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He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by rawpadgin(m): 4:19am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Okay, was having a drink with a friend of mine last night & he told me he no longer find his fiancée attractive. They got engaged a year ago & the babe is already pregnant for him. He is however still planning to wife her because the girl is a wife material & he will grow further financially with her by his side but believes he might be cheating on her after marriage. According to him, the said girl has done a lot for him mostly during the pandemic period but believes he shouldn't be getting married to a girl simply because she has assisted him on many occasions. All my effort to convince him that the feelings will come after marriage proved abortive. 45 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Nobody: 4:44am On Aug 07, 2020 |
rawpadgin:Your friend is wicked and he does not deserve that woman at all. I pray God saves her from that weakling of a man 448 Likes 27 Shares |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Nobody: 5:11am On Aug 07, 2020 |
After the girl don get Belle He should know that love goes stale everywhere Honestly humans are greedy... Tueh 124 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by totosucker(m): 5:56am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Your friend is confused. After getting her pregnant, he comes up with a weak excuse that he doesn't love her anymore. Tell him to start thinking of why he fell in love with her in the first place and focus on it. Tell him to spark the fire of love in his relationship again . If it is because the lady is pregnant and maybe her character has changed because of pregnancy, sometimes, women do weird things when they are pregnant. If he doesn't see her beauty again because she's pregnant, then that's understandable because sometimes, women get a little ugly when they are pregnant. Tell him not to give up yet. 199 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by rawpadgin(m): 6:23am On Aug 07, 2020 |
totosucker:u are a very wise man He has always dated classy & beautiful chicks but discovered that they are almost unmarriageable so he decided to look beyond physical appearance. Now he's got the not beautiful but marriageable type, he now finding her unattractive 65 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by N2B2: 6:24am On Aug 07, 2020 |
God will punish that your friend. This is the reason why many ladies have trust issues. His interest in his girl did not wane when he was drilling her tunnel; it waned the instant she got pregnant, making him realize that there's no going back. And if the guy already has the mind to cheat on her after marriage, you can bet that he'll already be mistreating the girl. Her only crime is trusting him and helping him with everything she could. God will punish that your friend. 173 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by JOACHINpedro: 6:32am On Aug 07, 2020 |
rawpadgin:Chai!!!! I swear this life no balance 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by HeavenlyCherub(f): 6:33am On Aug 07, 2020 |
rawpadgin: You friend is a pure example of a terrible man. I pray God can forgive him. So if he found her unattractive why go that far? He is now thinking all these things after she is already pregnant. It wasn’t love to begin with. This is why I will never believe in love. I promise you so many of satans children roam the earth looking for who to devour. Your friend should have left that girl to find someone who really loves her. Better to break it off now than marry her, if he is already having doubts 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Shugavee(f): 6:35am On Aug 07, 2020 |
hopeforcharles:ehnnnn , that’s why I will never help any man ,, come to me when u hv enough money. Cause u lots ain’t worth it 66 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by HeavenlyCherub(f): 6:36am On Aug 07, 2020 |
N2B2: I just said the same thing. Scrolled up and read your comment. My heart just broke reading this story. How evil humans can be. Honestly for me a marriage will be transaction. I just feel I’m at a point I don’t believe in a thing called love. Only God can love. 15 Likes |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by N2B2: 6:42am On Aug 07, 2020 |
hopeforcharles: 19 Likes 1 Share
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Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Nobody: 6:54am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Op na shórpórná go kill that your friend stupid motherfucker after all what the girl has done for him 13 Likes |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Nobody: 7:01am On Aug 07, 2020 |
sylvalord:When you're emotional about something, your logical reasoning gets thrown out the window. Marriage shouldn't be founded on pity. The man is clearly not interested. If they eventually get married, he is 95% capable of cheating on her. However you're right that he is wicked. Ladies out there, learn to respect yourselves and don't let emotion take over your sense of reasoning else you would end up in emotional pain and never forget "emotional pain is remembered more than physical pain and has more effect on your health and behavior." Guys have many choices besides you. If they've seen all about you, they tend to drop you for fresher ladies. That's the way of life. The people for you would always find a way into your life. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by pretydiva(f): 7:03am On Aug 07, 2020 |
When he dived in raw, he was attracted abi. All of a sudden the attraction has disappeared into thin air. She's a wife material, but he still feels he will cheat on her when they eventually get married Now I ask, what do most guys really want, cos I can't seem to fathom it 44 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Lightangel65: 7:08am On Aug 07, 2020 |
pretydiva: i dont really understand this guy when je was fucking her he didnt know he didnt love her, well he should break up with her but pay her every penny she spent doubled as intrest. This is same as men who train women in school only for them to get rejected. I guess human beings dont value those who help them 24 Likes |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by luminouz(m): 7:10am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Lies.... Just say na YOU 19 Likes |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by luminouz(m): 7:12am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Shugavee: Lmaoooo This one wants to cry over fake story... 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by luminouz(m): 7:13am On Aug 07, 2020 |
HeavenlyCherub: Even you too? Na fake story naaaaaa |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Michelle55: 7:36am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Nairaland and sensational stories eh... But why is it you guys always come with Its my friend or my friend is passing through some shits. Stop hiding under the umbrella of friends edakun I won't condemn the real men out there just because your so-called friend chooses to be an animal. To the real men out there, continue doing You! Y'all will prosper in all ramifications! 55 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Nobody: 7:59am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Nobody: 8:01am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Askin' for a friend & the friend is YOU... Lol. Honestly, marriage should be based on love & prob'ly, respect, but unfortunately, that doesn't just happen. I think you guys hafta do your part & it's gonn' be fine... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by quisera(m): 8:15am On Aug 07, 2020 |
you all spilling deep shit about how evil and heartless the guy is wouldn't understand how complicated stuffs like this can be until you get entangled. 8 Likes |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Nobody: 8:22am On Aug 07, 2020 |
rawpadgin:What your FRIEND is FEELING is normal in marriage. This starts especially when you have dated someone 4 too long or both of you are already married. Simply occurs when one revolves around the same thing over and over again. There is usually a state of ANERGY in any relationship. But the ABILITY of both involved, to rekindle and revive it remains supreme. U can embark on trips together. Although Nigeria is Unsafe for such now. She can change her looks, hairdos, and wears. Also change the looks and the FRAGRANCE of the room that harbors both of you. MARRY her, provided she's a Good Girl like you said. For SLAY QUEENS are now ubiquitous and they have one Natural History which is MARITAL DAMNATION. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Headlesschicken(m): 8:29am On Aug 07, 2020 |
If she's good enough to be phucked then she should be good enough to be wifed... 15 Likes |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by femi4: 8:44am On Aug 07, 2020 |
rawpadgin:The pregnancy is the problem 2 Likes |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Obierika(m): 9:02am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Unfortunately situations such as this happens a lot of times 1 Like |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by adeodunsimilolu(f): 9:21am On Aug 07, 2020 |
hopeforcharles: I hope you say this too when a girl tells the man who sponsored her through school that she's no more attracted to him. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by frozen70(f): 9:27am On Aug 07, 2020 |
rawpadgin: As good as he portrays the girls attitude, I can't see why the sudden change in affection Probably because she is pregnant or what Well, he who wants to cheat will definitely cheat and its no longer an issue For the fact that he sees success staying with her, let him go on, with time what ever that has been manipulating his brain over her will run away Nothing is balanced in this life, if the whole fingers in the hand are not equal, what else do you think should balance 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by frozen70(f): 9:28am On Aug 07, 2020 |
sylvalord: I think he is just being selfish not wicked but his eyes will clear when he leaves her and get a bad woman in a beautiful face that will attract him 15 Likes |
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