Elinabeauty:
Some people are saying "fallen breast" didn't u knw dat making babies wuld eventually mak d breast to fall, even d bitch u go out to meet one day her breast will fall if its not already fallen... cut d crab joorh.

U can u suck a fallen breast for pleasure? We are talking about attraction here, u can't force it

Tatashi:
I married one man like this that was extremely violent.na me kuku loose interest waka sharp sharp.

This got me laughing ....I married one man like this

seunlayi:


You nailed it. Let me add this
- hidden under the guise of the world love to carry out lust which fade away gradually.

. You are so Intelligent .

I'm going to try and believe it's not the lockdown that's responsible for the surge in marriage related posts reaching Nairaland's front page.


I'm not married though so whatever I say will just rrmare an opinion.

The wife becomes unattractively over weight, stops washing her vagina, stop brushing her teeth, stops even washing her hair, began to complain about been tired to have sex.


If they are nigerian women they will began going to church evening morning and nights. they will began to pray against alot of unexistence enemies and holy ghost firing everything. inviting pastors to cleanse the house with prayers and holy water, becomes paranoid and crazy.

hammerP:
THE PERSON U DATED IS NOT NECESSARILY THE PERSON IN YOUR HOUSE.
THE ONLY WAY TO ESCAPE IT, IS TO BE VERY BUSY AND ONLY BE AROUND AT NIGHT TO SLEEP.
THIS WAY, U CAN BUY SOME MORE TIME.

OhmyGaud
Your whole post, especially the bit about buying more time killed me!

There is no reason .Nature just takes it normal Natural Attitude of Change .Beuty ,Love ,Shape ,Physical Physique ,Attitudes ,etc no Matter how Wonderful they are ,No matter how Discipline you are ,No matter how Spiritual you are ,Change sometimes is Inevitable .Few would not but many would .

[You nailed it. Let me add this
- hidden under the guise of the world love to carry out lust which fade away gradually.
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the lady stopped being sexy 4d man immediately afta mariage

See finish

MelaninSkinGirl:
1. Lust/Infatuation disguised as Love.
2. Planning for the magnificent wedding but after the wedding they realise they have nothing in common and are not compatible.
3. Kids changes things and many parents cannot adapt to this change.
4. Both wife and husband lose their looks, the wife is able to adapt but the man is not.
5. Other factors like finances can affect the marriage.

Men are simply polygamous by Nature. Whether you like it or not.

If only married couple can accept each other as they are and pick up values that is fundamentally required and shun societel "looking for excuse to be sad" (dectective)
Love and happines is a decision and not recieved, it comes inwardly and spread to the enviroment.

kiddkash:
you can't possibly eat rice for the rest of your life.
sometimes you have to try beans, yam , garri & egusi

women shouldn't take it personal

But you can breath oxygen for the rest of your life and still be OK with it.

You people are scaring me, haha

Snowale:
Men are simply polygamous by Nature. Whether you like it or not.

Na excuses be that.

Men are insatiable/women are fickle making sticking 2 one woman pretty uneasy. It takes discipline 2 remain faithful 2 one wife

hmm

9icekenpat:
Well I'm going to answer this from the psychology perspective. Most Men make up is to conquer territories that is where the fun is. Most men love resolving puzzles and discovering new things men love complexity but would most time deny it. Keep him hungry and curious.

Sexyjigga:
Marry your best friend.... Someone who is open to you... Someone you love beyond sex... Sex can be gotten anywhere and from anyone.... Most people nowadays love and marry for sex and beauty...

Is the bolded after the marital vows have been made or before? Would your best- friend the wife know you will be getting sex anywhere and from anyone else? She has to agree for this plan to be a good one.

Marrying the wrong person

When you're young, check your motives for marrying. Don't marry to copy your peers, or for social standing or out of pressure. Marry for love and companionship, marry the right person, marry your best friend. For if you marry the wrong person or for the wrong reasons, you will have to put up with that person the rest of your life. Things might get worse between you two; then depression, physical abuse, affairs, pain, shame, court cases, bitterness will define your mid-life years all because you chose the wrong one. Things will get worse when children are involved. Make the right choice of a spouse when you are young.

It's both ways, women lose interest in their husbands too. The difference is they (women) are good at hiding their true emotions.

okay

Stillthebest:


Very correct but there are still alot;
The wife stops Glowing, refuses to use fragrance thus smell bad, makes home to look tattered , series of corrections that are not adhered to, stop dressing well, always on stupid dresses at home rather than the bum shorts, adding Weight while losing shape because of excess eating, looking unkept in the names of motherhood.

Lack of vacations, lack of romance over time, body odours and mouth odours.
Constant unnecessary quarrels. Making the home to look tattered.

Note* this goes both ways!

Lack of respect from the woman(women who enjoy marriage see their husbands as role models and that husband will turn around to worship her) men are the most stupid sex if properly pampered.

Above all, no man that has gone out since morning and came back home with nothing would be loving, romantic or still have interest in himself let alone his wife.

Being 'broke' for long can cause it.

Disclaimer: Money isnt the main thing that keeps interest in marriage intact but true love. Where there's true love, money will find that place one way or the other.

gypsey:
The wife becomes unattractively over weight, stops washing her vagina, stop brushing her teeth, stops even washing her hair, began to complain about been tired to have sex.


If they are nigerian women they will began going to church evening morning and nights. they will began to pray against alot of unexistence enemies and holy ghost firing everything. inviting pastors to cleanse the house with prayers and holy water, becomes paranoid and crazy.

Excuses and wrong portray of married couple and women have eatten deep into men's head.

Natural441:
My fellow nairalander let us discuss the reason men lose interest in there women after few years in marriage.

Because friends like you will always tell them how boring it can get eating one type of food

Because some of those men are irresponsible, not matured and dont really deserve to be married

A mature responsible married man doea not lose interest in his wife,the bond they share grows with them

That is when she displays the devil � incarnate in her and believes you the husband can't do otherwise.

hehehe

MrBrownJay1:
who are we kidding?!
- if a woman looked like Tiwa before marriage and now she is a baby hippo, NO WONDER MEN GET TURNED OFF
- if a woman was all nice/loving/caring before marriage but now she is a bitter/abusive/disrespectful woman, NO WONDER MEN GET TURNED OFF
- if a woman was fun to be with before marriage, and after marriage she now thinks she doesnt have to woo her man any longer, NO WONDER MEN GET TURNED OFF
- if you guys use to go on dates/outings, have fun together, but now this woman is a 24hs/365 days a year telemundo expert, NO WONDER MEN GET TURNED OFF

okay

aswani:
The marriage starts becoming an adversarial one rather than a complementary one between the couple.

One or both parties, especially the wife, wants to always have their pound of flesh.

If there are children, no agreed understanding as to how to bring them up which causes conflict and resentment.

Before you know it, both are living separate lives under one roof and unable to share each other's secrets.

In most cases, it is little to do with how anyone's body has aged.

MOnkeyBabe:
more focused on the wedding and Owambe parrying. Think I was guilty of the last one before, fairRy TAle BaRbie Dreams

So u are divorced now... by their names we shall know them. Though i suspect you are ugly and hence hubby got disconnected from you emotionally

Seems the fathers of 90% the people that commented have lost interest on their wifes because they wrote as if the experienced it first hand and not just what they think could be the problem.

itzdeejay:


Na excuses be that.

Yes, men tends to get tired if their wife, especially after birth of the first 1,2 children, so instead of cheating or divorcing her, the man can marry someone else. Islam is just too perfect.
And any man that isn't tired, should hold onto his wife

:oquote author=gypsey post=89885445]The wife becomes unattractively over weight, stops washing her vagina, stop brushing her teeth, stops even washing her hair, began to complain about been tired to have sex.


If they are nigerian women they will began going to church evening morning and nights. they will began to pray against alot of unexistence enemies and holy ghost firing everything. inviting pastors to cleanse the house with prayers and holy water, becomes paranoid and crazy.[/quote]

@ the bolded.. Are you for real? Wonderful.

In re: to your first paragraph, can't you help her groom herself if she fails to do it. Why are you now one with her?

I remember what PST. Bimbo Odukoya ( of blessed memory) said in one of her programs that she didn't know how to brush when she got married. It was her husband who taught her how to brush and wash her tongue very well. Now, That is a HUSBAND! Duh!

Pretence to be what they are not during courtship only to reveal their real identity after marriage.

2buffagain:
- They were lovers, but never friends
- had no shared interests
- No shared long term vision besides sex, swag and/or "I want to have children".
- Ignored the red flags.
- More focus on the wedding than on the life that follows (This one is huge for girls)

Red flags should never be ignored. It is called red for a reason. Take note kings and Queens!!!