My elder once told me when i was 17 years old that she is my mother, I later went to my mum and she explained to me that she is my grandma,

she explained to me that my dad ran away after when my mum decided not to terminate the pregnancy.

Early this year, i got a call from my sister which happen to be my mum that my dad came back to meet her,


he his hapily married with children and he spoke to me on phone, I have not seen him yet but please advice me on what to do on seeing him,

But since your mum wants you to meet your dad. Go see him then – with an open mind. Give him a chance to explain why he is 21 yrs late and an opportunity to make it up to you. All the best. And don’t forget God is your ultimate father.

uchetobi:

But since your mum wants you to meet your dad. Go see him then – with an open mind. Give him a chance to explain why he is 21 years late and an opportunity to make it up to you. All the best. And don’t forget God is your ultimate father.

good advice

Since the time he called me on phone, which is 1 month ago, He never showed up.

Maybe he is feeling guilty, so He doesn't know how to confront you, I advice you to go see him yourself and make him to understand what life has been without him.

what a pity well when u meet him welcome him as ur father.best regards

phew! these are the sort of complications a guy can do without. lobinexe, i do not envy you at all. but just go meet him. keep the doors open. but o, what hurt you must be going thru now. it makes me emotional already. take heart

If he still hasn’t shown up, don’t put your life on hold, go ahead with your normal activities, am sure when the time is right he’l have to show his face one way or the other, cheers

eeeh ya,
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