Heathrow44:

That's how black women behave, wen they start nagging u they come all over ur face and shouting, even if u try t avoid them they would keep pushing and punching u all over till u lose it and give d a**** a upper cut and she collapses, and the next tin she picks d phone dials 911 and says a man attacked her later she files for divorce and a court grants her all of d man's assets and child, now tell me doesn't the court ever punishes the woman for emotionally abusing the man in d first place, no! D judge probably a woman and a feminist is going t do whatever it takes t make sure he serves jail term, go t d jails most felons and men charged for battering were all trialed by women judges who re probably bitter feminists that never gave d man a fair trial.. There are many loop holes in d justice system globally. The way t correct this is if a man is accused of domestic violence the judge should be a man not a woman cos the woman may be too emotional t give a fair trial d chance and a bitter feminist, if its a woman accused of DV a male judge should trial her, this would ensure equality.. Better still matters of this nature should be trialed by judges with high repute

If you read this thread, you would realise that it has nothing to do with the gender of the Judge, because there are Men who are sworn to defend a woman, NO MATTER WHAT she does.
Those type of Men will tell you: if a woman slaps you, just walk away and if she blocks you from walking away, be a man and turn the other cheek!
Now, tell me, if such Men are made judges ina DV case, do you think anything that happened or whatever the man says, means anything to them?
The mind of such Men are already made up and most elderly, White Judges are like that, when they handle DV cases between Black families:
The Black Men, according to them, "Blackmen are Savages that belongs in a Cage" - Hillary Clinton, NewYork State Attorney General

So, the bias against Men, Black men in particular, is a not a gender-thing, when it comes to the Judges.

We need to analyse our situation as black people, if we want to end the oppression and abuse we are getting from the Whites.

- We (Black men and Women) need to understand that a broken home (through Separation/Divorce) can never produce the best in its offsprings (Children).
- We need to understand that both Parents (Father and Mother) contributes to the PROPER GROWTH of a Child and no one Parent can contribute what the other Parent is supposed to contribute
- We need to under stand that when the family is broken, the achievement of its Children has already been arrested and diminished, compared with a Child raised under a roof with both Parents.

These are verifiable facts, minus the odd child that will turn out well (achievement-wise), even if he or she is an orphan!
So, it is in the interest of both Parents to stay together and train, nurture and raise their children to adulthood.

- Black Women say Nigerian men are worthless! While l agree some Men today (but Most Women will say our Fathers are even worse! ) are not the best in terms of what a husband should be, l observe that our Black men are not the worst of men!
If you disagree, check out Asian and far-East Men (Pakistanis, Indians, Chinese, etc), these ones see their women as Chattels, you disobey them, you die!

- But curiously, the rate of divorce among the Chinese, Pakistanis and Indians are FAR LESS compared to the Black families! Why is this?
- These shows that their Women, for some Wisdom which we need to study, will rather keep their family together, despite the inadequacies of their men, that break up thier family through divorce and use of the "White Man's Court system to hunt and dehumanise their Men.

- The result of their prudent choices can be seen in the average development of their offsprings and the respect their Women and Children get from the American/European Society.
- Studies have shown that on the average, they earn more than Afro-Americans and Black Europeans, they own more family business and have less number of their Males in Jail. It is that simple and evident.
- But we must not forget that those achievements were Trade-offs by their Women! It was a conscious decision to put family over personal interest and the long term benefits is also rubbing-off on their recalcitrant men because their families have ahigher standard of living than their black counterparts.

So, what must we do, as Black people, as Black men and Women, to change our own situation and remodel the future of our Children so we can stop this GENERATIONAL ENSLAVEMENT AND DOMINATION BY WHITES, most of which are self-inflicted.

- Most Women will not like my suggestion because when arroganc sets-in, no amount of pleading can make reason!
-if we notice, when two people are fighting, it is usually the stronger person that is appealed to, to sheath their sword and let peace reign, the weaker opponent will naturally follow suit.
- So, the bulk starts at the table of our black Women! Sheath your Sword NOW.
- Because a woman is RESTRAINED in fighting back, does not mean she is stupid, that a Woman is QUICK TO REACT and throws her husband out of the House does not mean she is Smart, infact, it is counter-productive in the long run.
- BLACK Women need to make a decision and trade-off, between throwing that husband out of his house, their family home, and having a stable family with all the benefits it can bring.
- Granted, some men are not well behaved and we have said this before, they were not properly raised and guess by whom? Their MOTHERS!
- I have a Son, he is different from the others and l also realise that he is SPECIAL in some way. he does not conform to rules, tries to make his own rules, does not like writing things down (but still comes first in Class, all the time!), he does not like being ordered around and does not fear being flogged but my wife has told me that the only thing that makes him sober and wee in his Pants is if she said, "I'll tell your Dad when he comes back from work". He starts begging her not to. I initially resent this because l dont want my children to see me as a bully and l felt she was using me to scare the guy but she told me that it is not so, it is that he respects me so much and does not want to lose my friendship, she reminded me that l dont whip my Children so it cant be out fo fear! I reasoned and thought maybe she was right!
So, if he gets out of line, l just squeeze my face at him like a sour lemon, l pout my lips as if l was going to say something really horrible to him, then l shake my head sideways.
-He somehow feels touched and starts crying and starts apologising to me but l just shrug him off and tell him to go and apologise to hi sMum first, if he wants me to forgive him. He is going to be seventeen soon and is a joy to behold (Best Student in his School Cert).
Imagine if he has no one to worry about or if he has to contend with his mother alone?

- What l want to draw out of this story (i think l have mentioned it about two years ago on a thread on NL), is that if not for the fact that we are together as a family, if our family was separated or divorced, that Son would have been a thug, a crook and a brilliant deviant for that matter!

- Not the perfect husband but wifey knows that no one is perfect and we just have to manage ourselves, if not for ourselves, at least for the sake of our Children and their future.
No marriage is perfect but Black Women in the Western World have turned FAMILY BREAKUP into a Business and an Art!
- I can understand that 'the WEST' has put-in a lot of incentive for women who want to breakup their family, to make it easier for them (in some cases it might be necessary, so as to preserve the Peace immediately but in most cases, it is not), there is Money pouring-in left and right, from Spousal Support to Child Support, there is sudden ownership of a House you did not work for, there is unlimited freedom, there is the Barring And Safety Orders on the Ex-Hubby, etc and she is free to bring-in another "Black man" for Sex, as much as she wishes! So, it looks like a good deal to our Black Women!

- The Western/White Police and legal system would help our Black Women thrash their Husband within a second and that is it.
- But what these White Police and Justice system will not tell them is that even the White Women are not taking advantage of these laws that much, except in exceptional cases.
- Beleive me, l have seen white men who do much worse things than any Black men l have seen and their Women still find a way to cope with them within the house (not an excuse for DV though).
White Women dont go "in-your-face" of their husband, when there is a dispute, that is the speciality of Black Women.
- What they dont tell our Black women is that once that family os broken and the man is out of the home, it is a 50-50 chance that the Children's future are destroyed and some of them will endup in jail, a White man's jail, eventually.

- Black Women need to ask themselves: How come the White man's jail is full of their Children, the Children they raised without a Father?
- Does that show them they are doing a good job? How come the Black Sons they raise growup to become abusive husband totheir Daughters?
- Does that show they did a good job? I dont think so. How come Black brothers dont want to marry their Black sisters anymore but prefer a White woman?
- Does that show they are doing a good job on their black daughters? I don tthink so.
- T[b]hus, if our Black Women can see that they are not doing a good job raising their Sons and Daughters (their NEXT Generation!), should they not take a pause and checkout what went wrong, instead of sticking to the same system and producing worse and worse generation that are slaves to the white man?[/b]
- This is why l said, 'the buck starts with our Black women recognising that there is a problem with sending the father out of the House, a very big problem, even if he deserves it.
- I am suggesting we find a way of resolving disputes in the house and completely rule-out sendin gthe father out of the House.
- This may involve our black Women stomaching some shyte from their Black Husbands but with time, over one or two generations of PROPERLY RAISED SONS AND DAUGHTERS, we would start seeing the effect of well-raised sons and daughters in their marriages and our women, their marriages will be better for it.
- We will start raising Sons that growup to be men that our Black Women will desire and be proud-of, we will start raising daughters that our Black men will be proud of. That is how we will emancipate our generation from White Domination and oppression, not all these Protest that yield nothing but more deaths and economic hardship.
-It takes selflessness to do this.
- Our Black men will also come around and start to be "gentlemen", they will lose that ense of insecurity that outs them on edge and puts their temper on a short lid, ready to blow-off, knowing that the worst is just around the corner. Everyone likes "security", be it at work or at home and when you are sure of it, you relax and focus on more important things. Our Black men need security in their marriages, from their Black owmen otherwise, they are just thinking about the next Black Woman whose Home will be a temporary refuge for them.
- With time, the economic fron to both spouses will start to improve, the pressure to work long hours (and its effect on children upbringing) will start to decrease, Children become better raised, turn out to become better adults and the cycle continues.
- This is what the Indian Women, Chinese Women, Pakistani Women who dont rush to call the White Police on their husband's behind, who dont rush to seek divorce or rush to replace their husband with the next black 'neighbourhood d!ck' or ask the Judge to 'send him to jail' because he defaulted on Child Support (which could be due to loss of job or other economic hardship that result from being homeless!) HAVE REALISED.
- I hope our Black Women will not see this as a burden on them but as a means to rebuild their lineage and improve their lot, in a white dominant society/world.
- if we dont tell ourselves the HOME-TRUTH, we will continue to go round in circles, l hope it does not get to the point where the Whites will turn Black people into "sports", pit them against each other and say: FIGHT TO DEATH, because l can already see the seething hatred between BlackMen and BlackWomen.
Nuff said,

Someone7:


Why you so angry?

Nobody oo, right now I'm chilling just watched persons of interest series & I'm fine, is just u that isn't ok

I don't see y someone in his right senses would come out screaming protect black women without any good rsn, it goes t show he doesn't have any other thing t do, there's Netflix , he should sit his axx down & look at how he can better his filming career,

Heathrow44:


Nobody oo, right now I'm chilling just watched persons of interest series & I'm fine, is just u that isn't ok

You ever heard of the mad person who thinks everyone is mad except himself? Get some pills for that frustration while you're at it mate

Someone7:


You ever heard of the mad person who thinks everyone is mad except himself? Get some pills for that frustration while you're at it mate

Ok, I'm gone but hope u remember how t shut ur door bolt so dat ur emptiness won't ooze out from there

1Sharon:


Yes he is. He's putting on a show..it's not genuine.

Watch the full 4min video, if you don't see it, forget it.

How well do you know Gboyega? I’ve been following him since his college days in the UK. He has been at the forefront of black activism since he was young. Go and watch this documentary about blacks in the UK that was shot years ago. He has always been emotional about the black race. He faced discrimination as the son of Nigerian immigrants in the UK and he always been at the forefront of change. Maybe you should read more about him and check his history - even his tweets years ago.

Crispels:


How well do you know Gboyega? I’ve been following him since his college days in the UK. He has been at the forefront of black activism since he was young. Go and watch this documentary about blacks in the UK that was shot years ago. He has always been emotional about the black race. He faced discrimination as the son of Nigerian immigrants in the UK and he always been at the forefront of change. Maybe you should read more about him and check his history - even his tweets years ago.

I read some articles where he claimed that he was called an African monkey and old white people would give him dirty looks and I can believe that. The UK is really racist but it's more covert than that of America's.

drips8:


I read some articles where he claimed that he was called an African monkey and old white people would give him dirty looks and I can believe that. The UK is really racist but it's more covert than that of America's.

Exactly. My cousins were at the protest in London. I laugh when people think Gboyega was acting. A lot of people were crying at that protest - Nigerians who experience racism and discrimination every day. It’s sad when people who have never lived outside of the country try to downplay the emotions of those in the diaspora - who daily live through the pains and stigma. As I am typing this, Anthony Joshua is about to lead a BlackLivesMatter protest in Watford.

Crispels:


How well do you know Gboyega? I’ve been following him since his college days in the UK. He has been at the forefront of black activism since he was young. Go and watch this documentary about blacks in the UK that was shot years ago. He has always been emotional about the black race. He faced discrimination as the son of Nigerian immigrants in the UK and he always been at the forefront of change. Maybe you should read more about him and check his history - even his tweets years ago.

John was the last person to see his childhood friend Damilola Taylor alive before he was killed by BLACK MEN like himself and here he is shouting about imaginary oppression.

He went to hype you man up and then went home to his mansion.

You should be offended that he went up there to pretend.

I don't support black hypocrisy. Count me out.

Crispels:


Exactly. My cousins were at the protest in London. I laugh when people think Gboyega was acting. A lot of people were crying at that protest - Nigerians who experience racism and discrimination every day. It’s sad when people who have never lived outside of the country try to downplay the emotions of those in the diaspora - who daily live through the pains and stigma. As I am typing this, Anthony Joshua is about to lead a BlackLivesMatter protest in Watford.

May DAVID DORN RIP!

A black police officer killed for being in the way of looters trying to get the latest jordans and a TV.

After shouting black lives matter, black folks went and did that?

Yeye disingenuous black folks.