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My Husband's Family Is Sucking Him Dry / She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? / I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First (2) (3) (4)
Re: . by Ezennwa(m): 10:13am On May 01, 2020 |
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Re: . by Nobody: 10:14am On May 01, 2020 |
eboniest:WOMEN and PASTORS. WOMEN and GULLIBILITY when they see Pastors. Do they exhibit such Gullibility before their HUSBANDS Firstly, I have always told people that 95% of the Nigerian Pastors are Conmen. That means the moment a Nigerian Pastor approaches you, there are higher chances that he is a conman. Secondly, 99% of CHURCHES that came into existence starting from the year 2000 are absolutely FAKE. Ponder on these and be careful. 3 Likes |
Re: . by PrincessB1(f): 10:19am On May 01, 2020 |
Ezennwa:But the guy in question isn't talking about your pastor in this context. I Wonder why you will be taking diclofenac on another person's body pain. Just stay mute if you have no positive input. 1 Like |
Re: . by Ezennwa(m): 10:19am On May 01, 2020 |
EVILFOREST:what you think is what you are!! Be positive! 6 Likes |
Re: . by PrincessB1(f): 10:19am On May 01, 2020 |
Ezennwa:.
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Re: . by Ezennwa(m): 10:23am On May 01, 2020 |
PrincessB1:there's no way I can keep quiet, Something needs to be corrected here. Muslims like to tarnish the image of Christians, not even Pastors alone, while their so called IMAM'S are busy committing atrocities. We will not take it 7 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: . by eboniest(f): 10:26am On May 01, 2020 |
sisisioge:That's is what she told me but this said man should have used common sense if not for selfishness and tell her to keep atleast 70percent of the money to herself knowing fully well that she has children even if he wants her to sow a seed. |
Re: . by Mariangeles(f): 10:36am On May 01, 2020 |
eboniest: I don't think there's anything you or the law can do about since she gave of her own "freewill", and not under duress. Moreso, there's no way to prove that she was brainwashed. Still, it is better to try than not to try at all. Most importantly, don't underestimate the power of prayer. |
Re: . by sisisioge: 10:38am On May 01, 2020 |
eboniest: True, he's a greedy morafoooker...most of them are. We church goers need to use our heads. Chai...I'm still thinking it. Anyways, what you could do, go with her to see him and ask that he sows into your lives too. Reiterate how the seed you gave him has impacted your lives negatively and ask that he give back as much as he can. Also hint your willingness to testify in the church and on social media about his deed. Do this without confrontation o. It is well. 2 Likes |
Re: . by Mariangeles(f): 10:40am On May 01, 2020 |
Ezennwa: You can only speak for yourself. |
Re: . by Idiotmod: 10:44am On May 01, 2020 |
Your mom is stupid if I may say. Gave and idiot 3.5 and she kept 800k Ur mum has returned back to where she came from
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Re: . by princessBB1(f): 10:58am On May 01, 2020 |
People should fear God |
Re: . by Rekhina1(f): 11:01am On May 01, 2020 |
I don't have much to say, but remember, Jesus is the only way. |
Re: . by yvelchstores(f): 11:39am On May 01, 2020 |
I don't believe the story. Something is not well said here. |
Re: . by eboniest(f): 11:45am On May 01, 2020 |
yvelchstores:What don't you believe.. |
Re: . by eboniest(f): 11:47am On May 01, 2020 |
Idiotmod:Don't insult my mum if that's how you insult yours.. please 3 Likes |
Re: . by eboniest(f): 11:48am On May 01, 2020 |
sisisioge:Thanks very much.. |
Re: . by Idiotmod: 11:53am On May 01, 2020 |
eboniest:Why would my mom give pastor 3.5m, even is she doesn’t tell her husband she would tell us (children) b4 she do it
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Re: . by Kachi188(m): 11:59am On May 01, 2020 |
sisisioge: OP, i have to admit, this might be your best route to get Something back for your family. 1 Like |
Re: . by Denique(f): 12:04pm On May 01, 2020 |
The chances of Lai Mohammed entering heaven are higher than that of your mother getting a kobo back from the 'god of man' Few questions to ascertain the possibility of ever getting anything back: Was there any written agreement between both parties? Any witness(es)? Was it via Bank Transfer or Cash...If the former, did she put a note to it in the B.T description box? Was she under duress?- Any proof to this?? Was she having 'a relationship with the god of man'?... No offense, pls... E get why... If your answer is NO save for the last question so, is your answer to getting a kobo back from YOUR FAMILY PASTOR IMPOSSIBLE @OP, just count it as a loss and move on... Don't be deceived by any charge and bail lawyer who didn't pass law school... You have NO CASE!!! 2 Likes |
Re: . by StrikeBack(m): 12:04pm On May 01, 2020 |
Great Fela sang When trouble sleeps yanga go wake am. Wetin you find Wahala, you dey find wahala He also sang, You Africans, please listen to me as Africans And you non-Africans, listen to me with open mind Suffer, suffer, suffer, suffer, suffer Suffer for world Na your fault be that Me I say: na your fault be that I want you all to please take your minds Out of this musical contraption And put your minds into any goddamn church Any goddamn mosque Any goddamn Celestical Including Seraphoom and Cheruboom Now, we are all there now Our minds are in those places Here we go Track "Fela Kuti" on Bandsintown Advisory - the following lyrics contain explicit language: You Africans, please listen to me as Africans And you non-Africans, listen to me with open mind Suffer, suffer, suffer, suffer, suffer Suffer for world Na your fault be that Me I say: na your fault be that I want you all to please take your minds Out of this musical contraption And put your minds into any goddamn church Any goddamn mosque Any goddamn Celestical Including Seraphoom and Cheruboom Now, we are all there now Our minds are in those places Here we go Lyrics continue below Amen! Suffer, suffer for world Enjoy for Heaven Christians go dey yab "In Spiritum Heavinus" Muslims go dey call "Allahu Akbar" Open you eye everywhere Archbishop na miliki Pope na enjoyment Imam na gbaladun [Chorus] Archbishop dey enjoy Pope self dey enjoy Imam self dey enjoy My brother wetin you say? My brother wetin you say? My sister wetin you go hear? My sister wetin you go hear? Archbishop dey for London Pope dey for Rome Imam dey for Mecca Archbishop dey for London Pope dey for Rome Imam dey for Mecca 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by infogenius(m): 12:07pm On May 01, 2020 |
eboniest: Do nothing since it was a seed she sowed or else I would get the money back for her. Learn from her predicament and work hard to make her happy. |
Re: . by Ezennwa(m): 12:19pm On May 01, 2020 |
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Re: . by Graxie(f): 12:31pm On May 01, 2020 |
It wasn't the pastor's fault, Paul warned Timothy concerning women like your mom, 2Timothy 3v6. He even called them silly women. I hope you will learn from her mistakes. |
Re: . by asapeola(m): 1:11pm On May 01, 2020 |
Dear OP, ask ur mum to come more openly to u. 1. Was she in an extra relationship with the man (u myt b shocked that the money wasn't actually a seed but an investment gone wrong); 2. If the above is true, its even better cos u could be able to get ur mum to testify that she gave him the money as a loan for an investment (even there's no paper trail) as far she can prove she really gave him the 3.5m. 3. U may trace the man's new location and simple narrate ur situation to him hoping he wld be compassionate enof to help or return part of the money. All in all, ur mum really needs to come clean on all this. Pls ask her if she's got some other property she aint telling u guys yet! Good luck! |
Re: . by bukatyne(f): 1:17pm On May 01, 2020 |
eboniest: How did the pastor dupe your mother I even thought she was not paid for the land or something else. Your mom, an adult decides to 'sow' about 80% of a transaction to her pastor and you call it dupe? |
Re: . by SavageMaster: 1:48pm On May 01, 2020 |
eboniest: Absolutely nothing. You can only reach out to him, let him understand your Mum's condition, and appeal to his conscience. That's all I'll say for now. |
Re: . by drmikeadams(m): 2:34pm On May 01, 2020 |
DanseMacabre:; D don't mind d religious fanatics,Evey body keeps defending their daddy GO meanwhile most of em are fake milking em dry |
Re: . by drmikeadams(m): 2:36pm On May 01, 2020 |
bukatyne: Them no get case at all...people will learn d hard way with these pastors
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Re: . by Nobody: 2:40pm On May 01, 2020 |
Who do we really blame? I'm not sure the pastor carried a gun. If your mum voluntarily donated her money to the 'pastor' then we can't really blame him. Nigerians are generally foolish and they deserve a lot of what they get. Constantly being tossed around by pastors, politicians and miscreants. What you guys should do now should be to beg the pastor to find you people something as upkeep. |
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