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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by olamikhail(m): 5:12pm On Apr 01, 2020
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Adakintroy2:


Actually masturbatuon is a far more dangerouse sin because it leans more towards the unatural. If one continue in this, he or.she may loose interest in natural sex as with most addictions.

But if that girl is his girlfriend and they both agree to marry in spirit he is free to have sex wit her the rest outward marriage is but " ceremony"


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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by DarkJeddi(m): 5:13pm On Apr 01, 2020
Iyiataata92:
He ''masturbates for a living''?
As in he masturbates and people pay him?
What a noble profession!!!
wink

Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Nobody: 5:13pm On Apr 01, 2020
Meedon:



Okay what about having sex with many girls as a teenager tongue
that is sexual abuse.That is abusing the use of sex.
Paracetamol was made for fever and pains,but when someone takes paracetamol because it makes them feel good even when they don't have fever or pains,that is drug abuse.
Understand?
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Crenzywilliams(m): 5:13pm On Apr 01, 2020
Iyiataata92:
He ''masturbates for a living''?
As in he masturbates and people pay him?
What a noble profession!!!
Loooool...Omo you too correct.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by OBku4(m): 5:14pm On Apr 01, 2020
Ishitinyourlife:

You're olodo,he is a porn addict not a sex addict,if he was a sex addict he wouldn't be watching porn,by the way porn addict do not abuse children because they have little interest in sex with mature women not to talk of children.
grin wink
E be like say you be porn addict. hmn! cheesy
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Nobody: 5:14pm On Apr 01, 2020
OBku4:

Confusedfellow
pass
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Papadoh(m): 5:17pm On Apr 01, 2020
Babatunde40:
You are living with someone and judging him for masturbating. Have you thought maybe your presence hinders him from bringing girls home. Pack and let him be
What a sensible comment, The Force is ssstrong with you!

Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by mdchikezie(m): 5:17pm On Apr 01, 2020
freeman131:


I never mentioned he's involved in premarital sex even if he's involved I really won't get guilty of what I know nothing of.

I'm only concerned about the one I've seen him do.

KEEP WRITING RUBBISH YOU NEVER MENTIONED HE WAS INVOLVED IN PREMARITAL SEX WITH HIS SO CALLED VERY PRETTY GIRLFRIEND, BUT YOU MENTIONED THAT ALTHOUGH HE HAS A SO CALLED PRETTY GIRLFRIEND HE MASTURBATES SIMPLY MEANING THAT HE SHOULD HAVE SEX WITH HIS SO CALLED PRETTY GIRLFRIND INSTEAD OF MASTURBATING.
YOU ARE REALLY CONFUSED THO.......BUT I REALLY WONDER WHAT IS YOUR BUSINESS IF YOUR SENIOR BROTHER MASTURBATES,
YOU GET LUCK SAY I NO BE YOUR SENIOR BROTHER, I WOULD HAVE BEATEN YOU FROM THE HOUSE TO OUR PARENTS HOUSE AND YOU WILL TELL THEM, AND THEN AFTERWARDS I WILL BEAT YOU FROM MY PARENTS HOUSE TO THE PASTORS HOUSE AND YOU WILL STILL TELL HIM AFTERWARDS.

FatherBona:

ABEG PASTE THIS FOR FRONT PAGE

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Tvibes001(m): 5:17pm On Apr 01, 2020
Iyiataata92:
Bro just chill and read comments from this thread and you'll agree with me
All those that commented are MASTER-BETH-THORS.
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by 12345baba(m): 5:17pm On Apr 01, 2020
Spiritual cleansing kee u there
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by imagineheaven(m): 5:17pm On Apr 01, 2020
In life we all face challenges He, probably is trying to stop but can't . What if he's addicted? just like a liar loves talking? It's a bad habit. Probably a sin. But it's better we do without it. Make mention of the scene to anyone, brother. Pray for him instead.
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by OBku4(m): 5:19pm On Apr 01, 2020
emddi:
My brother,you don't know what masturbation takes away from you.Spirituality apart,I'm talking about your mental health.In fact you will lose your true self.
It is better to have a girlfriend and have sex with her,but the problem is that when you have sex with someone,be ready to stick to that person,cos in it real sense,SEX IS MARRIAGE!but a lot of people are blind to know the truth.

Bros you no know one thing of wetin you dey talk.
Just talking 'in the rubbish'.

At least research before coming to spew #$@&@

maybe start from google

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Meedon: 5:19pm On Apr 01, 2020
emddi:
that is sexual abuse.That is abusing the use of sex.
Paracetamol was made for fever and pains,but when someone takes paracetamol because it makes them feel good even when they don't have fever or pains,that is drug abuse.
Understand?


Then masturbating too is not a sin right?
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by kabanayol9(m): 5:19pm On Apr 01, 2020
ki ni tie? What's ur own.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Timileyin1234(m): 5:20pm On Apr 01, 2020
freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.
U still come online to report that I w*nk. No come house o

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by mapet: 5:20pm On Apr 01, 2020
freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

Just be true to yourself, you're so dying to report him...looks like you want to get a kick out of it.....

How come having a conversation with your brother is not on your list?
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Dollabiz: 5:21pm On Apr 01, 2020
Yes
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Nobody: 5:22pm On Apr 01, 2020
Constant sex is The solution
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Timileyin1234(m): 5:22pm On Apr 01, 2020
OBku4:


Bros you no know one thing of wetin you dey talk.
Just talking 'in the rubbish'.

At least research before coming to spew #$@&@

maybe start from google

Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Meedon: 5:22pm On Apr 01, 2020
emddi:
that is sexual abuse.That is abusing the use of sex.
Paracetamol was made for fever and pains,but when someone takes paracetamol because it makes them feel good even when they don't have fever or pains,that is drug abuse.
Understand?

That means masturbation is not a sin right?
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Nobody: 5:22pm On Apr 01, 2020
Meedon:



Then masturbating too is not a sin right?
Me I don't use the word sin?
I better use the word "ignorance".masturbation is ignorance at it peak
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by xavuv: 5:22pm On Apr 01, 2020
Hed0nist:




Till you get your own place, the only thing you should be concerned about is ensuring that he washes his hands after each meat beating session.

grin grin
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by DarkJeddi(m): 5:23pm On Apr 01, 2020
Lightangel65:


Exactly they are Hippocrates.

Both masturbation, pornography and pre marital sex are sins, that we should all avoid.

Yet some people who commit fornication will be condemning masturbators, when they are both doing the same sin.
Both of them should repent
HIPPOCRATES is the father of Medicine.. shocked
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by kiddkash(m): 5:24pm On Apr 01, 2020
freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.
masturbate for a living?
like he is being paid?
is it for a sperm bank?
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Adakintroy2: 5:24pm On Apr 01, 2020
bizzibodi:

Masturbation is a natural way of relieving sexual tension,even other lower primates masturbates.mind yu sexual urge is natural even holymen e.g pontiff do hav erections.

I never said sexual urge is not naturall.. I said mastubation isnt or leans more to the " unnatural. Now because the definition of "unaturall is subjective" in relation to sex we may have a haRd time finding common ground. In other to avoid such snag. I will try to explain i what sex is and you tell me if they both bares resemblance to be characterize as natural within the context of human progressive behavior.

the draw of sex calls us to bond with the opposite half It's both a natural and or spiritual experience.

,the process or buildup of sex leads to exchange. Sometimes of gift passions,.promise thoughts all of which may be absent in singular act of mastubation.

Second the draw of sex calls us to bond . An age long promise of unification of both halfs mind body and soul.

The third leads to babies. The ultimate show of continuity to which you are in part signatory. So when we are talking about natural or unaturall behaviors we are also talking of scopes. Broad progressives to which a single act "to relieveurge" do not cover. This is why it's a lazy act. This why it's unaturall or not natural enough. This why it's a sin.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Nobody: 5:25pm On Apr 01, 2020
OBku4:

Bros you no know one thing of wetin you dey talk. Just talking 'in the rubbish'.
At least research before coming to spew #$@&@
maybe start from google
let me understand what you mean.
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Crenzywilliams(m): 5:25pm On Apr 01, 2020
Seriously, what's wrong with this dude. He jerks off and so?!
Wait, you say he's got a girlfriend, so u don't mind if he has sex, but u are this bothered that he's jerking off, you're such a hypocrite man. Your duty as a brother is love him, support and be there for him, if at your age, you still take trivial stuff like this to your parents, I wonder when you'll grow up
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Sagay212: 5:26pm On Apr 01, 2020
So if you report him to your parents, they are going to flog him or disown him for masturbating? They'll prefer the goes around sleeping with different girls and expose himself to infections rather than masturbating?
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by tomju(m): 5:27pm On Apr 01, 2020
Iyiataata92:
He ''masturbates for a living''?
As in he masturbates and people pay him?
What a noble profession!!!

Guy, you are the meanest person on earth.. I swear. Na blue blood dey your veins o. No pity. grin grin grin grin
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by ussy09(m): 5:28pm On Apr 01, 2020
Seandisputed:

Lol you people will not kill me.
Masturbation is a sin but having premarital sex with the girlfriend is not? Some people are just confused in this life.
I tell u brother

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by redsun(m): 5:28pm On Apr 01, 2020
mapet:


Just be true to yourself, you're so dying to report him...looks like you want to get a kick out of it.....

How come having a conversation with your brother is not on your list?

I think he should be embarrassed to raise such issue with his brother. He should have pretended he didn't see see, because such a thing is highly personal and private and not his business, unless of course he is gay and incestuous in nature incestuous,
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Shugavee(f): 5:28pm On Apr 01, 2020
Let him be !!!!

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