Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

To be candid,your woman is not a Nigerian lady by character. The ones I know would even suggest you spend up to 3million so that their wedding would become the talk of town.

Please listen to this angel of yours and always learn to honor her everyday,you have indeed found a diamond among million stones.
Wedding would last for a day, marriage would last for years and I'm sure this is her reason of her insisting you spend minimal. She is indeed a good woman.

I guess you don't have anything else to do with money rather than spending it on wedding. Spend the 500k she insisted and send the remaining to me to do a lucrative business.

My immediate elder sister's husband wanted to buy a new car for her, meanwhile they didn't have a house of their own.
She said no, buy land and build a house for US.
He almost remove her teeth in anger.
He also said that she shouldn't work, but she no gree.
Na yeye pride go kill some men.

Interesting

Baba God dun already butter ur bread!!
Carry go OP
Happy Marriage Life in Advance

You are stupid for churning out this BS.

This is a fake story.

You are truly fortunate my brother..let me tell you bitter truth,that lady is not ordinary and she agreed to use her unseen power to boost you and assure you all your worries are over. I can't say msyb you pray well or someone on your behalf prayed well for you. As for the wedding, this is my no 08035616271 chat me let us plan together,I am into photo and video so that one is going to me at affordable price,and the food aspect plus events decoration and cake my wife is into it if you are within where we are. I have good musicians not costly as well as we can get good hall so you can cut the cost. I am married for 13 years still counting, my brother your wife is just like my wife and very very rare..don't push it and do not listen to friends advise by opening her eyes to seeing you as unworthy... Remain blessed. Chat me on WhatsApp so brotherly speaking I can lend you out of my 44years of age.

Jeeeez! That lady is such a RARE SPECIE.....
Where can I meet such a priceless princess....

... Difficult to believe such type of lady still exist in this part of the world.

Ninobraw:


Even if she cheat on me I am not ready to break up

You are a fool. Go get a life, you troll.

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

Story for the gods

https://www.nairaland.com/5970179/second-round-sex-impregnate-woman

op was 27 years in july 4 and now 29 years? is aunty nurse now pregnant after that incident

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

How do you tell a fool that he is a fool when you see him?

Tales by moonlight.

500k for wedding.

Where in Nigeria, be that?

How many people una wan invite?
Where una dey hold am?


Any decent hall in a decent state, fit cost 150k at the least, for 100 guests o. Except Na for backyard una dey hold am. Drinks go cost you nothing less than 70k, and this one na for 100 guests. 220k don go. If she dey rent wedding dress, 30k don comot at least, for better dress, you fit wear suit wey don tey for your hand, you need music? If you dey pay DJ, another 60k at least, food nko? At least another 150k for 100 guests. Photographer, just one don cost you nothing less than 30k, and no be correct photographer. We never mention souvenirs, but make we assume say that one no dey. We never talk printing invitations, except na Bulk SMS you go do, even that one, money dey am.


This budget fit only hold for States like Osun, Ebonyi and Benue. No even reason any South South State.

Na wetin make I know say na lie you set lie. No dey deceive all these kurukere boys for this site, dem go come dey look their babes one kain, because dem think say e get one imaginary babe wey dey like your own, wey go dash them 300k take build house, come feed them through coro.

Where your babe see license to open pharmacy inside this period at that? How much be her salary as nurse wey she dey get all this money? Which work she been dey do wey she raise 2 million before she meet you? She come even dash you the 2 million, her papa na Otedola? 24-year old girl purportedly

Na who no get sense go dey believe this lie

You no get sense at all

Lucky dude .

Enjoy your marriage Biko .

She sounds like a very nice woman .

@op, of that is the Issue you have with your girl, I guess you have no problems at all at all.
Why u dey raise dust na were everywhere clear.
My Broda, the ceremony na just for a day, do what she want. Trying to make you cut expense is even good for you.but just keep like 200-300k for reserve incase needs arises.

Una don leave the advice wey the guy dey seek on how he can spend 500k for the wedding, na bashing una dey bash am..guy ur head sef need better slap, hold that lady tight before them epp u hold am

omoadeleye:



Thank God that you're not the wife, you are kinda broke, while your woman is busy supporting you with millions you wanted to support her with just 300k, now she see knows what's on ground and she wanted you guys to economise the wedding, but, your broke ass mindset is insisting on spending above what's on ground... So after wedding, you still wants her to be supporting you with money all in the name of, she is a nice woman, bro wise up and stop doing like a pvssy.

From the post, I believe the lady has shown that she's better at managing money & she's not selfish at all. If the Op is wise, he will allow her to be the one to manage their finances in the marriage, with that they will never get into any financial hardship.

Send me her number, i need to talk to her about something

i pity that girl. this guy na proper gold digger. imagine him calling the house his instead of ours.
he thinks of is money money and mony. if she goes broke, this guy will leave her fpr someone else

Why this Nigga wan fall my hand...if no be respect wey i get ehh, i for call u mumu man...anyways she is 20yrs ahead of you when it comes to econometrics. Wedding is not a way to reward a diligent woman, rather let her see the good things falling in place by your good and prudent spending on top priorities.

stop being weak man. control your emotions. best gift for her right now is RESPECT AND FIDELITY.

Blackmiserable:

I agree with you in one sense, critical self assessment and then you will discover you are not as nice and honest and good as you thought you are.

While it's true that everyone has indulged in the act of hypocrisy at one point, yet it is safe to say that not everyone is a hypocrite just like everyone lies but not everyone is a liar. My point is, just because you commit acts of hypocrisy doesn't make you a hypocrite.

Làwyer!

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

You are just stupid a woman is helping you manage resources you want to turn to a spendthrift

Fake story. Believe it at ur own peril

ok

Just love her with all your mind, your heart and your soul.. She's a real queen and she deserves the best.. Don't hurt her..

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

omoadeleye:



Thank God that you're not the wife, you are kinda broke, while your woman is busy supporting you with millions you wanted to support her with just 300k, now she see knows what's on ground and she wanted you guys to economise the wedding, but, your broke ass mindset is insisting on spending above what's on ground... So after wedding, you still wants her to be supporting you with money all in the name of, she is a nice woman, bro wise up and stop doing like a pvssy.

the guy is too annoying. sounds like a typical gold digger. at first i thought everything was his money till he started saying she gave him 2m and some other cash she gave him

Spend less bros and your wife to be is more than that 24yrs old from your story.

Nna e. The 1 M u planned to spend, is it to impress her, her friends or family or yours? The sensible lady you wanted to impress said she doesnt want you to waste money.

Any elaborated party is just a mere waste of funds especially for not-too-wealthy people.

You are bent of spending what u might regret and she's Smart enough to want u to invest in future. She must have come from the Pluto. In these days where ladies would ask for 250k for one synthetic rubber that they called Brazilian hair.

See en, as for u adding money to her biz and she fragrantlysaid no. That's another sense. She must be Omo odo agba.

Take this to the moon; her reasons are that she doesn't want you to come with men's usual recounting that afterall I set you up for the biz. She wants to be in control of her achievement.

She is an independent. You would need be a less controlling man to enjoy this marriage.

Peace!

gnykelly:
if you don't mind can you give me her number

This is her number - 07019339722

Call her from 4pm...she woukd be free by then

Whenever churches are allowed the resume, submit your name in for the first testimony.

God indeed, gave you a good wife.

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

You're a lucky man.