Thursday, February 3, 2011

Should I marry a man who doesn't believe in love?

Another email,

He asked me to marry him after telling me he's never been in love and doesn't plan to ever fall in love because he doesn't believe in the existence of love . He wants to get married because it's time for him to start a family. Should I marry a man who doesn't believe in love? Toks

Let me rephrase that Toks. Should you marry a man who doesn't love you? I wouldn't! But that's me. I'm weird. Let regular folks answer that question for you. Over to you guys, !

http://lindaikeji..com/2011/02/can-i-marry-man-who-doesnt-believe-in.html

Who banned this afro?

Nope! don't.

no no no no no no no no no no no no no nope!!!!!!!!! i will never.

What is this and what is ''Toks''??



You already answered your question,he doesn't love you,he want to get married to you,cos he's due to start a family.
what answers do you want again??

You tell me.

to fall in love can't be planned
if he doesnt love u now doesnt mean that he will never fall in love
do u really want a marriage without love just to give him a family

hope247:

to fall in love can't be planned
if he doesnt love u now doesnt mean that he will never fall in love
do u really want a marriage without love just to give him a family

You want her to marry him with the hope of him falling in love later?

Which is better

a) To marry a man who from the onset doesn't believe in love but knows the right thing to do and when . .

b) To marry a man who is ALWAYS in love and yet breaks ever rule of love ever . . .

I'll choose a!

Ujujoan:

Which is better   

a) To marry a man who from the onset doesn't believe in love but knows the right thing to do and when . .

b) To marry a man who is ALWAYS in love and yet breaks ever rule of love ever  . . .

I'll choose a!

What about choosing neither and remaining single?

Okay, isn't Love the main reason why you ARE marrying this person?? It's even in the vows you take to one another.  He can't possibly be "religious" and not believe in "love".  God is love.  So why would I want someone who "feels" they are incapable or "want" to love.  It makes me wonder if they love themself.  If you don't love yourself, you can't possibly love me.  I'm not willing to take that chance of marrying someone who isn't in-love with livedit.  How can two walk side by side unless they agree? That's bible. So NOPE! Livedit can't marry a man who doesn't believe or want to believe in love.  All I see is a trick of the enemy having this guy think like that.  That's not of God.  The devil and his demons are the only things incapable of loving.

livedit:

Okay, isn't Love the main reason why you ARE marrying this person?? It's even in the vows you take to one another.  He can't possibly be "religious" and not believe in "love".  God is love.  So why would I want someone who "feels" they are incapable or "want" to love.  It makes me wonder if they love themself.  If you don't love yourself, you can't possibly love me.  I'm not willing to take that chance of marrying someone who isn't in-love with livedit.  How can two walk side by side unless they agree? That's bible. So NOPE! Livedit can't marry a man who doesn't believe or want to believe in love.  All I see is a trick of the enemy having this guy think like that.  That's not of God.  The devil and his demons are the only things incapable of loving.

Not always. Other reasons for getting maried are:

1. To escape poverty

2. To join the league of the marrieds

3. To raise a family

4. To escape being old and lonely.

5. For career purposes, business connections, etc.

I would not marry someone if that don't believe in love. If we are using marriage as a ploy to get something then that would be different. However, it is not worth being married to someone that is not your equal.

aloy/emeka:

Thursday, February 3, 2011

Should I marry a man who doesn't believe in love?

Another email,

He asked me to marry him after telling me he's never been in love and doesn't plan to ever fall in love because he doesn't believe in the existence of love . He wants to get married because it's time for him to start a family. Should I marry a man who doesn't believe in love? Toks

Let me rephrase that Toks. Should you marry a man who doesn't love you? I wouldn't! But that's me. I'm weird. Let regular folks answer that question for you. Over to you guys, !

http://lindaikeji..com/2011/02/can-i-marry-man-who-doesnt-believe-in.html

you can never plan to fall in love it happens on its own

one can not believe in love but can beloved and shown love and start to believe in love

Mrs.Chima:

I would not marry someone if that don't believe in love.  If we are using marriage as a ploy to get something then that would be different.  However, it is not worth being married to someone that is not your equal. 

Why? . Is it not appropriate for a professor to marry a pepper seller or the daughter of Dangote to marry the son of a retired primary school headmaster?

I am referring to EQUALLY YOKED SUGA.  For example, if you smoke weed and she doesn't smoke weed. You guys aren't equally yoked. It JUST AN EXAMPLE SUGA. WORK WITH ME.

Mrs.Chima:

I am referring to EQUALLY YOKED SUGA.  For example, if you smoke weed and she doesn't smoke weed.  You guys aren't equally yoked.   It JUST AN EXAMPLE SUGA.  WORK WITH ME.

There is no way two people can love similar things at the same point in time. So, having that in mind, define equally yoked for me.

Sighs.

I am not fighting with you so no need to sign. I only asked a question because I am confused. Don't I deserve to be put through?

aloy/emeka:

Not always. Other reasons for getting maried are:

1. To escape poverty

2. To join the league of the marrieds

3. To raise a family

4. To escape being old and lonely.

5. For career purposes, business connections, etc.

Because of these reasons, this is why so many marriages end in divorce. God didn't invent marriage just for career purposes, to escape poverty etc. It was "man" who turned it upside down around and twisted it. So many people have strayed away and refuse to accept the institution of marriage. God is love. God can not joined two people together when one doesn't or want to love the other person. There is no in-between or gray area when it comes to love. You either love that person, or you don't. Simple as that. All of the reasons listed above is doomed to fail. These people are marrying for the wrong reason. If the person is marrying because poverty, then maybe it's because they not looking to God as their main source. They possibly put all their faith into everything else but God. I don't look to "man" to supply all my needs because "man" is incapable of doing that. I look to my "father". Because he is the provider, a comforter, a healer, and so much more. He is an awesome God and when you are serving Him, and keeping his covenant and keeping him first in your life, you will never need for anything.

aloy/emeka:

There is no way two people can love similar things at the same point in time. So, having that in mind, define equally yoked for me.

The bible says: "How can two people walk side by side unless they agree". God is a spirit. Therefore God put people together by their spirits. God will not put together a couple whose spirits are not equally matched (yoked). You have one person serving God and the other serving the devil. Two people who have different beliefs. He has to have two people who is walking the same path to complete his will. Two people who will compliment each other. Where one maybe be weak in a certain area, the other one maybe strong in that area. Two people who will motivate each other, bring out the best in that person, similiar personalities, morals and goals and much more.

Please people, livedit don't feel like preaching today. But if I have too, I will!

WARNING, WARNING, WARNING

Don't ever get married to someone that doesn't love you or pretending, it's deadly. One day he/she will run into life frustration and may decide to waste you at the middle of the night. Any union with the absence of love is of the devil, so please beware.

livedit:

Because of these reasons, this is why so many marriages end in divorce.  God didn't invent marriage just for career purposes, to escape poverty etc.  It was "man" who turned it upside down around and twisted it.  So many people have strayed away and refuse to accept the institution of marriage.  God is love.  God can not joined two people together when one doesn't or want to love the other person.  There is no in-between or gray area when it comes to love.  You either love that person, or you don't. Simple as that.  All of the reasons listed above is doomed to fail.  These people are marrying for the wrong reason.  If the person is marrying because poverty, then maybe it's because they not looking to God as their main source.  They possibly put all their faith into everything else but God.  I don't look to "man" to supply all my needs because "man" is incapable of doing that.  I look to my "father".  Because he is the provider, a comforter, a healer, and so much more.  He is an awesome God and when you are serving Him, and keeping his covenant and keeping him first in your life, you will never need for anything. 

Right on point. 5 star response.

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Ofcourse Not!Except,if u dont think in d same way like him!