Ugo4hotish:

If the girl wasn't raped,
Then she got what she asked for

rawpadgin:
Okay, was having a drink with a friend of mine last night & he told me he no longer find his fiancée attractive. They got engaged a year ago & the babe is already pregnant for him. He is however still planning to wife her because the girl is a wife material & he will grow further financially with her by his side but believes he might be cheating on her after marriage.

According to him, the said girl has done a lot for him mostly during the pandemic period but believes he shouldn't be getting married to a girl simply because she has assisted him on many occasions. All my effort to convince him that the feelings will come after marriage proved abortive.

lefulefu:
really??
as men grow older their taste in women get revised??
bro what can u say about those 60 something yr old sugar daddies or 70 something yr old sugar daddies who go after younger girls with big bums and bbobies
why their taste no come go revised?
abeg lets not decieve ourself
u cant say the physical attributes of a woman no longer attracts u as u grow older but yet u have one hot chikala by the corner wey u dey smash .I will understand if as u grow older u no longer flirt but remain faithful to ur wife but bro if at 60 something a man is still marrying young ladies as wives or having concubines all about the place and still saying boobs and azz dont attract him anymore then he is decieving himself .The old man that is dating Toke Markinwa and spending on her is he dating her for her intelligence?

jornwhite:






so much questions buh its all gud, men cheat because its in our lustful nature, "no man in his right senses will throw out a woman of substance for a cossy or amaka" emphasis on *right senses" most men that do it are either beclouded with lust or voodoo. i remember when i bought my tv @showrooom d was xperience was diff to when i got home, u get .. if sidechick sef enta house she go suffer weytin housewive suffered.
beauty fade is not propagation it is a fact, reality that awaits everyone, for whatever reason you marry a gurl .. if it is beauty, big tit or ass or complexion you will alway meet the younger, sweeter & beta version .. ever heard of "beautiful ones are not yet body"
Bro lets reason broad, it is not as every beautiful gurl must be void of character vice versa ... beauty is in d eye of the beholder literally no man marries an ugly wife .. looks are important buh character is importanter. if omotola was as violent as tonto u think her hubby will still stay

N2B2:
God will punish that your friend.

This is the reason why many ladies have trust issues. His interest in his girl did not wane when he was drilling her tunnel; it waned the instant she got pregnant, making him realize that there's no going back.

And if the guy already has the mind to cheat on her after marriage, you can bet that he'll already be mistreating the girl. Her only crime is trusting him and helping him with everything she could.

God will punish that your friend.

rawpadgin:
Okay, was having a drink with a friend of mine last night & he told me he no longer find his fiancée attractive. They got engaged a year ago & the babe is already pregnant for him. He is however still planning to wife her because the girl is a wife material & he will grow further financially with her by his side but believes he might be cheating on her after marriage.

According to him, the said girl has done a lot for him mostly during the pandemic period but believes he shouldn't be getting married to a girl simply because she has assisted him on many occasions. All my effort to convince him that the feelings will come after marriage proved abortive.

Homeboiy:



Hmmm Chelsea dey play Bayern today

Pepper soup for that woman bar go sweet oo.

We go de talk de drink.

Palema007:
Jorn or John

You can keep up with your beliefs but reality is very different! Especially with Nigerian Men. But I say, if a man can't do without a beautiful sexy woman then he shouldn't delude himself in thinking otherwise. Because truth is like you all say, beauty fades, attributes too get normalized by it's recipients. Use whatever works for you, no one will be in the Marriage or relationship with you. Very Simple sturv!

Dalil8:


Or you're the immature one.

Why did she have to keep the pregnancy. Are there no contraceptives anymore?

@rawpadgin just tell your friend to keep her as a baby mama. She's not the first and won't be the last.

Don't ever make the mistake of marrying out of pity.

pretydiva:
When he dived in raw, he was attracted abi. All of a sudden the attraction has disappeared into thin air. She's a wife material, but he still feels he will cheat on her when they eventually get married

Now I ask, what do most guys really want, cos I can't seem to fathom it

HeavenlyCherub:


You friend is a pure example of a terrible man. I pray God can forgive him. So if he found her unattractive why go that far? He is now thinking all these things after she is already pregnant. It wasn’t love to begin with. This is why I will never believe in love. I promise you so many of satans children roam the earth looking for who to devour. Your friend should have left that girl to find someone who really loves her. Better to break it off now than marry her, if he is already having doubts

rawpadgin:
Okay, was having a drink with a friend of mine last night & he told me he no longer find his fiancée attractive. They got engaged a year ago & the babe is already pregnant for him. He is however still planning to wife her because the girl is a wife material & he will grow further financially with her by his side but believes he might be cheating on her after marriage.

According to him, the said girl has done a lot for him mostly during the pandemic period but believes he shouldn't be getting married to a girl simply because she has assisted him on many occasions. All my effort to convince him that the feelings will come after marriage proved abortive.

rawpadgin:
lol. For this night?

Palema007:
Very easy to type this when the Guy isn't the one who will bear the brunt.He isn't the one to face the stigma that comes with single motherhood, he can easily find another lady and get married to her but the lady he impregnated will go extra miles,have to do a lot to prove herself worthy to get hooked. And the child? She will be responsible for him or her, answer questions pertaining to why Daddy left, cry her eyes out when asked where the father is. She will bear the "after one" shame, have an illegitimate child, have to be father and mother to her child alone. And the betrayal? Now tell me, if that isn't a broken crate of egg, what is it? Or if she isn't a damaged fruit, what is she?
Y'all will downplay scenarios like this to vindicate a Man but will be the first to cast aspersions on single mothers. That's very selfish!

And there is something called Responsibility! If a Man is responsible enough to nut in a woman, engage her then he should be ready to marry her. He chose to lay his bed with an unattractive Woman so he should lay on it!

LINTUNE:
hmm..well in as much as i dont like the way most of u nland gals handle issues concerning relationships, i support u on this one..its sad how some men would abandon their pregnant spouse due to irrelevant issues,how can u not want to marry a woman, yet u still get her pregnant..its sad , however some women too are to be blamed,this particular woman will have someone dying for her , but due to his present condition, she dont mind abandoning that person to marry a monster that fits her taste..

lefulefu:
if she refuse sex and say the guy must marry her first the same guy will come to create a thread complaining that the girl no wan sleep with am and many guys will still tag her as olosho
anyway the bros must up to his responsibility.

Palema007:
The problem I have with most of you here is always seeing everything as Men versus Women fight. Which one is u Nairaland gals? Are you serious at all? And who told you someone is dying for her but she chose a monster? Are you blaming her for sticking to one partner even though she had to help him 'a lot' , perhaps you missed that part.

You just had to ruin all with this your women are golddigger mentality even when it's clear the Man fits that description better. Ewwwww!

LINTUNE:
[s]why u sounding so pained madam, the truth is definitely bitter , the society has always made women to be gold diggers involuntarily, directly or indirectly, thats the bitter truth weda u like it or not..i eas just giving instance of how some gals make bad marital decision all becos of material things and other irrelevant factors (looks) , here u are crying and creating an issue out of my comment..didn't u read where i vehemently commented what the man did......about nlander gals, we all know majority of them have that entitlement mentality and gold digging tendencies, if u not among, lucky u,but how many of them are like u...cry me a river for all i care..i dont give a Bleep, ill always say the truth, madam. [/s]

Palema007:
You are welcome.

rawpadgin:
u are a very wise man

He has always dated classy & beautiful chicks but discovered that they are almost unmarriageable so he decided to look beyond physical appearance. Now he's got the not beautiful but marriageable type, he now finding her unattractive

Michelle55:
Nairaland and sensational stories eh... But why is it you guys always come with Its my friend or my friend is passing through some shits. Stop hiding under the umbrella of friends edakun

I won't condemn the real men out there just because your so-called friend chooses to be an animal. To the real men out there, continue doing You! Y'all will prosper in all ramifications!

rawpadgin:
Okay, was having a drink with a friend of mine last night & he told me he no longer find his fiancée attractive. They got engaged a year ago & the babe is already pregnant for him. He is however still planning to wife her because the girl is a wife material & he will grow further financially with her by his side but believes he might be cheating on her after marriage.

According to him, the said girl has done a lot for him mostly during the pandemic period but believes he shouldn't be getting married to a girl simply because she has assisted him on many occasions. All my effort to convince him that the feelings will come after marriage proved abortive.

Palema007:
Very easy to type this when the Guy isn't the one who will bear the brunt.He isn't the one to face the stigma that comes with single motherhood, he can easily find another lady and get married to her but the lady he impregnated will go extra miles,have to do a lot to prove herself worthy to get hooked. And the child? She will be responsible for him or her, answer questions pertaining to why Daddy left, cry her eyes out when asked where the father is. She will bear the "after one" shame, have an illegitimate child, have to be father and mother to her child alone. And the betrayal? Now tell me, if that isn't a broken crate of egg, what is it? Or if she isn't a damaged fruit, what is she?
Y'all will downplay scenarios like this to vindicate a Man but will be the first to cast aspersions on single mothers. That's very selfish!

And there is something called Responsibility! If a Man is responsible enough to nut in a woman, engage her then he should be ready to marry her. He chose to lay his bed with an unattractive Woman so he should lay on it!

Shugavee:
ehnnnn , that’s why I will never help any man ,, come to me when u hv enough money. Cause u lots ain’t worth it

Shugavee:
ehnnnn , that’s why I will never help any man ,, come to me when u hv enough money. Cause u lots ain’t worth it

rawpadgin:
u are a very wise man

He has always dated classy & beautiful chicks but discovered that they are almost unmarriageable so he decided to look beyond physical appearance. Now he's got the not beautiful but marriageable type, he now finding her unattractive