KingAzubuike:

Check well . Maybe you saw 250,000 . Oil companies pay well but you people should stop making it sound like their pay is usually extra ordinary. How can you believe a young girl like that earns 42M yearly. That's 3.5M monthly. Of you want to earn that much, be an entrepreneur. Salaries can't earn you that amount.

Crixxx:
Yearly: 15m + 42m... 57m
Monthly: 1.25m + 3.5m=4.75m


Feeding/month: 500k
Clothing/month:150k
Maintenance/month(ladies):250k
Miscellaneous/month:200k
Total expenditure/month: 1.1m

Balance/month: 4.75m - 1.1m= 3.65m..

Jide you could become a billionaire don't allow the devil..
The lady has a good point.. Boys thinking deep

dukeprince50:
lalasti.clala post that didnt hit front page?
back to the topic, 40m÷15m that's more than 2times, If I'm Jide, I'll just quit my Job and relocate to Lagos and become a full time house husband

Jarus:


I laugh. A friend with roughly 10 years experience moved to an IOC for N64m 3 years ago. She was not married then.

I know many unmarried people grossing N50m plus.

These numbers are real. I can’t say much on social media.

BrutusOj:
Bank job is not police job jaree..

Donald3d:


In marriage, or in this case proposed marriage, compromise is key.
Couples need to start seeing themselves as team players, treating the relationship and marriage as a business.
Whichever decision is the best for the team, in the long run, should be the best decision .

Ask yourself, if you were running a business and you have an option of getting an investor of 42 or 15m, which would you take ?

Its not like he is losing his job, he is just getting transferred, all he has to do is "measure up" in other areas of the marriage.

Jide, move to Lagos and be with your wife, as long as you know and you are sure, at least, sure enough, that she isn't a proud person.

Men should stop feeling intimidated by women.


In this case, its not like he is broke, poor or jobless. This is just plain ego and "what would people say"

One of the best ways to succeed in anything, especially marriage is ignoring what people would say.

Marriage shouldn't be a battle field of who is better, but it should be a place where winning and improvement should be the priority.

In the long run, what matters in marriage is that you have more wins than loses.


EDIT :

I can see some people quoting me
If you feel intimated by a woman earning more than you, then mutual respect really doesn't exist and you are basing your control of your home solely on your financial power.

I am not saying a man should not earn money and take care of his family .

But have you every asked yourself, why some women married to wealthy men who take care of all their needs still cheat on them ?

Money isn't everything, there are so many other aspects of marriage besides money.

In this case its funny, because the man isn't even broke at all. He is wealthy, at least by Nigerian standards.

Na wa for una

Make una sha follow me for twitter
www.twitter.com/NaijaSteveJobs

kamez:



like i said, this one no be hear say, i saw it with my own eyes and i think as a graduate of maths and statistics i definitely know the difference between 250,000 and 2,500,000..

the guy is an accountant

MrBrownJay1:


how about the below reply from wifey, which any smart person would understand:
- i am earning much more than you, which will be more beneficial to the wellbeing and future of the family
- i work in an industry that is healthier than the banking industry, which will be more beneficial to the wellbeing and future of the family.
[b]even if you relocate and dont find a job for the next 2 years and a half, my salary will still cover your salary loss
- it does not make any sense whatsoever that a man would ask such of his woman, NONE![/b]

DamnnNiggarr:
Damn Niggarr!

The hubby must be a real Niggarr,

But as for me, the woman should quit and relocate to p. H for peace to reign.

15m/12 = 1.25m
That's manageable
The wife should quit.

Ningen:

Cloth no gree enter bag, leave am now...
A man's ego and pride comes first.
Jide should simply quit the relationship!





Please if you're Anita & you're reading this send me a PM. I'll relocate my whole village to Lagos.

Thanks.

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jeremiah123:
Information not true
No bank in Nigeria pay their staff 1.2m a month. Make una reason am.

KingAzubuike:

Probably before tax. After tax it will scale down to like 1.7

Donald3d:


In marriage, or in this case proposed marriage, compromise is key.
Couples need to start seeing themselves as team players, treating the relationship and marriage as a business.
Whichever decision is the best for the team, in the long run, should be the best decision .

Ask yourself, if you were running a business and you have an option of getting an investor of 42 or 15m, which would you take ?

Its not like he is losing his job, he is just getting transferred, all he has to do is "measure up" in other areas of the marriage.

Jide, move to Lagos and be with your wife, as long as you know and you are sure, at least, sure enough, that she isn't a proud person.

Men should stop feeling intimidated by women.


In this case, its not like he is broke, poor or jobless. This is just plain ego and "what would people say"

One of the best ways to succeed in anything, especially marriage is ignoring what people would say.

Marriage shouldn't be a battle field of who is better, but it should be a place where winning and improvement should be the priority.

In the long run, what matters in marriage is that you have more wins than loses.


EDIT :

I can see some people quoting me
If you feel intimated by a woman earning more than you, then mutual respect really doesn't exist and you are basing your control of your home solely on your financial power.

I am not saying a man should not earn money and take care of his family .

But have you every asked yourself, why some women married to wealthy men who take care of all their needs still cheat on them ?

Money isn't everything, there are so many other aspects of marriage besides money.

In this case its funny, because the man isn't even broke at all. He is wealthy, at least by Nigerian standards.

Na wa for una

Make una sha follow me for twitter
www.twitter.com/NaijaSteveJobs

aliyuabbaashiru:
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Ianmaduka:
see them both using them hand to be calling on armed robbers and criminals attention...what do I know as a half Nigerian ��‍♂️