Good morning ma,

Help me post my story. I need advise please. I have known my boyfriend for over 9 years now. We love each other so much that our families are both aware. But I will say,we always break up and come back all the time.

It all started when I got pregnant for him 6 years ago. We were both not ready at the time so we got an abortion. Later, he said I pushed him to agree to the abortion, that he did not really want it.(which is partially true) but both of us were not financially stable and we were still living with our parents. No way to bring a child into this world.

As a result of him blaming me all the time for the abortion, I broke up with him and moved to Abuja. I met one of his friends who accommodated me in Abuja and we were intimate. Not because I loved him but I just allowed it cos I had no where to go ..I was kinda paying him back with s*x.

My boyfriend heard about it and called me. I did not deny. He begged me to come back and I did after like 9 months in Abuja. I came back to join him in Lagos but I found out that he too had a lady he was casually dating while we broke up and the lady did not want to leave him when we got back together.

This lady became the cause of our quarrel everyday. I wanted to revenge on him for making me come back to Lagos where his side chick will not want to leave us alone. I....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/07/20/we-have-been-dating-for-over-9-years-yet-we-both-fear-getting-married/

The problem in marriage is the introduction of third parties. Man with his family and woman with hers.

Na una sef una dey deceive..no be us.

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