we should no longer be slaves to sin; because anyone who has died has been set free from sin."

Victory is of the Lord..

iammo:



Your Brother is a Medical Doctor, am sure he is knowledgeable when he has a problem and knows when to seek help medically

as for the sin part.. Moses stated every Laws YHWH Yahweh God (Abraham , Shedrac, Abnego) and of Christianity orders, and only him and Jesus had claimed to ever stand in presence of God YHWH, and Mastvrbation wasn't mentioned. even in the whole 1200 pages of your bible or isreali torah was never outlawed

what you are trying to do is guilt trap your brother into your own mindset with less knowledge, you would take him to your pastor and not God because you serve you pastor and he knows how to keep you in his flock

"will a non hypocritical , under achieving, manipulating brother ever use condescending words like his elder brother and benefactor, "masturbate for a living" , or should you even think of humiliating him by reporting him to "his Parents and Pastors" as if this people never did it before"

.

Juliusmomoh:

Is a sin o

FatherBona:

Your English teachers in school owe you an apology.

DarkJeddi:

Fornication is sex outside the confines of marriage..

Does such a vow or promise equate to marriage?

In other words,all you need to be married and enjoy sex is a proposal and an engagement?

Iyiataata92:
He ''masturbates for a living''?
As in he masturbates and people pay him?
What a noble profession!!!