I saw "when I was half man, half woman" as thread title, I just rushed into thread and judging from what I read, I'm confused.
Excuse Me, Mr Op, what are you now?

Sofistcatdmoron:

I believe, no matter the level of surgery that was carried out,
Doctors can not cheat nature,
Nature has made the op both male and female at the same time, both features will keep showing

I am of the opinion that nature creates challenges so we can get busy finding solutions. If Op had been born in a developed country this type of defects would have been corrected at birth. The truth is even conjoined twins are separated successfully so I believe this can be corrected to near perfection. The rest of the world has left us behind infrastructure and technologically wise but our doctors are doing wonders in every nook and cranny of the world.

Op should keep hope alive and keep up appearances, help will come and self esteem will be restored absolutely.

Which kind bastard b this?

olu77:


I am of the opinion that nature creates challenges so we can get busy finding solutions. If Op had been born in a developed country this type of defects would have been corrected at birth. The truth is even conjoined twins are separated successfully so I believe this can be corrected to near perfection. The rest of the world has left us behind infrastructure and technologically wise but our doctors are doing wonders in every nook and cranny of the world.

Op should keep hope alive and keep up appearances, help will come and self esteem will be restored absolutely.

No matter how they correct it,
It still gpnna show, we have seen many pf them
Doctors are not God

light099:
There we go again.
Though I can castigate homosexuals, I can't castigate people with natural defects of being transgendered.



No. No. No.
Homosexuals are not natural, just psychological freaks.
It's the society that encourages and nurtures this bullshiit in the victims, instead of helping them.

When people have abnormal mental and psychological issues, they're to be helped not encouraged.
When you see someone displaying traits of mental misbehaviors, do you encourage them? No, you help them get back to normal?

Physiology is different from Psychology.
A woman born with three breasts is different from a woman with abnormal craving to suck the breasts of her fellow woman.

they are not mentally ill.They are who they are

I'm back now, will be answering your questions. Sorry my phone tripped off. I had to charge it

Elimon:

I had a male classmate in secondary school who was more of a girl than a guy...I mean behaviour, speech, Company he keep are all girls..even girls were more free with him that he could accompany them to toilet freely..It was funny tho and abusive...but the guy couldn't change upon the abuses and urges..
he left our school and I have never seen him again..
Maybe he has boobs and hips now..loll

it doesn't really mean all effeminate guys do develop female features or do identify as females or gays. I have a friend who is more of a female than a male in his body and he still feels very much like a man and identifies as a man. He tried his whole best to get rid of his feminity by always gyming but it never went away, it kept coming. Gender identity truly lies in the brain.

chingle5:
Hmmmmmmmm this is a Big issue..... We should make a documentary film about it.. Thanks for educating us the Cavemen

will write a book about myself in the future

Openbusiness:

From your pictures it looks like you are more female than male. Do you have sexual attraction for boys? Do you act and behave in a feminine way? Do you think like a boy or girl? How is your physical strength like, are you stronger like a boy or less strong like a girl. And the most important part, how do you see yourself. I mean deep down, when all the lights are out, and the sun is sleeping, and everywhere is quiet and there is peace inside you, at such times, how do you see yourself or better yet, let me rephrase it as "how do you FEEL" about yourself. Do you feel male or female. The answer to these questions will go a long way to determine which sex change operation you should have. If you lean more towards a girlish side, then you are female. And you should do a sex change in that direction. Don't feel bad about yourself. You are not the first person in this condition and you won't be the last. It's a biological error that medical science has an answer for. The only problem is the procedure is kinda expensive. So if you can try use social media to raise awareness (in a +ve way) for yourself like you are doing now, to get government attention or attention for capable NGO's then you should hopefully get a sponsor to do it for you. I think in some places in America they have some govt funding for such, so it you are lucky, you can even draw international attention and get help you need overseas. But you have to be sure which gender you really want to be, because really once the sex change is done, it is very difficult to reverse. So you have to think deep and look inside yourself well to know yourself. Nobody else can choose best for you but you. So that when you choose female, you won't come back 5 years later and say you're now feeling or thinking like a boy. Wish you the best. Good luck. You are not an abomination. The problem is just that Mother Nature is obsessed with diversity. Dat woman na "diversity fanatic". But that doesn't mean you are less human than the rest of us. It just means you are among the privilege few Mother Nature has given the rare privilege to choose which sex they want to be. Most of us never got that chance

you can see my clearer pics on this thread i made long time ago https://www.nairaland.com/5841401/intersex-hermaphrodite-exist-learn#89281836 ... And to your questions, my body shape is more of a female than a male, i did develop little beards but not much. My brain is completely feminized and this is where gender identity truly lies in so i exhibit all mannerism of a female. The way i walk, sit, stand all reads female. For my voice, i do have a deep masculine voice and a also a feminine voice but because i want to go through the female path, i always love using the feminine voice and dropped the masculine voice. It required of practice because at times i do sound like both. My facial features will be more of androgynous, my hairline is that of a female. I'm sexually attracted 100% to men and i do identify myself as a straight female. Intersex is not a gender identity, its a physical condition that can happen to someone so most of us are misunderstood, raised up wrongly. I have always identified as a girl despite my intersex nature but lot of people do not see it that way but deep down within my heart, i know i am a girl and never know how it feels like to be a man and never ever able to relate to them or never understand why they do the things they do. So my gender identity is female and my sex is intersex . i am an intersex girl.

falcon01:
Don't you have clear photos? All your pics are low quality

ya check it on this thread to see my clearer pics. I'm still kind of shy and hiding myself that is why i don't like taking too clear pic. https://www.nairaland.com/5841401/intersex-hermaphrodite-exist-learn#89281836

IAmSkinny:




So if you want to fvck nko?
Will you nack a girl or a guy or have you been nacking a girl or a guy?

my brain is more of a female so i don't get those male feelings like to penetrate anyone . So i have never felt that way or got arousal through that way. I always like playing the female role on bed

wiseone28:
What type of clothes do you wear most.?

when i want to take pictures, i do wear female clothes and then i click but here in real life, i do dress more androgynous. The reason is because my certificate still read male and i need a more secure and comfortable environment to reside in because lot of people won't understand all of this. So most times i'm dressed in baggy outfits hiding my shape and my breast, i don't shave much all the time and i cut my hair short but lol i still have female hairline. My hair grows very fast

TheMohican:



The funny thing is that such occurrences are more rampart than we know, that's why the Bible says not to judge people based on anything.

ya. In Transgender cases, their brain is fully wired like a man or a woman so their brain receptors don't respond to the male or female cells that flows in it but their bodies is typical male or female.

AscentSolutions:

Stay strong. Don’t kill yourself (saw your previous posts) . Worse case scenario, you leave Nigeria and live A purposeful life without sneering gazes in more developed societies where you would get good support. Be strong.

most times i feel depressed, so alone. Its hard to see people like myself. Even on movies, you don't see them. So i just feel i don't belong

shortgun:
Why do I feel the OP is making this up for God knows why?
I believe he's trying to hoodwink some people with crazy sex fantasies.
Only you have Dick,pussy,breast,beard and all the features of a male and a female

Aha! I said it, here's one of his previous posts

https://www.nairaland.com/5947485/sniper-didnt-work-me

ya i tried to kill myself before but it failed. I suffer from depression, its nor easy being a man and a woman at the same time especially in this world that separate male and female in everything we do then where do intersex people stand? Mind you, intersex is not a gender, its a physical condition that happens to someone.

Richnerd69:



Hmm.. I Pray you go stronger and be who you want to be. When you say 'sex', is it with a female or male?

Thank you. I am more sexually attracted towards males so i do with men. Yes, i confess girls like me a lot too and do hit on me too but i just don't feel anything for them. I only see them as my fellow girls because i know i'm a straight girl.

prinsam30:
Oboy see beta bwest and u no cum get yanch

who tell you say i no get ynash? That trouser no reach my waist for that picture, i dey sag for that picture. See this one the trouser reach my waist, bring out my ynash well well

seanwilliam:
Sorry do you have pussy and dick ni

well one is out, the other requires operation to be fully developed.

HenryDion:


That's why we need to support the LGBTQ+ community. They are born that way, beyond their control!

exactly

HenryDion:


I want to believe that you're a Ph.D. holder in psychology, right? If not, then I demand you shut your big mouth cause you know nothing about psychology.

The half baked education you got in Nigeria is not enough to dispute APA's assertion in 1973 that homosexuality is not a mental disorder.

Instead of flaunting your hate and ignorance in a public forum, while don't you take a break and fix your shitty life?

The only one in this thread with an obvious psychological disorder is you!

its sad they still think homosexuality is psychological

olu77:


Educate yourself. The world is not black on white there are many shades of grey. The OP is just one out of thousands dying in silence.

I hope OP gets help as soon as possible in order to live a fulfill and happy life.

https://www.informationng.com/2019/10/how-i-was-dropped-from-national-team-for-having-male-female-sexual-organs-ex-nigerian-striker-video.html

thanks

Angelacruz:
Weird creature

na so God make me oh and are you insulting God's creature? We are all made beautiful in God's eyes

Heromaniaa:
be strong. Be brave. The world does not understand now, it will later. You are okay, there is a place for you on earth like every other person. The world is diverse. Diversity is not ugly, not a crime, not an abomination. You still can change the world for the better, which is and should be the ultimate goal of humans. Be strong. The world hates what it doesn't understand. It is their fault not yours.

Thank you dear. If i wasn't strong, i would have been dead by now, killed myself and i wouldn't have made this post. There are lot of people like me but they are too scared to speak up/open up beacuse of stigmatization. I also received lot of stigmatization but all these things makes me stronger. Our voice is our freedom.

Anotii:
Problem dey o

no be problem, i'm also human being like you oh.

freemi:
but were does he penetrate the small hole or...?

hmm, many of us do anal.

Sofistcatdmoron:
Can we see it,
I only see she male in porn i often think it doesn't exist in real life

shemales are mostly gay or transgender people that are injected on hormone pills to physically alter their appearance to that of a female they really feel like but leave their manhood, they are mostly featured in porn movies. Its like calling a woman a prostitute. Shem#le is an offensive word and though our appearance may be similar, but our cases/struggle is different

DonDemu:
Does your dick has normal erection like that of a guy?

i get erection at times but not morning erection.

drajjay:
Be strong and never let anybody or comment about who you are deny you your happiness. I believe what you have is called androgen insensitivity syndrome or Mayer Rokitansky Kuster Hauser (MRKH) syndrome . You complained of abdominal pains. Please go for check up preferably in a teaching hospital as you are at risk of gonadal cancer (seminoma).

yes i do have abdominal pains especially at night.

Xeeex:


Which sex are you attracted to sexually?

Are you attracted to males or females sexually?

males

OYENIYIJK:

my brother, na for news I dey read am but now I don give up... It is REAL!!!!

difficult to believe but the situation is the way it is

IntersexSherry:
who tell you say i no get ynash? That trouser no reach my waist for that picture, i dey sag for that picture. See this one the trouser reach my waist, bring out my ynash well well

still the yanch is not bumpy


anyway I wish u all the best, buh if u need someone to talk to, just email me ur digits mybrainatwork1@gmail.com

eni4real:
You are getting it wrong!!

This case is 100% different from Bobrisky and Bruce Jenner's case!

Bobriksy is a crossdresser, really don't know if she/he identifies as transgender or does all that for business. Bruce jenner is a transgender, someone with brain of a woman and body of a man but changed their physical appearance to match with their gender identity . Intersex cases are different as we are born naturally with bodies that is neither a typical male or female by nature be it in our hormones, gonads, chromosome, phenotype. It can occur at birth or as we tend to reach a certain age. Some never find out they are intersex