I dated a girl recently before we broke up(actually initiated it) ... all I fully observed about the girl is that she believes she can only escape poverty through marriage cos...she always say if she is dating a guy and things ain't moving well for him that she will leave that she won't suffer what her mum suffered in her dad's hands...

I've never hear her talk about using her own hands to make it... all she believes in his dat a rich man must marry her or she must marry a rich man...

I hear people say if a girl is your sister will you let her date a broke person... the question is must a girl always believe her only hope of survival is a man supporting her...don't dey have hands abi dey can't huzzle themselves cos I don't get.


pardon errors please.

Na only girls wey no like their partner dey get such myopic mindset. As for me, i no fit marry leech as wife.

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I wouldn't encourage anyone to be financially dependent on anyone, women especially. But it's a personal choice

I don't know you personally so I wouldn't know if you're a part of this category, but generally, the same men who notoriously use money to get women turn around to complain about women using and being dependent on them for money. These men encourage the system they supposedly hate...when it's convenient

I also don't think the average Nigerian man even has the money to be 'funding' these females we keep hearing about them supposedly cashing out on, and these very average men get married every day to average women, who hustle and contribute their fair share

It is the burden of being a man

providing for her during relationship is not a must, but you must provide for her in marriage, that is the reality.

A woman might endure with you for sometimes but when she constantly has to do things herself, she will question your manhood

Any girl who thinks her man should be responsible for her should not complain about patriarchy and whatever other perceived form of inequality. I mean! What’s more patriarchal than the notion that a man must be financially responsible for his woman as if she were a minor? Is she incapacitated? She’s not property. She can take care of herself too.

However women are hardly that logical when it comes to responsibilities that don’t favour them. They want you to spend and still accord them equally standing. Even these naija feminists.

If you want to marry them, you will have to overlook this. If not, you will wait long before you see someone with egalitarian convictions.