Goalnaldo:
why are you breathing in only oxygen since you were born? Try other gas like ammonia, hydrogen sulphide.

fadah68:


Marrying the wrong person

When you're young, check your motives for marrying. Don't marry to copy your peers, or for social standing or out of pressure. Marry for love and companionship, marry the right person, marry your best friend. For if you marry the wrong person or for the wrong reasons, you will have to put up with that person the rest of your life. Things might get worse between you two; then depression, physical abuse, affairs, pain, shame, court cases, bitterness will define your mid-life years all because you chose the wrong one. Things will get worse when children are involved. Make the right choice of a spouse when you are young.

kiddkash:
you can't possibly eat rice for the rest of your life.
sometimes you have to try beans, yam , garri & egusi

women shouldn't take it personal

Natural441:
but not all of them

Braindealer:
The only and main reason why marriages dont last is notin but childishness; lack of self decipline and ignorance.

Marriage is a union of two MATTURED adults. Every other little reason you think causes faild marriages; like cheating, money, sex all fall under not being matured enough.

ONLY MATURED MINDS REMAIN IN MARRIAGE!

gypsey:
Don't be ridiculous tryna compare breathing with picking up different women, are you for real? i tell you what, why not wear the same pant without washing it since you were born.

Natural441:
My fellow nairalander let us discuss the reason men lose interest in there women after few years in marriage.

Stillthebest:


Very correct but there are still alot;
The wife stops Glowing, refuses to use fragrance thus smell bad, makes home to look tattered , series of corrections that are not adhered to, stop dressing well, always on stupid dresses at home rather than the bum shorts, adding Weight while losing shape because of excess eating, looking unkept in the names of motherhood.

Lack of vacations, lack of romance over time, body odours and mouth odours.
Constant unnecessary quarrels. Making the home to look tattered.

Note* this goes both ways!

Lack of respect from the woman(women who enjoy marriage see their husbands as role models and that husband will turn around to worship her) men are the most stupid sex if properly pampered.

Above all, no man that has gone out since morning and came back home with nothing would be loving, romantic or still have interest in himself let alone his wife.

Being 'broke' for long can cause it.

Disclaimer: Money isnt the main thing that keeps interest in marriage intact but true love. Where there's true love, money will find that place one way or the other.

GOFRONT:
Reason why I chose to remain single..

Move on to the next pvssay if you tired of the current one....

dasparrow:


You do know that women age right? So you want a woman to retain her sexiness forever but the man is allowed to loose his handsomeness - that's if he ever was handsome - grow a pot belly like he is 9 months pregnant and start balding. Not to talk of failing health due to poor eating habits and overall unhealthy lifestyle.

With this mindset of yours, it is no wonder that most Nigerian marriages are nothing but scam. No wonder a day cannot go by on Nairaland and a topic on a problematic marriage does not hit front-page.

Goalnaldo:
if staying with one woman is boring, don't you think breathing in only oxygen is boring too? The same way wearing only one pant is?

Sharmeenator:


The bolded is the real reason. A man can still cheat on the low without disrespecting you. But give a man a deserving respect and pampering, you will get the best out of him. He might still cheat, but you will be a jewel he would admire for the rest of his life. Women need to understand this. A man needs pampering and respect, not just sex or being a good home maker

Thanks for that piece OP

Ryan03:
its always the wives that becomes toxic. Lol

Goalnaldo:
why are you breathing in only oxygen since you were born? Try other gas like ammonia, hydrogen sulphide.

lightangel65i:


Another idi0t ignored

chlowi:
going theough some comments here ......Nigerian women this , Nigerian women that, coming from people who have sisters at home and daugters or wd soon beget daughters ....... the bashing of women (Nigerian) in this forum is out of this world .........we all would be alright

gypsey:
Jeeeezz!! what kinda dumb suggestion is this? how old are you? you still think it's okay, to compare breathing with picking up prostitutes or women?

you sound really ridiculous, like a minor. if your husband dies will you die with him? you will not move on to marry another man? i am sure you will not answer yes to this my question.


I would throw my wife (if i was married) under a moving train to save my own life. i marry another one.

Caleycash:
because real love is a scam!!!... the only real love one gets is from his MOM and God, the rest are conditional and big time scam!!!

GOFRONT:
Reason why I chose to remain single..

Move on to the next pvssay if you tired of the current one....

lightangel65i:


Another idi0t ignored

Goalnaldo:
you guys use 'only one soup' Bader dash to justify your promiscuity smh. Death is a different case bro.

gypsey:
but isn't that changing of another man? look! i am sure some women are promiscuous too, or have you never heard of women with multiple boyfriends?

Goalnaldo:
I have seen them and I have never been a fan of their lifestyle.