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Deleted by Nobody: 7:04pm On May 03, 2020 |
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Re: Deleted by Ndukings92(m): 7:29pm On May 03, 2020 |
Am sorry if u will pick offense with this but I have to say it still,UR HUSBAND IS NOT MATURED FOR MARRIAGE. its either he is with u OR he gets u convinced to dance to d tune of the mum with him,I didn't say anything shaa 3 Likes |
Re: Deleted by Nobody: 7:32pm On May 03, 2020 |
ALL THIS FAKE STORY JUST TO MAKE FRONT PAGE 3 Likes |
Re: Deleted by Jesuisbelle(f): 7:37pm On May 03, 2020 |
Fake story |
Re: Deleted by Mizwisdom(f): 7:40pm On May 03, 2020 |
Fake |
Re: Deleted by James289(f): 7:44pm On May 03, 2020 |
bullshit |
Re: Deleted by Nobody: 7:45pm On May 03, 2020 |
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Re: Deleted by Ndukings92(m): 7:57pm On May 03, 2020 |
olaade2406:this is where u comes in as his wife,when Shaggy sang the strength of a woman he was not referring to d mothers but the ladies.he is urs now to control and not d mum u know,u have to talk sense into him.adore him like a prince and while he is busy savouring the treat u are giving him u take him to an imam over their but before taking him there pls make sure u have discussed him with the imam since u guys are Muslim. keep treating him as a prince while working on him at home.his eye go clear,once u are married u are tend to do some decisions as a man and not ur mums biddings 1 Like |
Re: Deleted by Nobody: 8:10pm On May 03, 2020 |
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Re: Deleted by Ndukings92(m): 8:26pm On May 03, 2020 |
olaade2406:must she visit u?I have being living alone for 4yrs plus now and my dad have not talked of visiting me cos mum is late,even when I visit him thrice a month.forget that aspect abeg.as for the black soap u can make ur husband to stop using that with the help of the Alfa or imam u will take him to.he will make ur husband to understand that it'd against u guys faith,its fetish and of no use since its like the mum is manipulating him with that.but if he is doing nothing strange after using the soap then let him be.just try to make him see reasons with him and take some decisions without the mum,I mean meaningful decisions 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Deleted by Nobody: 8:44pm On May 03, 2020 |
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Re: Deleted by beautifulrosa: 8:56pm On May 03, 2020 |
Smiles. I have been through worse in marriage. The only difference is my parents home were always open to me anytime anyway. My dad would not let any man treat his daughter like garbage. What am I saying in essence. Yoruba people have a funny lifestyle of saying things like once their daughter is married, she has to live with her husband. Excuse me, even when things are looking funny? Please everyone needs to uphold their dignity in this life. Because life is so short. If the mother is fetish and you cannot stay please go back to your parents. That guy is not mature enough. How old are you again? I was 27years plus yet my parents received me into their home after all the misunderstandings and I remained there until things were sorted out. Please dont allow marriage wahala hinder your life ambitions abeg. If you cannot move back to your parent's, stop arguing with both mother and son, get something doing and start saving up. Your too young to start worrying about how your husband cannot pay rent and all that abeg. Now to the ladies unmarried reading this, pick one or two lessons here. When the love clears from your eyes, you will know reality! 5 Likes |
Re: Deleted by Nobody: 9:22pm On May 03, 2020 |
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Re: Deleted by Nobody: 9:33pm On May 03, 2020 |
Who's recycling all this old stories? This story is from 2yrs ago. 1 Like |
Re: Deleted by eyinjuege: 9:38pm On May 03, 2020 |
olaade2406: Allow your husband practice his religion the way he wants to. Do not throw away any of his blacksoap and his tawiz. Dont overpass your boundaries. He's not forcing you to use any of those things, and that's good enough. If he wants to use them or believes in goodluck charm, please allow him. Some people believe in annointing oil, holy water etc for goodluck . That's their business. Perhaps with time, if he sees the way you practice your own religion and your life has shown with evidence that the way you practice it is working for you , he may decide to join you and throw away those things himself. Secondly, it's not by force your mother in law visits your home. You confirmed it yourself that she works and hardly has time for her own children, so please free her. If you also can't visit her, no problem. Call her when you can. Thirdly, you and your husband have to brainstorm on how you will be footing your bills if you decide to stop working to look after your son. He has told you he can't foot the rent alone, without your input so you have to find a place to keep your son when you both go to work, otherwise you guys may have to move back to his mother's place 1 Like |
Re: Deleted by beautifulrosa: 9:42pm On May 03, 2020 |
olaade2406: Sis first of all I need you to believe that no matter how any treats you, you are good ENOUGH! Your are perfect and other people's actions or inactions cannot change that. Now, please try to concentrate on other things and stop complaining about the things his mother gives to him. Learn to look away sometimes so long as he does not force you to use them on yourself or the baby. Those are even things that you can see physically, what about the ones they are doing spiritually? Yoruba people believe in such things for protection. There is nothing you can do about that. So quit complaining about such to him. Infact, stop raising issues about his mother. Pretend like all she does do not affect you. When you go to visit her dress the way she thinks muslims should dress, appear like you send them but please maintain your distance. Stop being afraid of those things. You are likely to be affected by things you are afraid of. More importantly sis, please live your life. Honestly, years after now you will come back to this post and wonder why you even bothered so much. Take your mind, eyes and mouth away from all those complains and find something to focus on. A job or some training. Then please, save up just incase. My own is, if the man starts to say he cannot pay the rent and you have to live with his mother with all the characteristics you mentioned please ask to move in with your parents instead. Dont allow anyone to maltreat you or act like they are doing you a favour. 1 Like |
Re: Deleted by Nobody: 9:46pm On May 03, 2020 |
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Re: Deleted by Nobody: 10:34pm On May 03, 2020 |
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Re: Deleted by meobizy(f): 8:22am On May 04, 2020 |
Sinzuko135:It didn't so OP quickly deleted the account. |
Re: Deleted by eyinjuege: 8:22pm On May 04, 2020 |
meobizy: Probably deleted it because someone from her family has added 2 and 2 together , and may report to her mother in law. |
Re: Deleted by puritysmart(m): 9:09pm On May 04, 2020 |
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Re: Deleted by meobizy(f): 4:26am On May 05, 2020 |
eyinjuege:Not likely. It didn't get the needed attention by hitting the front page so creation of the account turned out a waste. |
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