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Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by Dujardin(m): 2:36pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
Ayaf laf tire, u want to giv 9ja gal flower? she go dump ur sorry ass! |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by bukatyne(f): 2:46pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
petokey: Heyy! Do u want me to become a slave to her becos am broke. And all this things you listed what made you won't spend doing them.?and so cherishin ur gf means u've become her slave! wonders ll neva cease! |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by Nobody: 3:12pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
Someone had this confession to share: “Hi readers, I just want to share my true life story with you so that you can learn from it. We are human beings, we make mistakes every day but it left for you to learn from your mistakes. “My name is ‘anonymous’ I wont mention where I come from for security reasons. I met this guy in 2001 when I was writing waec , his name is GuyA.We fell in love. “He was everything a woman would ask for; he is fair, handsome, intelligent and God fearing, he loved me so much, he shared the little he had with me, he was willing to do anything I ask for though he didn’t have much because he was still in second year at university of Nigeria, Enugu campus. “He did everything possible for me to gain admission into the university. I eventually gained admission in 2003 at Enugu State University of Science and Technology and graduated in 2007. , “I don’t know what came over me. I had a fling with this guy named GuyB. Though I never loved him, but I became pregnant for him. I didn’t know what to do, but terminating thepregnancy was not an option. I didn’t want to lose GuyA. It wasas if my world has crumbled. “I didn’t tell anybody not even my best friend because I never could tell what would happen if I did. I made a smart move by telling GuyA that I was pregnantfor him. “Of course, he believed me because he trusted me so much but I betrayed his love for me. He came to see my people, though my parents are dead. “I eventually put to bed; a baby girl. This was in 2008. Do you know what my baby was exactly the carbon copy of GuyB;the guy I had a fling with? “I was not surprise because I knew the pregnancy wasn’t GuyA’s but I thought the baby would’ve resembled me. Of course, I was wrong. GuyA accepted us even when he knew the baby does not look like him or me. “Ever since, I have been dying insilence. My conscience kept killing me. At a point, I hated my own child seeing a picture of another man in her. My husband, GuyA loved her so much more than anything. “In 2010, I had another baby boy for my husband. My joy knew no bounds. I was really happy, my husband was happy as well. “In 2012 , I had another baby boy for my husband, GuyA. Evenat that, he loved my daughter more than her two biological sons. At a point, I became jealous but what can I do. I just couldn’t bear it any more so I decided to give my life to Christ and beg God for forgiveness which I know he has done. “This I did because I couldn’t continue to die in silence. It wasnow for me to confess to my husband but how would I achieve that without breaking my home? I didn’t want to loose my home, I loved my husband and my kids. “He is a wonderful man but I betrayed him. I prayed and asked God to give me the strength to confess to him… On the set day, I first called him on phone to ask him if he would ever forgive me. He asked what I meant by that. He asked if I was alright and I said yes. He hanged up on me. I cried like a baby. “When he came back from workthat same day, I served him his dinner. After that, I went with him in the room and told him toforgive me that he should not punish our daughter for what she does not know about but punish me. He Already Knew That He Is Not The Father Of Our Daughter: “He asked again what I meant by that. I narrated everything that transpired between GuyB and I. To my greatest surprise, he dropped a bombshell. He saidhe knew all these years that he was not the biological father of our 4-year old daughter. “I asked him if he knew about itand didn’t bother to ask me? He said that he knew that somedayI was going to tell him but he never knew it would come this soon. “It was as if the ground should open and swallow me. I was so ashamed of my self that I bowed my face in tears but he cuddled me and said he’d forgiven me long ago. He said that we pray every day OUR FATHER FORGIVE US OUR SINS AS WE FORGIVE THOSE TRESPASS AGAINST US, why won’t he forgive me? “He said no one is perfect and that we make mistakes in life. He said that I was a nice person and that we have been through a lot in life. So, he cannot abandon me now that i needed him most. He told me that he could possibly throw me out so that people will laugh at me buthe has always loved me. “As for my daughter, as far as heis concerned, she is his daughter. He’s has always seen her as one and that he will always love us. These were his words. “I was short of words, all I coulddo was to cry and thank him and thank God for the kind of man he has given me because I know that no man would take that from any woman no matter what except by the special grace of God. “I am now a happy person and Ihave given my life to Jesus Christ. We must learn how to confess our sins no matter whatso that Satan will be put to shame and as well learn how to forgive. “We now live in the UK. I also had my two boys in the UK.” 1 Like |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by Parnassuss(m): 3:24pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
Nice wishlist. Here's reality 1.Sex 2.Argue 3.Stay away from her |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by abakiki(f): 3:32pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
Sometimes i wonder where you guys get these naija babes you are always criticizing. Probably knocking on the wrong doors. i guess you attract what you are. There are truly some good girls out there and they ain't few, you guys ain't just looking properly. |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by Sweetlemon(f): 3:43pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
All u guys shouting "Naija girls" here don't know nothing about about oyibo women. Let me tell u something, the average 9ja babe gold digger will date a guy because she wants stuffs like BB, BIS, brazillian hair (or whatever hair) clothes, shoes, maybe a car, and stuffs like that. But a typical white chick gold digger will date you for a tastefully furnished house, a posh car, a trip to paris or the bahamas, use your credit cards shopping at harrods, and later find her way into your house as your wife only to divorce you after a fews months or years (if you are lucky) and of course pocketing over 70 % of your hard-earned life investments! pls Check out the likes of Hulk Hogan's wife and how they dealt with their men! |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by Nobody: 3:56pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
Nothing worse than a broke dude who compensates his skinny pocket with lots and lots of talk! And these broke guys always have the worst attitude! But at least they do strive to have a personality! 1 Like |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by nwangeme: 4:18pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
Sweetlemon: All u guys shouting "Naija girls" here don't know nothing about about oyibo women. naija babe will not consider "posh car, trip to paris or a house" IT IS WAY OUT OF REACH |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by andyanders: 4:29pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
Eebrahym: [b]Things To Do with Your Girlfriend with No Money You can do the above when you don't have a job. Remember, no cash in your pocket, no love as you need CASH to nourish any relationship as a hungry man does not have time for the kind things you stated above. Now tell me how the above can work under Nigerian Economy? How many that have cars to take a jolly ride with their girl? Even abroad, you burst you assh working. Forget the above and concentrate on how to improve your status and not blind love. Listen, Love is not Blind anymore. Shine your eyes.[center][/center] |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by Sweetlemon(f): 4:36pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
nwa-ngeme:That's because a 9ja gold digger is not as bad a foreign one |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by Lachimex(m): 5:15pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
Waoh! But i tot d topic said wen u don't have money.. Y because all dis require money! Perhap its so romantic. |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by Nobody: 5:26pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
27naira: The best thing to do with your girlfriend when both of you are broke is to get a damn job![size=15pt]#WORD!![/size] |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by gsmgold: 5:42pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
Joey82: @op |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by flexdee(m): 6:13pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
All these are not practicable in naija abeg. |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by safarigirl(f): 7:10pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
Hmm, is this one copy and paste? E go be for yahoo site you get am. Whisper 'I love you'? What? Is it a romance novel? Take her to a drive-in, I no know sey we get that one for here. Take her hitch hiking? If una miss or fulani herdsmen catch una for bush, you're on your own. Cook her dinner? When you're broke? Na garri and kuli kuli una go chop be that. Build snowman?...this one na testimony sey na copy and paste. Everything listed is UNREALISTIC in Nigeria |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by Jimatex(m): 8:05pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
No be foe naija babes. No love,peace nd harmony without money |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by Tczar(m): 9:22pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
CrazyMan: Nice thread, but it won’t work on Nigerian girls.lmao |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by otosa(m): 10:02pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
Nigeria Ladies are not mumu, they don wise past that level. |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by Nobody: 11:24pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
As long as she is not a Nigerian girl! |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by dramaqueen1(f): 12:50am On Aug 11, 2012 |
Only works for white girls... |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by edawg(m): 5:13am On Aug 11, 2012 |
Stories dt touch**baba most of those fins no dey work 4 we gurls...*word |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by Djsmart1: 6:37am On Aug 11, 2012 |
Nyc one bt not readily avaliable 4 a poor man |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by mecussey(m): 7:17am On Aug 11, 2012 |
CrazyMan: Nice thread, but it won’t work on Nigerian girls.gbam, Niger girl wey dey find black berry, u dey give am rose |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by adeboolusegun(m): 7:30am On Aug 11, 2012 |
nice... I love dt swag but not all naija girls will appreciate that except my girlfrd... |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by Nobody: 10:05am On Aug 11, 2012 |
As majority have said, it doesn't work for '9ja babes'. U can see that there was hardly a lady who made a comment, also confirming it. Even for european & american babes, it doesn't work for all of them. Most of the ones we watch in movies are just 'Make-believe'. |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by Profkomolafe(m): 3:51pm On Aug 11, 2012 |
[color=#006600][/color]anytin wey mk man try watin dis guy write so, d person no broke o, na correct big man... Even d guy weY write am no fit do am 4 gurl.... |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by Johnny(m): 4:25pm On Aug 11, 2012 |
So what do you do for her when you have money?? |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by seanbenito: 7:02pm On Aug 11, 2012 |
It's blatantly obvious that mr poster doesnt live in nigeria neither does he know how the brains of nigerian girls are wired |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by ril19(m): 7:33pm On Aug 11, 2012 |
sorry sir but this is strictly European n American. Not very in touch with the Nigerian realities |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by Jaykizz(m): 11:31am On Aug 12, 2012 |
Okija_juju: 1. Play LudoUR HEAD DY DER TIMES A MILLION TIMES. MY 5HANDS UP 4 ONLY U. |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by tpia5: 4:35am On Aug 13, 2012 |
ril19: sorry sir but this is strictly European n American. Not very in touch with the Nigerian realities then post what you feel would work in nigeria. |
Re: Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don't Have Money by tpia5: 4:38am On Aug 13, 2012 |
these sound ok: Hitchhike a ride with your girl to a place you haven't been before [not to a danger zone though] the bolded especially. Albums are fun. |
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