Spiritualizt:
This was indeed handy pls can u suggest some TRP Artist or songs, I only know Future and wizkid especially the song with Bella shmurda.

In our local music- I still tip D’banjs Oliver Twist as a red pill song...... All those banky W songs better run from them...

Then foreign music we have quite a lot but I’m always buzzing my ears with Eminem’s songs and Chris brown song ft lilwayne- Loyal


Listen to Sam smith song. At your peril!

athenswonders:



In our local music- I still tip D’banjs Oliver Twist as a red pill song...... All those banky W songs better run from them...

Then foreign music we have quite a lot but I’m always buzzing my ears with Eminem’s songs and Chris brown song ft lilwayne- Loyal


Listen to Sam smith song. At your peril!

Hahhaha @ run from Bankyw. Those guys contributed soo much to the simp culture in Nigeria. Psquare, 2face etc that we all celebrate actually contributed alot towards destroying the masculinity in Nigeria

I am pleased with this lady, I hope she isn't faking it until she officially becomes his wife though.
Why the bleep will you kneel down to ask for a woman's hand in marriage when you are the one doing her a favour?
All her problems become yours while all your problems are still yours, yet you kneel down to propose?

sajmark:
I am pleased with this lady, I hope she isn't faking it until she officially becomes his wife though.
Why the bleep will you kneel down to ask for a woman's hand in marriage when you are the one doing her a favour?
All her problems become yours while all your problems are still yours, yet you kneel down to propose?

Lol.
Good gesture from her. But he should have it have it at the back of his mind that it's not a guarantee for a blissful marriage. For all i care, she could have her moves calculated, and this could just be one of them to win his trust completely, thereby lowering his guards.
Well, what do I know? I pray it doesn't end up how I imagined it.
I wish them a happy married life.

Raalsalghul:


Honestly, this "make money and women will come later" advise doesn't sit well with me.

While I understand the need to invest and focus in yourself, life itself is too unpredictable for that stuff.

So I feel anybody can run game at whatever level they're only don't make it a priority and loose yourself in the process.

yea i don't like such advice too it's like the women are the star price and you making it is what you gotta pay for the price. Make money for yourself and be happy not because you want a girl to come

Seandisputed:

Lol.
Good gesture from her. But he should have it have it at the back of his mind that it's not a guarantee for a blissful marriage. For all i care, she could have her moves calculated, and this could just be one of them to win his trust completely, thereby lowering his guards.
Well, what do I know? I pray it doesn't end up how I imagined it.
I wish them a happy married life.

I like the way you and sajmark are demonstrating wisdom on this issue.

Words of wisdom
Infact in top financial success magazines like forbes, Bloomberg , men overwhelmingly outnumber women even if such men are rare and outliers

Presently watching CBS Reality and they are showing Judge "Joe Brown" Season 4 Episode 168.




Fear women and the sisterhood

Lolz
The future will be epic

Never forget this
Love and affection especially to most mordern women that is not worth it or did not earn comes at a great cost
Don't be blinded by her beauty
Don't let her charm and feminine wiles fool you

Martinez39s:
I like the way you and sajmark are demonstrating wisdom on this issue.

This thread is full of wise men, I guess it rubbed off on me.

Skepticus:


When some of my female colleagues at work ask me: "why are you not married?

Manslation: "Why don't you want to be a " spousal slave"?

Over the weekend an hostel mate brought one of his female friends.. they were gisting outside the hostel verandah which is close to my own room so I could hear their discussion from my window.

The lady was telling the guy about one of her female friends that she (her friend) doesn't want a boyfriend because her parents are rich.

The guy who she was telling didn't read any meaning to it from his response but me that have understood female nature to a greater extent I picked up a meaning and confirmation of the redpill from her statement.

Here is the meaning

Women only view men as a tool to be used to cater for their needs and foot their bills.

If a woman has other means of getting those provisions.. she won't give a damn about having any man in her life.

Women only see men as a tool to be used for their own satisfaction.

That is why when one man can no longer give them the satisfaction they crave, they don't hesitate to jump to the next available man who can.

Women don't value men like men believe, in fact the society in general doesn't value men.

They only see us as slaves that can used for their own satisfaction or gains any time they want.

That is why every man reading this must create value only for himself and perhaps his immediate family.

Every man must make himself a PRIORTY not one daughter of eve.

CaveAdullam:


LoL!

I guess you all know that I'm more of the chosen theory than approaching. However, I do cold approach depending on my mood that day.

About three weeks ago, I'd approached a lady, what motivated me was her big a$$. (There are some a$$ God built in seven days bro. No jokes! LoL!). She was flowing with my vibes(she asked me "what I wanted from her" ) until her boyfriend called and told her he is no longer in the place he told her to come collect some funds---20K.

To cut the long story short, that disappoinment destroyed the already established rapport we had because from observation she was acting in way so that I will provide her the money. Her mood turned ugly, until I decided to leave her. (I missed that a$$ bro).

Lessons learnt:

1. That girl cried as a result of that disappoinment she had from her boyfriend. All her insinuations indicated she had a genuine desire for him even though she was flowing with my rapport.

2. Even though genuine desire, at the right time and right guy, genuine desire will creep into oblivion. How? I asked her how much is the money and she said "20k", and had it been I pay for sex, we would have negotiated and she will accept because her receptiveness to my approach was good. Too bad, we both knew our game.

3. I was the one pinning for her. Why? Because I was the one that approached her...this is where most guys miss it and do go extra miles to notch the woman by all means. Also, this is where approaching women becomes a sort of dilemma: you don't want to miss her by not approaching and even though she responds, you end up being eager and pinning for her. Abundance mindset here works because it makes you channel your heart to other women, but the higher the number of women, the higher your eagerness.

Anyway, she fell off my radar, and we both moved on.

Thanks.

PS: Ketapu, I'm also in the field too.

yes, cold approaching isn't totally bad all the time. To add my own:

In a perfect world we cold approach for sex and hot approach for love. Meaning the girls we salivate for, who are the Spec and who make us go "damn!!" - we don't wait for choosing signals but go in direct cause what does it matter they've no real genuine desire for us, we just wanna hit and run. Nothing big.
Problem here is that where we desire and like, we're eager to SPEND. And a lot of the times spending is the shortcut to success. Which then works against us because we start to get invested the more we spend to succeed, and in no time what was meant to be temporary we end up forcing to be permanent because we've invested a lot into that situation.

Let's say you like a girl and she lives far and requires a considerable amount of money to come to you, that money once you spend it, you won't want just 1 night with the girl. You'll want a whole weekend. Which will lead you to spend even more. Then after that weekend you've spent so much you wanna see her again soon cause you feel the sex you got was not equal to the money you spent. Especially if she limited the sex. When you see her again you once more spend and ask for more from her. In the end you're entangled with this girl because you've been spending and it's hard to let go cause there's this nagging feeling that you haven't got your total money's worth from her. You're invested. Sunk Cost Fallacy has kicked in. You feel you've spent too much on her to just hit and run. SO YOU ASK FOR A RELATIONSHIP. And now you're dating a girl you were meant to pump and dump. You date for 2 or 3 years continuously spending on the chick cause you love her, and what do you know!!! After time passes you calculate you could have bought a car by now with all the cash you've channelled to this girl. And now you feel even more invested. She's now too valuable to lose. You've simply spent too much on her to lose her to some other guy. SO YOU PROPOSE. And just like that your life is joined with a woman who never loved you. Welcome to hell. It's how many troubled marriages originate. How men get stuck in loveless marriages.
It's why I personally don't talk a lot about cold approaching. Cause so much bad can result from it. You were smart enough to deduce the game and refuse to put in that initial investment of 20K. Nice.

Modified:
I talk about this extensively, but from a woman's perspective, in this MISEDUCA$HION: https://www.nairaland.com/5521642/ubunjas-miseduca-hin-pleasures-cash

Klchnjoku:


Over the weekend an hostel mate brought one of his female friends.. they were gisting outside the hostel verandah which is close to my own room so I could hear their discussion from my window.

The lady was telling the guy about one of her female friends that she (her friend) doesn't want a boyfriend because her parents are rich.

The guy who she was telling didn't read any meaning to it from his response but me that have understood female nature to a greater extent I picked up a meaning and confirmation of the redpill from her statement.

Here is the meaning

Women only view men as a tool to be used to cater for their needs and foot their bills.

If a woman has other means of getting those provisions.. she won't give a damn about having any man in her life.

Women only see men as a tool to be used for their own satisfaction.

That is why when one man can no longer give them the satisfaction they crave, they don't hesitate to jump to the next available man who can.

Women don't value when like men believe, in fact the society in general doesn't value men.

They only see us as slaves that can used for their own satisfaction or gains any time they want.

That is why every man reading this must create value only for himself and perhaps his immediate family.

Every man must make himself a PRIORTY not one daughter of eve.

Even your immediate family sees you as a slave and tool, but theirs is more tolerable because you share the same DNA and maybe they could have your back when chips are down.

I've come to that level where I don't see exception to these things: family or not.

ubunja:
yes, cold approaching isn't totally bad all the time. To add my own:

In a perfect world we cold approach for sex and hot approach for love. Meaning the girls we salivate for, who are the Spec and who make us go "damn!!" - we don't wait for choosing signals but go in direct cause what does it matter they've no real genuine desire for us, we just wanna hit and run. Nothing big.
Problem here is that where we desire and like, we're eager to SPEND. And a lot of the times spending is the shortcut to success. Which then works against us because we start to get invested the more we spend to succeed, and in no time what was meant to be temporary we end up forcing to be permanent because we've invested a lot into that situation.

Let's say you like a girl and she lives far and requires a considerable amount of money to come to you, that money once you spend it, you won't want just 1 night with the girl. You'll want a whole weekend. Which will lead you to spend even more. Then after that weekend you've spent so much you wanna see her again soon cause you feel the sex you got was not equal to the money you spent. Especially if she limited the sex. When you see her again you once more spend and ask for more from her. In the end you're entangled with this girl because you've been spending and it's hard to let go cause there's this nagging feeling that you haven't got your total money's worth from her. You're invested. Sunk Cost Fallacy has kicked in. You feel you've spent too much on her to just hit and run. SO YOU ASK FOR A RELATIONSHIP. And now you're dating a girl you were meant to pump and dump. You date for 2 or 3 years continuously spending on the chick cause you love her, and what do you know!!! After time passes you calculate you could have bought a car by now with all the cash you've channelled to this girl. And now you feel even more invested. She's now too valuable to lose. You've simply spent too much on her to lose her to some other guy. SO YOU PROPOSE. And just like that your life is joined with a woman who never loved you. Welcome to hell. It's how many troubled marriages originate. How men get stuck in loveless marriages.
It's why I personally don't talk a lot about cold approaching. Cause so much bad can result from it. You were smart enough to deduce the game and refuse to put in that initial investment of 20K. Nice.

Wowwww, you are a really gifted Wise man...

ubunja:
yes, cold approaching isn't totally bad all the time. To add my own:

In a perfect world we cold approach for sex and hot approach for love. Meaning the girls we salivate for, who are the Spec and who make us go "damn!!" - we don't wait for choosing signals but go in direct cause what does it matter they've no real genuine desire for us, we just wanna hit and run. Nothing big.
Problem here is that where we desire and like, we're eager to SPEND. And a lot of the times spending is the shortcut to success. Which then works against us because we start to get invested the more we spend to succeed, and in no time what was meant to be temporary we end up forcing to be permanent because we've invested a lot into that situation.

Let's say you like a girl and she lives far and requires a considerable amount of money to come to you, that money once you spend it, you won't want just 1 night with the girl. You'll want a whole weekend. Which will lead you to spend even more. Then after that weekend you've spent so much you wanna see her again soon cause you feel the sex you got was not equal to the money you spent. Especially if she limited the sex. When you see her again you once more spend and ask for more from her. In the end you're entangled with this girl because you've been spending and it's hard to let go cause there's this nagging feeling that you haven't got your total money's worth from her. You're invested. Sunk Cost Fallacy has kicked in. You feel you've spent too much on her to just hit and run. SO YOU ASK FOR A RELATIONSHIP. And now you're dating a girl you were meant to pump and dump. You date for 2 or 3 years continuously spending on the chick cause you love her, and what do you know!!! After time passes you calculate you could have bought a car by now with all the cash you've channelled to this girl. And now you feel even more invested. She's now too valuable to lose. You've simply spent too much on her to lose her to some other guy. SO YOU PROPOSE. And just like that your life is joined with a woman who never loved you. Welcome to hell. It's how many troubled marriages originate. How men get stuck in loveless marriages.
It's why I personally don't talk a lot about cold approaching. Cause so much bad can result from it. You were smart enough to deduce the game and refuse to put in that initial investment of 20K. Nice.

Modified:
I talk about this extensively, but from a woman's perspective, in this MISEDUCA$HION: https://www.nairaland.com/5521642/ubunjas-miseduca-hin-pleasures-cash

Spot on. Personally i believe cold approaching is dead and belongs to the 90’s but i still do it because it was how i was raised. I don’t know nothing else lol.

1. Women are different now. An average lady walks around with an overbloated sense of self, thus they are mostly rude and ill mannered especially to strangers. Even worse when she is pretty. The fact that an average girl can get a super hot dude also contributes to distorting their sense of self.

2. Women are more receptive to people they have been seeing around and have had the chance to guage with their hypergamic lenses. She will punish you for taking her unawares without giving her the opportunity to assess your lifestyle first. The only option she is left with is on the spot mental assessment which can be misleading. The agony of not knowing whether you may or may not be a catch will bolster her anger towards you.

3. You demarket yourself when you approach as a stranger. Think about it, would dangote cold approach a random woman? She would think herself better than you automatically especially if you donot descend on her with the full weight of hypergamy ( nice car which she better see you coming out from, nice perfume, nice outfit, nice looks, well spoken, etc). Truth is, all these take so much work and most times alot of guys prefer to appear plain even when rich.

4. The onus lies on you to get the convo going, and as such, you are likely to ask questions that would pedestalise her.

5. You end up exaggerating her value and ego which you and another guy will pay for.

6. You can easily fall prey to professional gold diggers (which most of them are) especially if you appear flashy. The exception is if you master the art of luring them in with wealth and then making sure she never gets a bite. Why would anyone even want to be with someone who treats them like there’s a price on their head? Who the hell is she lol.

7. Cold approaching is laced with too many uncertainties for any form of stats to work. She could be having a bad day, her moral upbringing may limit her from sharing her contact with strangers, she may be intimidated by your looks, etc. The variables are just too many.

In closing, i still cold approach and I’m also in the field too but my candid advice to guys is to evolve to transcend petty emotional needs whilst armed with the red pill, stoicism and meditation.

Raalsalghul:
Even your immediate family sees you as a slave and tool, but theirs is more tolerable because you share the same DNA and maybe they could have your back when chips are down.
I've come to that level where I don't see exception to these things: family or not.

GOD bless you bro.
Nothing more to add.

Winnerly:
Personally i believe cold approaching is dead and belongs to the 90’s

Like seriously? Cold approaching ladies is more addictive than sex itself. I kid you not.. and this is coming from a sex addict of sorts. Once you hit the 80% success mark you become unstoppable.. and I hit and surpassed that over 7 years ago. It becomes so bad it literally begins to control you just like any other addiction. The success comes not just by your personality and confidence garnered over years of experience but also by knowing intuitively if, when, where and how to approach a lady. How else do people get pvssy to fvck if I may ask? Neighbors? Churchmates? Workmates? Classmates? Naah! For me, I see what I like, I go for it. Never compromised on specs.
Believe me when I say this, cold approaching chicks is way more addictive than sex.

CaveAdullam:
Shits hits the fan bro! Life is a madwoman!
Not how I envisaged my 2022 monk mode, but these theives nearly sent me passed my village. LoL! Still figuring things out gradually.
I shall don't want to hear "thief, thief"...because in this season of violence...
Oga Tonnyray, I rest my case.

Lol.
Oga Cave no follow them do mob action jungle justice o
The way askari dey look for money now to offset Xmas expenses na everybody in sight dem dey round up
E go better.

Raalsalghul:


Even your immediate family sees you as a slave and tool, but theirs is more tolerable because you share the same DNA and maybe they could have your back when chips are down.

I've come to that level where I don't see exception to these things: family or not.

Exactly, including ones kids if one has plan to have them.

Winnerly:


Spot on. Personally i believe cold approaching is dead and belongs to the 90’s but i still do it because it was how i was raised. I don’t know nothing else lol.

1. Women are different now. An average lady walks around with an overbloated sense of self, thus they are mostly rude and ill mannered especially to strangers. Even worse when she is pretty. The fact that an average girl can get a super hot dude also contributes to distorting their sense of self.

2. Women are more receptive to people they have been seeing around and have had the chance to guage with their hypergamic lenses. She will punish you for taking her unawares without giving her the opportunity to assess your lifestyle first. The only option she is left with is on the spot mental assessment which can be misleading. The agony of not knowing whether you may or may not be a catch will bolster her anger towards you.

3. You demarket yourself when you approach as a stranger. Think about it, would dangote cold approach a random woman? She would think herself better than you automatically especially if you donot descend on her with the full weight of hypergamy ( nice car which she better see you coming out from, nice perfume, nice outfit, nice looks, well spoken, etc). Truth is, all these take so much work and most times alot of guys prefer to appear plain.

4. The onus lies on you to get the convo going, and as such, you are likely to ask questions that would pedestalise her.

5. You end up exaggerating her value and ego and another guy will pay for this.

6. You can easily fall prey to professional gold diggers (which most of them are) especially if you appear flashy. The exception is if you master the art of luring them in with wealth and then making sure she never gets a bite. Why would anyone even want to be with someone who treats them like there’s a price on their head? Who the hell is she lol.

7. Cold approaching is laced with too many uncertainties for any form of stats to work. She could be having a bad day, her moral upbringing may limit her from sharing her contact with strangers, she may be intimidated by your looks, etc. The variables are just too many.

In closing, i still cold approach and I’m also in the field too but i evolved to transcend petty emotional needs whilst armed with the red pill, stoicism and meditation.

@bolded,,,, this is one of the greatest weaknesses of cold approaching. You don't know a woman's state of mind at that point. A perfectly suitable girl who could have welcomed your advances on any given day may be having a hell of a day she'll coldly shoot you down. Hence cold approaching rarely gets you quick sex (unless you're outrightly paying) the most you can come out with is just phone numbers, and you continue the work later on via chatting.

Amazingly these variables that incapacitate cold approaching turn out to be Chosen's greatest strength. The girl who is otherwise not available to you because of social class, religion, financial bracket, marital status etc, on that one day, at that one hour, just cause she's going through something, or has experienced something - she can be in a mood for a little fun or to be a bad girl. And choose you. A lot of the sexual successes of Chosen is being at the right place at the right time. That's why sex via Chosen can be easily same day and free with NO PHONE NUMBERS EXCHANGED. There'll not be a more superior game.

While cold approaching requires you to search for those girls that catch your eye, hot approaching (Chosen), requires you to keep a watchful eye for those girls looking like they're down to fucc.

Cold Approaching is about getting a woman to want you.

Hot Approaching is about finding that woman who already wants you.

Tonnyray:
Like seriously? Cold approaching ladies is more addictive than sex itself. I kid you not.. and this is coming from a sex addict of sorts. Once you hit the 80% success mark you become unstoppable.. and I hit and surpassed that over 7 years ago. It becomes so bad it literally begins to control you just like any other addiction. The success comes not just by your personality and confidence garnered over years of experience but also by knowing intuitively if, when, where and how to approach a lady. How else do people get pvssy to fvck if I may ask? Neighbors? Churchmates? Workmates? Classmates? Naah! For me, I see what I like, I go for it. Never compromised on specs.
Believe me when I say this, cold approaching chicks is way more addictive than sex.

I don't usually quote you cause you're more blue pill than red pill, but I'll stop you right there and call bs on that 80% blue lie. Dude even women themselves don't hit 80%, don't come here with that bs man. We're not kids here. Even di Caprio himself with all his looks and status and money, if he approaches 10 girls I bet you he will not get all of them to say yes,, and even getting 8 (which is the 80% mark) isn't guaranteed. hypergamy itself isn't as straightforward as many guys think. Many times it misfires because women are first of all emotional. Ask yourself, If hypergamy was as ironclad as it supposedly is, why are many women married in poverty. But that's not why I'm responding to you,, that 80% lie is what I can't countenance. I could have ignored. The more realistic stat that has been shared is "approach 100 women for sex and 1 will say Yes". Of course You may get more than 1. But to tell us that for every 10 chicks you cold approach 8 will say YES is bullshiit on top of bullshiit because even women themselves don't hit those numbers.

Anyways, you've said it yourself that cold approaching is addictive more than sex. No wonder. Cause I doubt there's a lot of actual sex there.

sajmark:
I am pleased with this lady

I was impressed by it too.

ubunja:

@bolded,,,, this is one of the greatest weaknesses of cold approaching. You don't know a woman's state of mind at that point. A perfectly suitable girl who could have welcomed your advances on any given day may be having a hell of a day she'll coldly shoot you down. Hence cold approaching rarely gets you quick sex (unless you're outrightly paying) the most you can come out with is just phone numbers, and you continue the work later on via chatting.

Amazingly these variables that incapacitate cold approaching turn out to be Chosen's greatest strength. The girl who is otherwise not available to you because of social class, religion, financial bracket, marital status etc, on that one day, at that one hour, just cause she's going through something, or has experienced something - she can be in a mood for a little fun or to be a bad girl. And choose you. A lot of the sexual successes of Chosen is being at the right place at the right time. That's why sex via Chosen can be easily same day and free with NO PHONE NUMBERS EXCHANGED. There'll not be a more superior game.

While cold approaching requires you to search for those girls that catch your eye, hot approaching (Chosen), requires you to keep a watchful eye for those girls looking like they're down to fucc.

Cold Approaching is about getting a woman to want you.

Hot Approaching is about finding that woman who already wants you.

I agree 100%. I think cold approaching is actually becoming illegal in some countries now (eg UK) because of how it can be borderline intrusive sometimes.

I also agree 100% that there’ll never be a superior game to the chosen doctrine.

Funny thing is when i was younger and even to this day, being chosen has the “cat and string” effect on me. You know how when you dangle a string over the head of a cat, it would go crazy trying to reach it but the moment you drop that string, the cat walks away lol.

I kind of feel like a victim when chosen.

ubunja:
I don't usually quote you cause you're more blue pill than red pill, but I'll stop you right there and call bs on that 80% blue lie. Dude even women themselves don't hit 80%, don't come here with that bs man. We're not kids here. Even di Caprio himself with all his looks and status and money, if he approaches 10 girls I bet you he will not get all of them to say yes,, and even getting 8 (which is the 80% mark) isn't guaranteed. hypergamy itself isn't as straightforward as many guys think. Many times it misfires because women are first of all emotional. Ask yourself, If hypergamy was as ironclad as it supposedly is, why are many women married in poverty. But that's not why I'm responding to you,, that 80% lie is what I can't countenance. I could have ignored. The more realistic stat that has been shared is "approach 100 women for sex and 1 will say Yes". Of course You may get more than 1. But to tell us that for every 10 chicks you cold approach 8 will say YES is bullshiit on top of bullshiit because even women themselves don't hit those numbers.
Anyways, you've said it yourself that cold approaching is addictive more than sex. No wonder. Cause I doubt there's a lot of actual sex there.

Lmao.
I had to think real hard whether or not to reply to this.
80% is a feat to you? Like seriously? 4 out of 5? You can't get the numbers of 4 girls out of 5 you approach?
I really as in honestly want to believe you're mixing things up.
I never for once referred to actual sex because I have a body count that's still less than 100 (80+) while my phone that is solely dedicated to women has a contact list of about 1,400. And the problem has never been about game or lack of it. The problem always has been lack of time.

So my question to you is with all your game, getting 4 numbers out of 5 girls is an impossible feat? Because based on my understanding that is what cold approaching means.

Tonnyray:
Lol. This really cracked me up.
You're not alone o. Let me cite this incident. I had this bitch Dami (a Yabatech chick) I chyked several years back in Lagos and was piping on a steady (alongside several others of course). Perfect full options. Fast-forward to a year or so later and one of my guys begged me to supply him one bitch out of my harem. He decided to scroll through my phone and on sighting her begged (with plenty emotional blackmail manipulations) make I set the chick up for him. Fola is your typical money miss road guy right from med school. Knowing Dami as a coded runs girl (you can't have those kinda ASSets in this Nigeria, come from an average middle class family, raised in Lagos, school in Yabatech and live large and not be into coded runs) I codedly arranged the parole (unknown to her). Sh!t worked like jazz. Long story short my guy d1cked her up eventually in Intercontinental hotel after 2 dinner dates. I asked some personal questions to confirm and my guy was spot on: the incredibly long nipples and the birthmark on upper part of her left thigh.
Fast-forward to a couple of weeks later and this bitch was in my crib to spend the night and still forming "I love you.. I've missed your deek.. yada yada" My mind was to destructively pound the pvssy for the last time and free the bitch for ever. What if I told you I was so disgusted I couldn't touch this bitch? Even I was shocked. Same me that knew (though without evidence, only my gut feelings) that this girl is a runs girl and I was dicking her all along now couldn't even stand the bitch. Like her touch made me cringe. She noticed herself and tried flipping it on me that she knows I've been fvcking other bitches that's why I haven't missed her or been receptive to her seductions. Thank GOD I'm not the abusive type I'd probably have left her with some indelible scars from some ferocious beating. By 11:30 pm I'd had enough and couldn't even stand having her under my roof for the night and ordered a taxi for her back to mainland. She shock no be small but calmly accepted her fate.
So bro you see how d tin goes?

Bro, you just defined a typical Nigerian girl, kudos

Calibrator:
Redpill is indeed an endless journey.


Ever since some people here pointed out from my screenshots that I seem to be dedicating a lot of time to chatting, I have cut back and whenever I am faced with the "You are neglecting me, not replying my chats" accusations.
I have been replying with "I don't have much free time to chat nowadays, you wanna relate with me, you know where I live and I live alone so you are free to come over and tell me anything you wanna talk about"



Familiarity and over availability breeds contempt and see finish.

Learn to make yourself scarce and hard to reach sometimes.

Remember I warned you about this sometime last year December but you said that was your way to understand women.
I'm glad your eyes are open now

Cold approaching is a fools errand, a move for the desperate and weak, typical of the masses even rich Simps use the muscle of their resources but the issue is that most men that engage in it based on emotions( lust or affection) instead of emotional detachment, the issue is that men shoot their shots either randomly at different women or targeting a specific demographic of women whom you deem your spec either in beauty( fine face, fair skin) or attractive body ( breast and ass), calibrate your cold approach to women who you are more attractive than i.e ugly or average looking girls, poor or average income girls especially when you don't have the means, they reject you it doesn't hurt at all since they are beneath you, approaching a hot baddy or your spec will make you emotionally invested since you like her or her beauty, it clouds your judgement and reason and you then begin to chase and simp

Looks like today is gonna be interesting...

Cold Vs Hot Approach Debate

Well, is there no lukewarm?


I like both arguments...my take is you have to be sensitive to her moods when doing cold approach. Trust me, you don't wanna approach a woman with menstrual pain

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Smartb0y:

Remember I warned you about this sometime last year December but you said that was your way to understand women.
I'm glad your eyes are open now

JESHAL:
Cold approaching is a fools errand, a move for the desperate and weak, typical of the masses even rich Simps use the muscle of their resources but the issue is that most men that engage in it based on emotions( lust or affection) instead of emotional detachment, the issue is that men shoot their shots either randomly at different women or targeting a specific demographic of women whom you deem your spec either in beauty( fine face, fair skin) or attractive body ( breast and ass), calibrate your cold approach to women who you are more attractive than i.e ugly or average looking girls, poor or average income girls especially when you don't have the means, they reject you it doesn't hurt at all since they are beneath you, approaching a hot baddy or your spec will make you emotionally invested since you like her or her beauty, it clouds your judgement and reason and you then begin to chase and simp

Cold approaching is for men that don't see themselves as the prize.

They still have a long way to go