CsRockefeller:
If I can get my income to rise between 70k to 100k, I would then begin to consider finding a wife.

A word of advice bro, kindly add a working class lady or someone who does something for a living to your equation lest that your proposed 6-figure salary will be meaningless.

Let me give you a case study, there was a time I was earning more than 300K monthly and my wife wasn't working. Mehn, life was tough and hell. Before month end, I don borrow full ground. But to the glory of God, now, she has her own shop and Covid-19 don reduce my own income to around 60K (from side hustle though). Life has good and easy because she dey support my ministry. I'll just drop 40K month end, she'll augment it and buy food stuff full house. Guyman go still hold the remaining 20K use am dey do big boy small.

Business man
Average income
1M a month

Wifey does not have details into my finances sha

Private Job, 35k letter grow to 75k after our wedding.

Movicq:
12million..... ExonMobil Computer Analysts

This is yearly, correct?

thesicilian:
I don't think it's about the money itself, but more about you and your partner, the ability to hustle together, understand each other, cooperate towards a common goal and cut your coat according to your cloth in the meantime.

Sir or ma'am money is a very big factor in running a family or starting one.
Please no one should deny this fact.

Eulalia:
Be optimistic. That you're earning averagely now doesn't mean you'll remain at that level.

What if you wait and till 60 you're still an average earner? Is it then you'll now decide to settle down? So don't let that be a major determining factor to settling down. Something may or may not happen along the line but just go with the flow in the mean time and hope for the best. Either ways, we will still hope for the best.

We have seen people who started out with high earnings only for things to go south along the line but that didn't make them shut down family life. So put your trust in God and not your present financial status.

MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER WELLDONE

Biglittlelois:
All of you saying marriage is not all about money, I just dey look una...

Don't mind them,let them come in first, they think day na for mouth. I love you, I love you no be when money no dey

436, 000 in naira, but I haven’t been married

Movicq:
12million..... ExonMobil Computer Analysts

This is yearly, correct?

lekki1444:
6 million naira as GM at etisalat. annual 72million

I don't think someone who earn such will be here. No disrespect though

lekki1444:
6 million naira as GM at etisalat. annual 72million

Hmmmmmm
Adeleke in-law

Abi adenuga

Casan0va:
I'm not married and don't think I want to.
Might change my mind later.

People that use 600k and above to do traditional wedding to impress people, we'll done o

After wedding, you come down to earth, owing lots of people.
If you want to get married, check your pocket, no go do pass yourself.

And, know who you're about to get married to. Don't go for someone that has faulty thinking faculty.

Sometimes, you can't avoid such spending. When your inlaws give you marriage list, that is when you know what to spend. Some marriage lists alone are close to, about or even more than 600 thousand

I need this kind of Grace oo Egbon. I need a good job Asap

AmazingELixir:


When I proposed I was doing N168k about 2 months later heading to the traditional marriage I landed a job of N450k ..so when I was rolling out cash for the ceremony my people were like ogbeni wetin happen you do money ritual ni....I was like make una calm down person wey find wife find good thing.

VINDYLOMO:
When I got married 16 years ago in Lagos my monthly take home was 16k, today I earn 7 digit annually, 3cars and four flats to the glory of God. All you need is focus and determination, With God every other things will fall into places. Also always look ahead to move and grow your career at any given opportunity. Never be satisfied with your present.

I need a job Sir..logistics, warehouse, inventory supply chain, or procurement operations.. that's my field, pls let God use you if u can. thank you!!

lekki1444:
bro I am trolling

E shaperly deny am

I can imagine what your dm looks like now

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright



Sister
I swear me just dey observe them
Although some people dey say at times some women get blessings and once you marry them then 2seconds your money fit bust
But me nor go try am

I nor go risk am. Make my money first come .. after my money don arrive then such woman with blessing fit come make the money long the more after marriage


May our kids never use the food formation: 0 1 0
Zero breakfast! One lunch! Zero dinner

SmartPolician:
If I don't make up to 500k per month, I am not getting married

Well, I am at 350k at the moment

���350k, what are you still doing in nairaland

70k and married for 17years.But now level has changed with the mercy of God.

philip0906:

E shaperly deny am

I can imagine what your dm looks like now

lolzzzz

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright



Sister
I swear me just dey observe them
Although some people dey say at times some women get blessings and once you marry them then 2seconds your money fit bust
But me nor go try am

I nor go risk am. Make my money first come .. after my money don arrive then such woman with blessing fit come make the money long the more after marriage


May our kids never use the food formation: 0 1 0
Zero breakfast! One lunch! Zero dinner

You are on point. Make sure you have a stable source of income before marriage. If not,no be better experience ooo

Crofton:



Lwkmd, I just dey imagine the number of Nairaland girls wey rush go view your profile .

Good question..I got married in 2018 as a Male Nurse and I was earning a total of 150k per month from 2 jobs in Lagos. I live in a mini flat on the mainland with rent of 250k/year. My wife does petty business plus a monthly salary of 60k. To me, marriage has been a blessing. I now make an average of 300k monthly. I bought my first car last month comfortably and the family is fine

agwom:
Which year sir?

2012/2013

With what I’m seeing daily, Getting married is becoming scaring but when we get to that stage we will know how to cross the boat

EXLOVER:
Nice thread.


It will help we single guys, if only i will marry o. Cause this generation girls hardly focus on one man/preek. Social media dor spoil them.

In short during our marriage, we will have special canopy for all our exes, make we know our enemies. I hate nonsense

calebonuja:


I don't think someone who earn such will be here. No disrespect though

bro, its a virtual world. everybody is online. even bill gates is online. trump is always on instagram and twitter. otedola is always on instagram. the UBA owner is always on instagram its a new world

46k 2013

I earn 40k but God has used my online hustle bless me . been able to save mulla which I'm gonna use in opening biz for her while I retain my job n continue the hustle . . getting married in few months time.

Samfloxin:

Sometimes, you can't avoid such spending. When your inlaws give you marriage list, that is when you know what to spend. Some marriage lists alone are close to, about or even more than 600 thousand

If you are capable, then by all means, carry dey go.

I don't fall for that "Money will come when you get married" statement that a lady will want to download into my ear

30 Billion

30k

Igbodicool:
Salary: #20,000

Location: Eastern Region

Year: 2012

Age: 28

Source of Livelihood: God

Marriage Status: Happy marriage and family.

Present Condition: Stable income with evidences of what money can get.

If you keep looking at money you will not advance in life.

@bolded Da fvck is that? Una too carry religion for head sha

How is that a source of livelihood?