Smartb0y:

Bro, this your statistics dey fear me o!.

That's why we talk about green lights. You obviously haven't mastered it.

Women will never directly approach you.

Stop dreaming

Giving greenlight is totally different from Cold approaching...... A girl giving greenlight is different from if she is cold approaching. Cold approaching is direct. This is something over 90% of women will never do because they don't have the balls, so they resort to giving greenlights. And that's fine.

Don't know what you talking about. Green light has more to do with hot approach. Guys see the light and hot approach. Thanks


Modified*

Actually, I'm reading your post again and I realize you're only just reiterating what I said, so I see no sense in saying I'm dreaming, because I never said women will directly approach you. I said they won't. You repeated the same thing.

ubunja:
the question you need to ask is HOW DO WOMEN COLD APPROACH

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How do women cold approach?

And no,, cold approaching doesn't raise body count.

Guy A does cold approach. Guy B waits for a chance at Hot Approach.

You seriously think, in a year, Guy B would have more body counts than Guy A?

Simp food

Hotspotbro:

Simp food

I don't get you bro.

You mean this c....fish looking mudafucker wants a man using ABOVE iPhone 12 Pro Max??

Junnior:
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How do women cold approach?



Guy A does cold approach. Guy B waits for a chance at Hot Approach.

You seriously think, in a year, Guy B would have more body counts than Guy A?

dude,, getting numbers and chatting for hours with girls is not body count.

luminouz:


I don't get you bro.

You mean this c....fish looking mudafucker wants a man using ABOVE iPhone 12 Pro Max??

Yes..
And specimens like this exist..They're the reason why some betas go into fraud..

Junnior:

Giving greenlight is totally different from Cold approaching...... A girl giving greenlight is different from if she is cold approaching. Cold approaching is direct. This is something over 90% of women will never do because they don't have the balls, so they resort to giving greenlights. And that's fine.

Don't know what you talking about. Green light has more to do with hot approach. Guys see the light and hot approach. Thanks


Modified*

Actually, I'm reading your post again and I realize you're only just reiterating what I said, so I see no sense in saying I'm dreaming, because I never said women will directly approach you. I said they won't. You repeated the same thing.

you're out of your league on this one. Maybe you need to sit this one out and take notes.

First of all: Greenlights by a girl = a girl cold approaching you.

It's one and the same thing.

I've given you a starting point. Connect the rest of the dots yourself.

Pls, sombori should explain the difference btw cold approach and hot approach for me.

Junnior:
For instance, you go to a party where you hardly know anyone but your friend who invited you. During the party, your friend goes away to chill with his babe, leaving you all by yourself. Meanwhile, you've sighted a number of hot bannies in the party. What will you do?
Will you sit there all by yourself waiting to be chosen? Chances are, if you're not with someone, you will be avoided.
You will have to simply socialize by cold approaching one of those bannies first. From there, if you're cool, other chics will start noticing you and start giving you signals which will then lead to hot approach.

So, you see? Men should find a way to balance doing both cold and hot approach.

PS: in order not to get burnt, cold approach should not be taken seriously.

Bros, you dey talk like say if them avoid you for the party, then your life don finish be that

Let them avoid me na. I will never cold approach any woman in this life till I die. If I end up single, then so be it.

More time and resources to spend on things that matter

DieRich5:

This works two ways: hypergamy responds to what's higher than her, hence, making her think twice before replacing a man entirely when he is a surer bet compared to where she's heading for. On the otherhand, it becomes detrimental to the man if all he does is to please her so that she won't replace him. Hypergamy will always do what pleases her though.
Thereafter, classifying males into boys and men supports the second facts. It is not an attempt to encourage younger males/boys to wrestle with all that fetters them to grow into mature men, but to become mature men that will simp for women.

On the flip side, one good side about hypergamy is that it shapes men to become better. Strong muscles, higher status, large territory, many resources etc. are instinctual demands of hypergamy, hence, to get women, man's instinct was shaped to get all of these things in the right place. But on a conscious level, with thorough reasoning, men says "they do all of these to better themselves and not to get women per say".

Thanks.

Raalsalghul:


Even your immediate family sees you as a slave and tool, but theirs is more tolerable because you share the same DNA and maybe they could have your back when chips are down.

I've come to that level where I don't see exception to these things: family or not.

Incentives rules the human mind. You are only as useful as what you provide. Simple!

Even you and I uses this as a yardstick when associating with people and picking material and non material resources.

Evolution has already shaped men to be shoulders to lean on, hope to wait for, leaders that guards and a sage that direct. It is a curse burden because no one looks up to a man that can't fulfil these but also a blessing because without men fulfiling all of these, the world stays on halt! The key then is to become this why watching your sides as a man.

Thanks.

Hotspotbro:
Yes..
And specimens like this exist..They're the reason why some betas go into fraud..

That's fuqed up man.

Why go through all that for any woman?

JESHAL:
Cold approaching is a fools errand, a move for the desperate and weak, typical of the masses even rich Simps use the muscle of their resources but the issue is that most men that engage in it based on emotions( lust or affection) instead of emotional detachment, the issue is that men shoot their shots either randomly at different women or targeting a specific demographic of women whom you deem your spec either in beauty( fine face, fair skin) or attractive body ( breast and ass), calibrate your cold approach to women who you are more attractive than i.e ugly or average looking girls, poor or average income girls especially when you don't have the means, they reject you it doesn't hurt at all since they are beneath you, approaching a hot baddy or your spec will make you emotionally invested since you like her or her beauty, it clouds your judgement and reason and you then begin to chase and simp

It doesn't really worked that way bro. Men want young, beautiful and fertile women. While women want strong, beautiful and resourceful men. You'll never take an ugly woman serious same way a woman will never think of a poor man twice for a long term relationship: Evolutionary wise.

Not approaching beautiful women stems out of insecurity I must say. But you can also beat it by your status: real or fake it, because women are very superficial and myopic. But does pvssy really worth it?

Withal, once you starts approaching from the low(ugly), you'll definitely starts desiring the HB7 to HB10, no rationalization about this.

Why I dislike approaching is that that girl you're pinning for is simping stupidly for one nigga that you are probably better than. That alone is a turn off for me when approaching, it makes me feel less of a prize, and of course approaching women already elevates their sense of pride as if they worth something really tangible.

Beautiful women simps, but only for men they have chosen. However, I agree with you on where men will simp for beautiful women.

luminouz:
Looks like today is gonna be interesting...

Cold Vs Hot Approach Debate

Well, is there no lukewarm?


I like both arguments...my take is you have to be sensitive to her moods when doing cold approach. Trust me, you don't wanna approach a woman with menstrual pain

Funny thing is that a woman that has chosen you will come with her menstrual pad and flow to your room. At day other men will receive curses but at night, she'll be the one acting submissively. Real life bro!

LoL.

CaveAdullam:


Funny thing is that a woman that has chosen you will come with her menstrual pad and flow to your room. At day other men will receive curses but at night, she'll be the one acting submissively. Real life bro!

LoL.

You are right...

But these girls are always cranky on their period days, especially when in pain. I guess she could like you enough to give you audience though...mood is everything to a woman

CR777:


I respect you bro, you ain't sentimental but rather, you work with facts only.

Hahaha, I remember you, that troll that came here the first time and was insulting ubûñjà, now u wan dey disguise abi

Choice can only give birth to two; rewards and consequences (punishments)

In whatever choice we make, we tend to meet one of these two. We must accept the product of our choices.

That, I believe is the difference between a man and a sad b!tch.
A man does not reserve the right to apportion blames.

Smartb0y:


Cold approaching is for men that don't see themselves as the prize.

They still have a long way to go

True but not really that way bro.

Men are very lustful, eternally doom by horniness and will not want to miss any slight opportunity with a particular woman, hence, will approach. Remember: men have a short life expectancy and with great workload and will like to quickly maximize the opportunities for reproducing many offsprings which makes them to always approach these women.

However, this is an instinct we must lay our hands on and control.

Are we still on top this matter?
I thought we agreed to agree to disagree
Where is heartofcity with his memes when you need him?
At least divert the trajectory of the thread a little.

NeroStealth01:
If you have ever been chosen by a woman before even if it is just once, you will never ever find cold approaching interesting. It would be a great waste of your precious time.

If a woman has ever wanted you so badly before, you will know that women also SIMP in great heights as bluePILLED men.
A woman who chooses you will call you every blessed day without even worrying or complaining about you not reciprocating.

If you have experienced being chosen before, cold approaching will bore you. Trying to impress a girl to like you will feel so stupid and abnormal.

You will never have to use a punch a line when she chooses you. You can do no wrong in the face of a woman who chooses you.
She will hug you on the first date. If you try to kiss her she won't resist you. She won't make you wait for anything.

When she chooses you, you don't have to take her to a fancy restaurant to impress her. Merely seeing your face alone she is already impressed, to the extent that she won't even notice the environment of the first date.

When you have experienced being chosen, you will never ever deal with low interest women again.

So much to talk about so little time. With all that has been preached here, there is still a lot to be learned.
If you want to do things the way you have always done it before coming to the REDPILL, then there is no reason to be here.

#TAKETHEREDPILL
#STAYREDPILLED
#STAYCOLD

Genuine desire will make a pastor's first daughter to fvck you under her father's roof. It doesn't care about strict father or moral obligations. Or, whether her free is fast sleeping, praying or preaching sermons. She will first do what's in her mind before considering all these.

Genuine desire will list more than 10 names of guys on her bedsheet but tick you as the one she wants. Meanwhile, you're not even as close to other guys in that rank.

Genuine desire will cry when you make mention of other women. She will fight these women in her imaginations.

Forget it, genuine desire doesn't care about a good place for a date. She will eat unripe plantain and oil sauce with you in your house plus boobs and a$$ to play with. Yummy!

Genuine desire always bring sex and romance to your doorstep.

The times I have been chosen by women is the best time I have had with women. No shenanigans! Smooth as sleek!

Looool.

Calibrator:
People think that I am lying whenever I say the last time I toasted a girl was in 2013.


They will be like all these girls flocking around you, how do you do it?


No dey loud am.
I just go about my grind and one way or another, my body satellite dish is always on to pick up greenlight signals from the opposite sex.


Though I have to admit, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and those who throw themselves at you might not be your spec on a regular day but a man gotta do what a man gotta do


Going after and maintaining a relationship with your spec is one sure way to lose frame and the genesis of oneitis.

Not your spec, but at least she unveils her true side and will try to make the relationship work until it pass the cliff point.

At this angle, you can mould a woman, that is, you can mould her into what you want and it is easy because she is the one pinning for you.

Thanks.

Tonnyray:
I'm trying to get this right;
I'm entering a shopping mall and a Xoli Mfeka booty sashays out unaccompanied.
I retrace my steps immediately, walk up to her, introduce myself and collect her details.. and that makes me weak and not the prize
What am I expected to do? Say "one man is tired of this pvssy?" lmfao
I should rather respond to the evergreen lights flashing continually in my office by regular and temporary (NYSC) female staff neh? or that of members of my new church and end up in a Sammie Okposogate?
Who says there is no "choosing" in cold approaches? You think a 7+ chick gives out her number to every Sule, Rasheed and Mufutau?
"I don't give my number to strangers" is the biggest lie from the pits of hell, he's just not her spec, period.
And collecting a chick's number is just the very first step in hitting the coochie.. there are so many other possible steps in-between.
Where do I even begin on this topic?
Dayum

You have already satisfied hypergamy unknowingly to you. Broke dudes like me don't go to a SHOPPING MALL BRO. "except say na pishure we come take or follow person come there".

Your dress code can satisfy hypergamy.

Your accent can satisfy hypergamy.

Your physique and looks can satisfy hypergamy.

Your wrist watch, phone and shades can satisfy hypergamy.

Even some kind face cap can satisfy hypergamy.

Hypergamy anchors to what's higher than her. And once she senses it, SHE WILL GIVE YOU HER NUMBER...CHATS WILL FLOW IF SHE SENSES MORE THAT YOU ARE WAY HIGHER THAN THE SIMPS ORBITING HER.

Hahahahahaha.

True that.

Women are usually more amiable if they are the one who is more invested in the relationship or if they know that they initiated whatever led to the relationship in the first place. They might leave but will linger around much longer than if you were the one who initiated the relationship.


Since no one is created perfect, My trick is to always make their "minus side" My spec.

If I am with a big brezzed lady, I will tell her that big ass is my spec, when I am with a big azz, I will tell her that I love ladies with sporty thighs, then tell the figure 8 one that I can die for a slim lady.... None of my female friends actually know my Spec and that keeps them on their toes somehow

CaveAdullam:


Not your spec, but at least she unveils her true side and will try to make the relationship work until it pass the cliff point.

At this angle, you can mould a woman, that is, you can mould her into what you want and it is easy because she is the one pinning for you.

Thanks.

CaveAdullam:
Genuine desire will make a pastor's first daughter to fvck you under her father's roof. It doesn't care about strict father or moral obligations. Or, whether her free is fast sleeping, praying or preaching sermons. She will first do what's in her mind before considering all these.
Genuine desire will list more than 10 names of guys on her bedsheet but tick you as the one she wants. Meanwhile, you're not even as close to other guys in that rank.
Genuine desire will cry when you make mention of other women. She will fight these women in her imaginations.
Forget it, genuine desire doesn't care about a good place for a date. She will eat unripe plantain and oil sauce with you in your house plus boobs and a$$ to play with. Yummy!
Genuine desire always bring sex and romance to your doorstep.
The times I have been chosen by women is the best time I have had with women. No shenanigans! Smooth as sleek!
Looool.

The wahala here is people believing because you cold approach ladies you're not being chosen by several other women in your regular operating sphere. Such mentality is what I find befudling. Like the two experiences are totally mutually exclusive. Like seriously?

CaveAdullam:
Forget it, genuine desire doesn't care about a good place for a date. She will eat unripe plantain and oil sauce with you in your house plus boobs and a$$ to play with. Yummy!
Genuine desire always bring sex and romance to your doorstep.
The times I have been chosen by women is the best time I have had with women. No shenanigans! Smooth as sleek!
Looool.

The very first girls I cold approached and collected their numbers was back in my 200 level when I didn't even have a phone. The first I took out on a date, I could only afford a plate of food at Mr Biggs back then and she refused to eat if we didn't eat it together. She went to the service point herself to collect an extra fork so we both ate. All man get history. We only look back now and smile cos last last it was what it was. FUN.

CaveAdullam:


You have already satisfied hypergamy unknowingly to you. Broke dudes like me don't go to a SHOPPING MALL BRO. "except say na pishure we come take or follow person come there".

Your dress code can satisfy hypergamy.

Your accent can satisfy hypergamy.

Your physique and looks can satisfy hypergamy.

Your wrist watch, phone and shades can satisfy hypergamy.

Even some kind face cap can satisfy hypergamy.

Hypergamy anchors to what's higher than her. And once she senses it, SHE WILL GIVE YOU HER NUMBER...CHATS WILL FLOW IF SHE SENSES MORE THAT YOU ARE WAY HIGHER THAN THE SIMPS ORBITING HER.

Hahahahahaha.

and the cheapest way to satisfy hypergamy which anyone can do,, is actually to put yourself first. And her last. When you value yourself above a girl she tends to follow your lead and value you too. Always have her look up to you as the better half. That's why narcissist have so much power over women. That extreme self love trains a woman to treat a narc how he treats himself. You train people how to treat you by how you treat yourself. Once you hear a girl say "You love yourself". Just know she's recognizing that effect over herself.

But we'll have to talk about the limits of hypergamy one of these days. When people are ready.

Junnior:


Over 90% of women don't even have the balls to cold approach guys. So, I see nothing wrong in guys doing it, provided they don't kiss ass while at it. I believe it's mostly for fun though.

Do you know that if most guys quit cold approach, their body count would drastically reduce? They would be greatly limiting themselves to opportunities.
So, it's important that we find a way to balance doing both cold and hot approach concurrently and within the available time.

For the records, despite male horniness and sexual promiscuity, sexual intercourse is dropping for the male folks daily. More men are taking a bow out of the sexual market because it has been seriously deregulated.

Men recording higher body counts via cold approaching are simping for pvssy most of the times as their TEAR(Tear, Energy, Attention, Resources) gets parted away in exchange. Other men recording higher body counts is via "warm approaching": Prostitutes.

I agree with your points though.

ubunja:
and the cheapest way to satisfy hypergamy which anyone can do,, is actually to put yourself first. And her last. When you value yourself above a girl she tends to follow your lead and value you too. Always have her look up to you as the better half. That's why narcissist have so much power over women. That extreme self love trains a woman to treat a narc how he treats himself. You train people how to treat you by how you treat yourself. Once you hear a girl say "You love yourself". Just know she's recognizing that effect over herself.

But we'll have to talk about the limits of hypergamy one of these days. When people are ready.

I am ready

CaveAdullam:
DAY 32, REDPILL 2022

No forming a dictator around a pvssy. After set and done, let go!

And as they say: "it is not yours, just your turn".

Authority: Maintain frame.

Simple!

darkelf:


Bros, you dey talk like say if them avoid you for the party, then your life don finish be that

Let them avoid me na. I will never cold approach any woman in this life till I die. If I end up single, then so be it.

More time and resources to spend on things that matter

There is no sense in what you just wrote, because the instance I gave is in a party. You're meant to socialize in a party. If you didn't want to do that, why were you there in the first place? So, if you're in such a situation, you would just stay on your own and be looking at people partying? Why not sit in your house then?

The problem with some of you is you're taking this cold approach thing too seriously. Have fun. As far as I'm concerned, it's no big deal. Just approach and talk to a girl like a friend and see where it leads.
When I network, I don't talk to guys only, I talk to girls too, because sometimes they can even link you up to some opportunities that guys can't. Cold approach is not only for sex. Most times, you just do it and see where it leads -- sex or some other thing of benefit.
In fact, there are situations that you would find yourself in where you would have no choice but to do this cold approach. Unless, of course, you are scared.

I'm done.

Junnior:

There is no sense in what you just wrote, because the instance I gave is in a party. You're meant to socialize in a party. If you didn't want to do that, why were you there in the first place? So, if you're in such a situation, you would just stay on your own and be looking at people partying? Why not sit in your house then?

The problem with some of you is you're taking this cold approach thing too seriously. Have fun. As far as I'm concerned, it's no big deal. Just approach and talk to a girl like a friend and see where it leads.
When I network, I don't talk to guys only, I talk to girls too, because sometimes they can even link you up to some opportunities that guys can't. Cold approach is not only for sex. Most times, you just do it and see where it leads -- sex or some other thing of benefit.
In fact, there are situations that you would find yourself in where you would have no choice but to do this cold approach. Unless, of course, you are scared.

I'm done.

Okay. What I don't understand right now is that, for every approach to any lady is cold approaching? What if you're going somewhere and you can't find your way, and all you have to do is to approach a lady coming down the road, is that cold approach too?

Ubunja has stated the facts believe it or not.

No, sit for your table with the mentality that very approach to a lady is cold approach.