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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Oghenerobo2002(m): 7:32am On Aug 01, 2020 |
Osanoghodua1:Na u think am like that. I hope it's not me though. The op doesn't have a picture or location to narrow my suspicions |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by oodua1stson: 7:32am On Aug 01, 2020 |
merieam16:so you mean girls don't leave their boyfriends for another guy? |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Ramaa(m): 7:34am On Aug 01, 2020 |
That is why I don’t need a girlfriend 1 Like
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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by OyinO: 7:34am On Aug 01, 2020 |
Mike008: You're good! |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Gwagone: 7:34am On Aug 01, 2020 |
donstan18:YOU ARE GOOD BROS |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by simplepee(f): 7:34am On Aug 01, 2020 |
The first comment has said it all. Commitment is the key. You will always find better people. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Nobody: 7:34am On Aug 01, 2020 |
I know say the present guy go don eat your ponmo.. The new guy also go continue where the present guy stop....this life is one..you have to make sure you distribute your ponmo to as many people as they Woah you in their conversion... Folks, I conclude that these generation ladies are whores that lack the commitment to any of their customers or clients.... My sister, keep distributing your ponmo is part of what is trending...the more ponmo you distribute the higher your slay Queen ranking... Idiot...This kind of person will keep on changing husbands like cloth after marriage...because they will never be satisfied with the one they have... However, if the present guy is a mad, fool, wcked or an irresponsible man, this is an opportunity for you to say goodbye to him and say welcome to the new guy.... 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by ladi02(m): 7:42am On Aug 01, 2020 |
You dont leave a relationship to because you want to start a new relationship. You leave a relationship because it's not working or there are issues. You should not enter a relationship and think when I find a better person I will move. Check If your reason to leave your bf is to go with a new guy then you have missed it! That cycle will continue. You might think you are not married now and should go with the best candidate, my dear its that thinking that grows with you. I am almost certain this new guy na chop and run..he decided to stay away cos he knows you have a good thing and a good person. Leave the door closed and run, infact if he contacts you again DO NOT RESPOND! 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Mike008(m): 7:46am On Aug 01, 2020 |
Somebody(you don't know) posted an emotionally dicey situation for advice and you people come and post some one-sided, disparaging rubbish like you are a relationship experts. Even the worst type of expert will act at least professional, but now I understand you are not, and nothing close to one, so your opinions doesn't even matter. I am not one myself but I know the problem with most nairalanders is that we are always "infected" by comments, especially negative comments, which negates our abilities to think in-depthly and make more informed opinions. People just decide to flow with the tide here. You read a post and form an opinion based on majority opinions or the first thing that comes to your myopic mind. Always give a second thought to every situation before concluding, perhaps that can inform a sound and objective reasoning or a decision with exceptions. Now think about situations where the lady in question is your sister or a trusted friend, would you careless enough to advice her on the best decision for herself or call her a ho? Or even as a man you see a woman that truly reflects what you want in a woman, would you stop desiring her because she is in a relationship? I know most guys will not mind. But because it is a lady that has identified her dream, it is enough reason to blackmail her. Many situations abound where the least you could do is remain sympathetic to a person who is sincere about her life's predicament and choices and seeks guidancee, than castigate and condemn someone you don't even know. We must always strike a connection with people that come and ask for opinions online. It shouldn't just be an online social media thing, always put yourself in a position of a fiduciary relationship with that person, play the role of an expert and try to help. This will elicit opinions from other experts which will lead to more opinions and counter opinions and in the end we all get to learn. We must all learn to draw a line between relationship and marriage. Relationship is not marriage. In a relationship you are free to leave whoever doesn't meet your criteria of a lifetime partner for someone who does, but in marriage you are not. But even in marriage divorce is allowed on good grounds. Maybe if premarital sex was not so much of an issue in our society today, a willing breakup will not be construed as an infidelity. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by alakhumeorobo: 7:48am On Aug 01, 2020 |
That new guy is just a passing fancy, be focus and stop long throat 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by WeNoGoDie(m): 7:52am On Aug 01, 2020 |
FluxEmpire: IT IS TOTALLY POSSIBLE TO LOVE TWO PEOPLE AT THE SAME TIME. YOU LOVE YOUR PARENTS SIBLINGS AND WIFE AND CHILDREN AT THE SAME TIME(Let's start from there). Its possible to love 3,4,5 different ladies at the same time and vice versa. Rare but it happens. The problem is what you do with it. If you want to be responsible about it or not. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Abbeylanre15(m): 7:53am On Aug 01, 2020 |
To be sincere with you, the new guy is everything you call him, since he can respect u n leave u once he knows you are in a relationship. You are the one that's left to also respect your self. Write this down somewhere, the new guy won't treat you well if u eventually leaves your bf for him coz he will believe U're definitely going to give him the same treatment sooner than later. Just 6months relationship. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Chizzychinny: 7:54am On Aug 01, 2020 |
FluxEmpire:perfect, she really needs TO-DO-LIST. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Heman7(m): 7:54am On Aug 01, 2020 |
Same thing my girlfriend did to me just cos the guy came showering her with gifts and money, had to be single again ���� 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by EmmaLege: 7:55am On Aug 01, 2020 |
donstan18: Bless you brother |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Adebusolaabike(f): 7:57am On Aug 01, 2020 |
There is something called contentment. And that’s where the problem lies. Your boyfriend has been there for you and you want to leave him for someone you barely know all because he ticks all the right boxes of yours. I’d say you remain in your relationship and love your boyfriend wholeheartedly.. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Soljaboi44(m): 7:58am On Aug 01, 2020 |
It will end in tears |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Sixfeetbelle: 7:59am On Aug 01, 2020 |
leveljames: Well, tbh, it was safer that she did. The probability of you eventually marrying her is on a 50-50 basis. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by SamUnbeatable(m): 8:02am On Aug 01, 2020 |
donstan18:wisdom kill u |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Papadoh(m): 8:02am On Aug 01, 2020 |
linked:Wisdom |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by djfalone(m): 8:03am On Aug 01, 2020 |
The truth is this : what you tolerate you authorize to exist. Period. You are caught up between doing the right thing and what is actually on your mind. You have your own moral compass and it doesn't have to align with ours. Relationships will always have one distraction or the other . You will always meet or see someone who is more attractive, intelligent , handsome , richer , caring than your partner. Facts! The true test of a stable and true relationship is how you deal with these so called 'distractions'. Some would argue that you are not married to your partner and still permitted to explore your options . How would you feel if you were in the same shoes and your boyfriend was entertaining another female and was confused as well? Emotional cheating has short and long term implications. That's why some people have postulated that " i girl/guy dates pending the period they find someone better" The honorable thing to do to avoid double dating is to let go of one of them. It won't be easy but it will solve the problem |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by uchrikk(m): 8:07am On Aug 01, 2020 |
Favour2323 When a woman marries two husbands (in your case "two boyfriends), she will know the one that is better. You think your boyfriend is good but he is not good enough. Alright, go ahead and try the second guy. As it stands now, that second guy will never trust you, if you begin to date him now . He will always think that you will end up dumping him when you find a better person, because you will always meet better guys. In conclusion, I see you running back to beg your boyfriend if you leave him. By which time it might be too late. You better control yourself. Good a thing, the second guy has stopped disturbing you. Let him go. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Kayw4re(m): 8:08am On Aug 01, 2020 |
donstan18: Make I just dash you the last 600 naira in my acct. . D gods bless you ma'am . |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by ramatintin(m): 8:11am On Aug 01, 2020 |
Take this slap to reset your brain since u have cheated already just Waka n leave d poor guy. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Peacefullove: 8:12am On Aug 01, 2020 |
humilitypays: While I support commitment in relationship, I also support being happy. Most of the people blaming Favour2323 are Guys, the question is: If it were a guy seeking advice , Would they blame him or ask him to do what makes him happy ? Am aware there is double standard when it comes to women. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by pretyval: 8:13am On Aug 01, 2020 |
So how is this out business? I don't know why we don't have professional therapist in this yeye country. This is their work. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Ericharlse: 8:14am On Aug 01, 2020 |
Woww.... I must say you are a very good tourist. Check that site well for another 6yrs... There's still Vatican museums, Colosseum lining up for you.....and only you Ode. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Smartrock: 8:14am On Aug 01, 2020 |
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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Innobee99(m): 8:15am On Aug 01, 2020 |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by CheedyJ(m): 8:15am On Aug 01, 2020 |
So, what happens when u meet someone with better qualities than this new guy? ? You better make up ur mind cos not all that glitters is gold some na Malam bling bling.. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Thiijhay(m): 8:15am On Aug 01, 2020 |
We shouldn't blame the girl for loving another man over her bf. Some ladies rush into anyhow relationship which I guess might have lead her into her so called bf all cos they want to have someone to lean on anytime they are bored, which might have been cos of pressure from home or from their friends. But I will advice you to work on yourself first by understanding what you really want in a man(qualities). Because in life, you will surely meet someone better than someone than someone.... |
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by bonnyhope: 8:20am On Aug 01, 2020 |
Favour2323: The most confused creature on earth is women. Very unstable in everything they do except having sex |
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