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Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Matchingsquad10: 11:56pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Just listen to yourself, grow up man. |
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Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by BABANGBALI: 12:00am On Jun 24, 2020 |
I dey come let me go and bath, i just finished with my landlady who I dey help to work for her farm. Vickyrotex abi kini mo wi? |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Alwaysachick: 12:01am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Foodqueen: Bad influence from her mother. Every thing seems staged just to find an excuse to leave. 1 Like |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by VickyRotex(f): 12:01am On Jun 24, 2020 |
BABANGBALI: Stop to dey smoke weed |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by OriOko88(m): 12:02am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Sterope:Some of you girls on nairaland are just too lousy and uncouth. What warrants you calling someone stupid because he aired his opinion. Onibaje oshii 5 Likes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by BABANGBALI: 12:03am On Jun 24, 2020 |
VickyRotex:must you come meat me for bathroom to tell me this? Wetin for happen for sey i no tie towel. I no like that kind rough play o. You even knock door see. Na which time that nonsense start now? |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by OriOko88(m): 12:08am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Ybaby:[s] Ybaby:[/s] Ybaby: |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Sterope(f): 12:08am On Jun 24, 2020 |
You can read, cant you? Or is your masculinity in doubt too? OriOko88: |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by InvestorsMind: 12:09am On Jun 24, 2020 |
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Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by VickyRotex(f): 12:11am On Jun 24, 2020 |
BABANGBALI: Wake up! You're hallucinating. This is what Osogbo weed causes. |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Slimsly100(f): 12:11am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Her mum is a single mother Ok.... |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by olaadenigeria(m): 12:15am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Go marry another woman that have good mother in-law. this time look well before you marrying. the children will find you later when they grow
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Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by hardbody: 12:15am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Stephenomozzy: All of these ontop woman I married and kept in my house? Not saying you should do this but if it's me, she will come back and become a second wife. Another lady will welcome her. Nonesense and ingredients. 3 Likes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by SarkinYarki: 12:17am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Stop marrying ladies with brought up by single mum's una no gree 1 Like |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by SarkinYarki: 12:18am On Jun 24, 2020 |
hardbody: My kind of person ..nobody can even try this with me 1 Like |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Newboss(m): 12:18am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Ohemababy: ALWAYS get the police involved in things like this. Not for arrest but as an insurance policy. For justice. What she did is actually illegal. The kids are not only hers. It's like withdrawing all the money in your joint account with someone without their consent. If your right is infringed upon, contact the police. It's not intimidation. It's your right |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by sketcherJ(m): 12:18am On Jun 24, 2020 |
libertyfather:how sir are u stuck? Pray tell. Wanna learn. I still appreciate the institution of marriage but wanna learn |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by BREYZ: 12:19am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Mistake guys make. Don't avoid those signs. Most single moms contribute to the failure of their children's marriages especially the female folks. You guys always forget that women have lots of influence on their daughters, your wife won't think wisely now because she's following what Mom said and I am sure you didn't bother to ask how she became a single mother. I blame you man. You f up 2 Likes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Bigtitilayo: 12:24am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Dat is d beginning of d problem d mum b a single moda does not want d woman to stay in her marriage if not wat will it cost her mum to settle d mata n constantly praying for him dere should b a difference while she is staying in dere home sisisioge: |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Nobody: 12:26am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Simplexity Here's my advice You have two choices 1. Report your wife to the police 2. Ask her family members for help I personally think you should inform your own family members of the incident then find the next step But if you're reeeeeealy angry then maybe you should involve the police If you truly love your wife take the 2nd advice But if you don't' then take the first advice I leave it to you. |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by landforeast(m): 12:28am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Men don't give your wife easy hand from thr first day or she will take you for a ride. Maintain principle and wear that skin of a lion but don't fail to shower her with love when necessary. The mistake you made is that you gave your wife free hand and it seems there are some people spoiling her mind against You. Go and look for your kids and Thunder like a man you are 3 Likes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by VirginFinder: 12:28am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Righteousness89: |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Sailorsoldier1: 12:30am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Stephenomozzy:This is a wrong advice I won't explain why. 1 Like |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Sailorsoldier1: 12:31am On Jun 24, 2020 |
landforeast:You are right. |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Sailorsoldier1: 12:32am On Jun 24, 2020 |
DontBullshitMe:Yes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Originalsly: 12:33am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Hmmm...... the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Brought up by a single mom..... you should expect your wife's attitude to be like her mom. Has she not rained curses on you as yet? Don't expect her to see sense and reasoning as long as the mother is still here on earth. Anyone can tell them anything negative about you.... they would believe without question Read up on post partum.... you may better understand her after birth behavior and have a whole lot of tolerance for it. For now... relax.... make no effort to go after her nor communicate with her. She will return.... but don't allow the mother back under your roof. 1 Like |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Bigtitilayo: 12:45am On Jun 24, 2020 |
D guy is not a straight forward person so he will ve issues in his marriage zedegit: 1 Like |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by opius: 12:46am On Jun 24, 2020 |
DontBullshitMe: Strong man what will you do if are the one |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by mrsirval: 12:55am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Scared of marrying 1 Like |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Justdogood(m): 12:56am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Guy. @op. You are just too weak for my liking. 1, let her have the children. If I am you hmmmmm. I can go all out out to defend myself once I know am innocent. See. Time teaches all of us a lesson. If am in your shoes, though I wouldn't wanna be. I will not call her again. As long as she is away. I will change all the keys to that house. I will stop sending her even if its 1kobo. Since she decided to move out and hide her location. See, women are alwasy good at this the play card no 1, watch ur reactions and play card 2, 3, 4 and so on. Bone her for now and dont even feel bothered. You can do it. 2. Shun her mothers words and actions its your mistake from the first time. Which is letting her come live with you guys. 3. There has to be rules and guidelines for the house if she is going to come back. See, when the going gets tough, the tough gets going. They say when the birds have decided to fly without perching. We the hunters will learn to shoot without aiming. The rules should include. -Her mother can come visiting, but will not stay more than 2weeks -sex now has to be scheduled or timed or you should be the one to initiate divorce. The sex should be at least twice weekly -no abusive words from mum inlaw or your wife again. As long as they are under your roof. Also you -the next time she leaves the house without your notice and not disclosing her whereabouts, that day the marriage ends. As you will file for divorce. Cos i have noticed. Women use that which you cherish the most to threaten you cos they know you are scared to lose it. Thats why she is always using divorce or your children. Cos she feels you are scared. Please add as much stringent rules as u can. Cos the way your marriage is going, if you dont get strong and tough, you will end up being turned into a simp or a sis, or a vegetable husband who has an alpha wife, or they will push you till you die or commit suicide. Sit up father of the house, Sit up my fellow man, Sit up papa mmadu, You are the man, You are the head of that house lead that house. Dont let any mother inlaw or wife chnage this. Finally if she decides to chnage. In all aspects You can soft pedal on the above listed conditions. Thanks 3 Likes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by hotspec(m): 12:57am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Dangrace01:thst ur second paragraph really make sense. I remeber d mother in law yabbing me one day dt if my wife has blissful home, fine, anfif she fails to have it then no qualms..... in Yoruba... to Ba ni ibujoko Ayo, oni niyen, Ti KO Ba De ni, KO ni naa niyen 1 Like |
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