postmann:


The simple answer is no. Because men are not wired to accept that. Once there is coital violation on the part of the woman, then the mariage is mentally, psychologically and romantically over. I deliberately left out the spiritual part in order to stay aligned within the scope of this section.

The woman's sexual organ is sacred and should never be violated by another man in marriage. It is taboo.

You are ridiculous if you feel like only a womans organ must be respected. You as a man need to keep yourself too. This is what happens ladies and gentlemen- when a man is raised without a father figure. I can tell your dad was either a bad one or not in your life.

Op. The question has its answer attach to it from GOD Himself... Reality or internet, the answer is NO and will be NO, you see those guys saying they may take her back are even worse than us that will only end the marriage, they will harrass and bullied both of them before send the wife packing... Sha am not yet married, even my girlfriend can't do that to my face

Look at all these men saying No, but you expect your wife to forgive you when you cheat on them abi? Once you are a cheat and you are cheated on ,then you have no right to judge. Women are not robots. Treat your women right

emkz:
Until everyone is faced with this situation, no one knows exactly how he'd handle it. And there are many who take back cheating wives, but they won't say so in a public forum. Perhaps your thread should have been: "how many men took back cheating wives and how was the relationship afterwards?". I bet you won't get half a page of comments but you'd get more than 60k views.

Once woman cheats, she can never respect her husband again. For many men, they prefer respect to love, and if they feel disrespected, that's it.

Your last paragraph is an eternal truth...that’s why the Bible told women to honor their husbands and told men to love their wives...notice that the woman and man were told to do different things for their union to work...the man was even given a greater task and all the woman is asked to is to honor/respect..that’s what I (and most men want) respect and loyalty, you can keep your ‘love’ after all Most women can only truly love themselves and their offspring.

Oladayo12:
Kiss the truth and respect every woman, shikena!

Not all woman Mr Mugamba, Adultresses deserve no respect for disrespecting the sanctity of their matrimony, I only respect virtues woman.

No way!

Reasons
1) No more love (her presence will irritate me from the moment I find out)
2) Respect is no longer there.
3)It is the only approved reason for divorce.

NO... She's a gonners for life

Righteousness89:
Personally, it may be Difficult but if she Genuinely repents, I have no Choice than to take Here back!





I don't see myself having that anyway! I have got a Heavenly Virtuous Wife...

I am so Privileged to have such a woman..

Mumu oshi ,am d one banging ur wife .on ur matrimonial bed sef , sometimes i use ur body towel to clean my tanta .

In reality, men also lose respect when they cheat. Which is why some are really discreet make their hand no fall. The level of respect drops from the wife, kids and other family members who know about it.

emkz:
Until everyone is faced with this situation, no one knows exactly how he'd handle it. And there are many who take back cheating wives, but they won't say so in a public forum. Perhaps your thread should have been: "how many men took back cheating wives and how was the relationship afterwards?". I bet you won't get half a page of comments but you'd get more than 60k views.

Once woman cheats, she can never respect her husband again. For many men, they prefer respect to love, and if they feel disrespected, that's it.

Mayng01:

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Hmmmmm! Women are women, that is what and who they are. Love them, don’t trust them.... so that if the betrayal attack approaches... heart attack won’t bug you & you will survive it. Digest it connotatively.

Please kindly raise your hand if you're in total support of this very sensible and 100% on point comments.

Norano:

I have seen married women cheating and nothing happens, same as married men. Absolutely nothing, they still live the same way with their husbands/wifes, nobody is monitoring anybody.

Only single men keep ranting on the internet about how they would chase out their wives immediately, in reality most married men forgive their wives.
Look around you, have all cheating wives been chased out of their matrimonial home.

P.S don't quote me again, I don't have the time for useless arguments

fool. What you and your olosho bitch wife does is what you want sane people here to copy. Rubbish and nonsense. You allowed that because she Is the one feeding you. Worthless Man. Blue goat. Can you imagine the rubbish he posted here ehn so it's a normal thing and should continue. Mother fucker thunder fire you there

She's taken me back two times when I erred so , I will if she errs.

thank you boss

the Bible gives us 2 options and i will choose the one that suits me. Straight to ur papa house

NEVER! No Second Thought

Amanee:
On the internet: No

In reality: Yes

That's your own opinion. Well if yes in reality, that marriage will be f*ucked up forever!!

No ,I will kill her secretly after forgiving her. I hate nonsense.

Any man that accepts a cheating wife is a capital Id10T and has no self esteem or dignity. Such a man is either being fed or controlled by his wife..

HeavenlyCherub:


You are ridiculous if you feel like only a womans organ must be respected. You as a man need to keep yourself too. This is what happens ladies and gentlemen- when a man is raised without a father figure. I can tell your dad was either a bad one or not in your life.

The downfall of mankind, as occasioned by Eve's usurpation, greed and disrespect for divine hierarchical order is manifested in your post.

Not only are you loose and lack respect for your own body, you are spiritually and intellectually bereft of what it takes to be a woman, Ms SatanicCherub.

Lool. Again simpletons abound. No I will not and would only advise those whose livelihoods depend on the wife in the meantime or if as a man it will be difficult to marry another for whatever reason. The reason is the psychological and emotional barrier a woman needs to cross to cheat. Women need to trust and love a guy somewhat b4 going ahead to sleep with them. A guy does not need that emotional bond to sleep with a woman. That connection takes some time to form and will go on forever until the woman either wants something more or the guy decides to move on. There are a lot of instances where women have tried and succeded in eliminating their husbands so they can be with their boifriend. Even if she does not eliminate you, she would emotionally and sexually be unavailable to you. For men, they can cheat and still love their wives and make sure they are protected. If push comes to shove, they will choose their wives over any other woman. Cheating is bad for either sex. But emotional and psychological gymnastics differ which makes it dangerous for a man to keep a cheating woman. Except for the reasons listed above. Forget Will Smith. He does not want to split his wealth if he divorces as he does not have a prenup. Na y dem still dey together.

Well most Nigerian men won't. I've often heard many of them say their wife cheating on them is the only thing they can't forgive, even though they're serial cheat themselves.

Then again, I don't blame them for cheating because from what I've seen, many Nigerian women will deprive you of sex, if they know you're not cheating on them.

For me, I can't say.

I don't see it happening to me but I will never accept her back..

Johntemmy:
On top the matter can you take your wife back after you caught her cheating on you?

Please I need advice and sincere reply thanks everyone.

No I wont

NO WAY

Munzy14:

No.

Even in relationship it is a deal breaker in addition to stealing for me. If you are my woman, and u do this two, or even one, Game over..

Reasons;
1. If she cheat, I am no longer enough for her. In fact if the new man is hitting her on center of gravity where e deh sweet her pass, I av automatically become an Impedance for her.

2. Due to me becoming an impedance, she can eliminate me easily,because she cooks my family meal.

3. I am likely going to commit murder, I knw what i can do. I really don't want anyone to awake the demon in me..

4. A lot of beauty and cool headed with brain ladies out there, so I really don't need to keep a time bomb(cheating wife) under my roof..

5. She will corrupt my kids, especially the females. Because mother goat weh deh chop yam, the pikin go copy am.

6. Its difficult for a woman to cheat, but ones she does, she has crossed..

Lastly, there are tendencies of a woman to bleep easily for material things, Just like we have the tendencies of a man to bleep just to release konji wit no strings attached.

And cheating is a choice.

you've just said it all.....thank you for that

Never! never!! never!!! never!!!! never!!!!! never!!!!!! never!!!!!!! game over!

GboyegaD:
I don't pray it happens but I will if and only I can reason genuinely why it is my fault.

How does a woman cheating on you make it your fault?

Yes if kids are involved
But only her life will become miserable for ever and ever and ever and ever

With time she will finally walk away on her own

This is a re occurring everyday situation in our society...many reasons why ladies cheat
⚡️ Erectile dysfunction of the man...
⚡️ Distance ...
⚡️Spiritual or other reasons (inability to father a child due to quality of sperm)

In short: Some Men will forgive their wives for cheating because they know the faults came from them.

Even when the fault is not from them, they still tend to forgive...(spiritual implications) ... elders will advice a man to let it go and forgive the woman...not because the woman is right but because of the repercussions that may arise in the Man’s life.

Bottom line.... just accept whatever woman you marry. That’s your cross

For me it's a no no because, when a wife starts cheating on her husband the next thing for her is how to eliminate that man in as much she is doing it with all pleasure and without any remorse

77Craze:
Its choice! I don't cheat, so I don't expect a cheating partner

and what is the reason?

Johntemmy:
On top the matter can you take your wife back after you caught her cheating on you?

Please I need advice and sincere reply thanks everyone.

No way... Cuz there is a great percentage that she will still cheat again if given the opportunity..

So NO!