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| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:56pm On Sep 26, 2020 |
GLYCOLYSISS:Thanks bro. You are also doing great bro. Have seen your thread 7 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:58pm On Sep 26, 2020 |
We have gone far with the timeless quotes on women. Its time for us to proceed to the next section, What is REDPILL? 3 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:22pm On Sep 26, 2020 |
46.) WHAT IS THE REDPILL? Dpsychologist: 11 Likes 3 Shares
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| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:28pm On Sep 26, 2020 |
The first time i heard of the red pill i thought it was some kind of red tablet or capsule — Dpsychologist Although Red pill comes from the popular and influential 1999 sci-fi action film, The Matrix . The concept has a precedent in the 1990 science fiction film Total Recall. In that film, one character offers another a red pill, said to be a symbol of his “desire to return to reality.” There’s no blue pill presented, however. The Red pill and blue pill now have become slang, respectively, for accepting truth even though it’s difficult, or rejecting it to cling to a comfortable falsehood. In 2012, the Reddit community The Red Pill was founded around the principle that it is men, rather than women, who are oppressed by a society. Taking the red pill, here, is seeing this anti-feminist “truth.” The /r/TheRedPill subreddit is the site’s main hub for discussing pickup-artist (PUA) techniques and the struggle for men’s rights. It has grown from 19 followers in 2012 to more than 270,000 subscribers (and far more readers), mostly there to discuss how feminism is not really about equality, but about oppressing men. 14 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:30pm On Sep 26, 2020 |
The infamous red pill Since its founding in 2012, the “men’s rights” subreddit r/TheRedPill has become one of the most notorious forums in Reddit’s history. Notorious in the sense that "society" termed it misogynistic, sexist, toxic masculinity etc The Daily Beast has uncovered significant evidence that TheRedPill’s founder, a redditor named pk_atheist, is actually a 31-year-old Republican lawmaker named Robert Fisher. Fisher created r/TheRedPill near the end of his initial campaign for the New Hampshire state House of Representatives , in which he ran as a Democrat. In 2014, he campaigned as a Republican, won, and maintained his seat in 2016. Despite the accusations — which include him accused of litany of misogynistic comments posted to the forum over the years — with a mix of denial and admission, Fisher has ignored clarion calls from his fellow state legislators to resign. Instead, he seems to be embracing his role as a de facto leader of the alternative-right enclave, and says he will “stand strong for men's rights” in the New Hampshire legislature. Surprising for many is the fact that there is also a red pill subreddit specifically for women. Where /r/TheRedPill focuses on masculinity, subreddits like /r/RedPillWomen and /r/RedPillWives focus on femininity, domesticity, and traditional ways of living for women. According to them, the West’s brainwashed liberal feminist,as such the red pill undoes all the damage. 19 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:08pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
Evolution of Redpill Community When the Red Pill reddit started it was more of discussing PUA techniques and the struggle for men’s rights. In early 2000s, what is now themed the manosphere, was composed largely by pick-up material often times focused on club(night) game, or the likes. The nascent philosophy as of that time more or less consisted of “ Do A, then do B, and then profit” . Many of the early pick up artists had identified what worked, but didn’t focus so much on why it worked. Thus, the general teaching in the sphere was very much focused on the “ learning by doing ” method, which consisted of “learn these lines, then go do 500 approaches”. However, the development that had taken place a decade after was much more focused on developing frameworks for understanding the fabric of reality, and the very metaphor of “ The Red Pill ” pointed to seeing the world from outside the simulation presented by social and cultural programming. Because the Red Pill tends to focus on the study and dissemination of knowledge that was considered esoteric(secret) not more than 15 years ago, it would be more accurate to call the Red Pill an awareness movement. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:10pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
Red Pill concepts are largely based on imminently observable praxeology(philosophy) in various forms (the study of human conduct), and utilizes inductive, rational analyses to arrive at revised theories of the modern socio-political reality. Red Pillers agree with certain Biblically based truths, for instance, the belief that the Biblical model of marriage is the best (when it can be achieved). It is widely believed that many of the core concepts, especially those pertaining to female behaviors, and the concept of “Game”, were first discovered by the Pick Up Artist (PUA) industry during the first decade of the 21 century. Although many PUA’s have endorsed the Red Pill, the vast majority of Red Pillers’ are just regular Joe’s, not PUA’s. Furthermore, there is no direct ideological link between the two communities, other than the fact that a few former PUA’s are now active proponents of the Red Pill. 8 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:26pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
Triad Misconceptions of the redpill Most of the antagonistic arguments against the Red Pill , fall into one of the following three arguments. 1. Red Pill awareness leads men to hate women. 2. Red Pill awareness leads men to form a victim mentality. 3. Red Pill truths offer no practical solutions for the problems presented through Red Pill awareness. The Red Pill responses to these arguments are discussed below Responses ¶ The Red Pill isn’t (and was never) intended to get men to hate women, but rather to inform men about the inherent nature of women so they wont hate women for what they can never be to them. This is the disillusion that men who still cling to Blue Pill idealism can’t seem to get past – they cannot abandon those Blue Pill hopes that they believe women are capable of fulfilling for him, which the Red Pill disabuses him of. 14 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:32pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
¶ The second complaint is that Red Pill awareness gives men some license to feeling like victims. For the record, and as boldly as I can put this, if you are Red Pill aware and still believe you are a victim of some sort because of your previous Blue Pill indenture to pedestalizing women or the Feminine Imperative, you are only a victim of your own lack of vision. Red Pill awareness has set you free – free from the blur and distraction that a feminine-primary social order would pull over your eyes, free from the delusional Blue Pill hopes that are only greater shackles for a man, and free from never seeing the intersexual pitfalls you were prone to fall into before. Red Pill awareness comes at a cost; the truth may set you free, but it doesn’t make it pretty. — Dpsychologist Your responsibility as a Red Pill aware man it’s that you are never allowed to play the victim. You now know the rules of engagement. Play it well, change the rules if you can, but you are no longer allowed to say you didn’t know. ¶ The last argument is that redpill truths have no application, its even laughable to think so. I will talk about red pill applications in the next section 11 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:53pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
47.) THE APPLICATION OF RED PILL TRUTH No body of knowledge has much value without practical applications. Red Pill society has a lot of issues on the table, each receiving various degrees of enthusiasm, but perhaps two of the most ubiquitous applications of Red Pill truths are in the form of Frame and Game . It is a misconception to say that redpill truths have no application. Below is what i consider its application. Frame Frame basically means that you have developed your own opinions, values and mindsets, which are inherently true to your personhood, and which also bring you a sense of self respect. Frame is analogous to strategy . The phrase, “to maintain frame”, means to hold your mind, values and self-concept consistent, in spite of peer pressure, emotional entanglements, arguments and other contradictions posed by the external world. The concept of maintaining frame is also validated by the Bible. (See Ephesians 4:14 , James 1:6-8 .) Another meaning of Frame relates to your system of beliefs, and how truthful, strong and solid they are. (Or, how solid you are in them.) Tapping into the Manosphere, reading a few blogs, and participating in the discussion, is a powerful way to check and refine your own frame each time. Game Game is the practical application and the efficacious expression of one’s Frame within a social environment. Game could also be interpreted as a collection of interpersonal artistic social skills, which are used to create a repertoire of emotions and impressions in others, and is done as a way to draw boundaries, protect one’s interests, and elicit desired responses, such as respect, from others. When a man’s Game is effective, it commands social approval and admiration from others. Game is analogous to tactics . To have Game , one must not only have a reliable Frame in place, but he must also develop a corresponding style of expression, an assortment of attitudes, and a bit of character. Confidence and determination is an integral part of a successful Game, and fortunately, these qualities can be garnered through the continued practice and development of one’s Game. There is a lot more to be said about Game, but again, each man has his own concept. You will have to decide for yourself what Frame and Game mean to you, on your own Red Pill journey. 15 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:19pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
Applying the redpill truths It’s very important for a man to know what he believes, and how to express those beliefs in words, and in an appropriate and convincing way. Of course, your personal Frame of mind is not a given. It must be learned and developed. Once you’ve swallowed the Red Pill, you will need a lot of Information, Insight and Inspiration to build and maintain your mental frame. You must uncover what it is that you truly value, desire, and believe. You must experience challenges and test yourself to see if what you believe is truly accurate. Finally, you must work, read, study and dialogue with other men, in order to find the words to express yourself. Nevertheless, I strongly encourage you to start with whatever Frame you currently have, and use it to build your Game. Practice this every day, at every opportunity within your social circles. Especially if you’re young, this will help you get a faster start off the lineup, and you will see the realization of your confidence, character, and desire much earlier in life. For example, when I was younger, I made it a point to talk to alot of people esp females that came across my path. I talked to ANY female – beautiful, ugly, fat, thin, old, young, rich, poor, smart, dumb, slutty, not so slutty, fair, dark, single, married, divorced, “it’s complicated” relationship etc. I upgraded my style of dressing, grooming and body language, i held leadership positions, talked more in public and gatherings. I didn’t just do it with the mind to get laid, I just wanted to build my Frame, and hone my Game. 18 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:26pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
Summary of the section Men join the Red Pill community for variety of reasons, and they all have different outcomes as their personal goals, so it is misleading to call the Red Pill a social movement. Nevertheless, it is widely agreed that the vast majority of Red Pill men, at present, share the following concerns. ¶ The debasement of marriage, and the destruction of the nuclear family, in the context of modern culture. ¶ The effects of 40+ years of feminism on western social intercourse, society and law. In addition, a good majority of Red Pill men have the following interests: ¶ Making themselves better men, and improving their opportunities in life, and their significant relationships by doing so. ¶ The solidarity and support of fellow Red Pillers, especially those who are “waking up” to the harsh reality of Red Pill truths. (Thanks to all the bloggers who spend countless hours doing research, reading, writing and commenting for the benefit of our fellow men.) I hope this has provided you with a useful summary of the Red Pill, so that you can decide where you want to go from here. 10 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:35pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
Happy sunday Redpillers 6 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:06pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
See The way this lady was sexually Harassing an old man but people didn't see anything bad about it. But if the role were to be reversed, the man will be accused of being a rapist. https://www.nairaland.com/6146389/naughty-slay-queen-sexually-seducing#94376017 Double standards SMH! 7 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Blessedboy23(m): 8:09pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
Dpsychologist:Dpsychologist Nice work here really learn alot from this thread 1 Like |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:30pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
Blessedboy23:I am glad you are learning. 3 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:19pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
Night night 1 Like |
| Re: The Red Truth by Joskiro50: 7:26am On Sep 28, 2020 |
@Dpsychologist, you are doing such a great job. Thank you for opening my eyes more to the red pill. Although my game has been up to some extent, but following this post shone a light on some parts I need to work on. I have a question. What is your take on dating a fellow classmate? I happen to be a very popular figure in my faculty (in a State University). I am the course rep of my class and I hold some other political positions at the school level. I broke up with my girlfriend (a coursemate) sometime in April. Prior to that time, I had cheated on her with three other coursemates.. I had sex with one, had a romance with another and only had a kiss with the third. The three ladies I cheated with are also coursemates and they knew I was in a relationship with that girl. Although it was meant to be a secret stuff, I was however worried that my ex-gf may find out someday but thank God she didn't. So at the time we broke up, I was kinda happy because I'm now 'free' and technically, I'm no longer worried about her finding out my escapades since we're no longer in a relationship. Now I've made the decision to not date any coursemate again. I will only do friends-with-benefits.. but is this really a good decision  Should I just stay away totally from coursemates (it will be hard to do sha cuz of lot of them are attracted to me)?What is your take on gaming with coursemates? 1 Like |
| Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 8:04am On Sep 28, 2020 |
A wise man once said "Don't shiit where you eat" Joskiro50: 7 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by drLammy(m): 11:40am On Sep 28, 2020 |
Good Job you are doing here boss.. KUDOS! 1 Like |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 1:04pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
drLammy:Thanks bro and you are welcome 1 Like |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:02pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Lets roll shall we 1 Like |
| Re: The Red Truth by bobokeshington: 4:16pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Dpsychologist:THUMBS UP BOSS! GREAT JOB YOU'RE DOING!! LOUD IT!!! 1 Like |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:46pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
bobokeshington:Of course 1 Like |
| Re: The Red Truth by Curvinus(m): 5:54pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: Layycon's ex's spring to mind here. 30 million quids, a house, a car and fame and they are now starting to emerge from their cocoons. 1 Like |
| Re: The Red Truth by Curvinus(m): 6:16pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
This thread is a treasure throve of redpill and I would say even blackpill. A lot of the things I have known, experienced and believed about women have been more than confirmed here. However, it could also be said that certain characteristics being attributed to women here also apply to both sexes. For instance, both men and women resent inferior neediness. They also want to take glory for the achievements of their significant others and would not want to continously be influenced by past favours received. But it would seem that men are in the majority in terms of negative experiences due to their position as bearers of economic powers, which naturally predisposes them to be givers more than receivers. Overall I would say kudos to the OP for taking time to avail us of this priceless masterpiece. It is my ernest belief that this thread would further help to reduce the number of would be victims of the amoral nature of the female and even male sexual imperative. 7 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:42pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
38.) THE BLUE PILL / RED PILL DICHOTOMY The Blue Pill and Red Pill is a binary choice.— Dpsychologist In the manosphere, blue-pill thinkers are those who uncritically accept the idea that society discriminates against women. “Red Pillers”, by contrast, recognise that it is men who are worse-off. As proof, they point to false rape accusations, disparities in the length of prison sentences—63% longer for men, on average—and gaps in college enrolment, where women outnumber men by 12%. The Blue Pill The perspective often referred to only as “ Blue Pill ” consists of many of the assumptions that are considered politically and culturally acceptable within the worldwide . In many ways the blue pill can be likened to a classical fairy-tale, wherein the prince finally gets his princess after proving his worth and they live happily ever after. These concepts and assumptions are those supported by the cultural and social narrative, and that are ingrained in the population from birth until grave. I have put down what i consider the "Blue Pill concepts" below. There are slight changes, but the concepts largely remain the same: 5 Likes 4 Shares
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| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:01pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
¶ Just Be Yourself This is somewhat of the core promise within the Blue Pill framework, the Universe has done all the hard work to plan out how your life will go, you just need to show up for it. Just being yourself is somewhat of a weird idea, seeing as most of us change throughout our lives as a function of our experiences. It also brings up a string of questions related to, when, where and how. This is a thumbs up for complacency and lack of ambition. ¶ A Relationship is Easy with The Right Person What this assumption states is that if a relationship is successful then you did well in selecting your partner and you can commend yourself on a job well done. If however, your relationship fails, it means that you obviously did not pick the right partner and thus you should get back out there to actually find the right partner. It is a scenario wherein the person is to blame for picking the wrong partner, but also blamed if they fail to find their right partner. This puts a person in a limbo. In addition it also promote an unrealistic view of a relationship, which is always hard work. This is an insidious belief, because it tells both parties in the relationship that once you are with the “ right person ” you can stop being the person that originally attracted them and “ just be yourself “. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:04pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
¶ The Right Partner Exists Perhaps the most outrageous fallacy of the blue pill mindset is the belief that there is exactly one “ soul-mate ” out there for every human. This promotes an unhealthy perspective that one should expect to find a perfect partner, but in collusion with the “ A relationship is easy with the right person ” it creates a problem. It promotes the idea that there is a single person out there that is perfect, and for men with a tendency to pedestalize and idealize women, especially in the initial stages of a relationship, creates situations that are easy to enter but difficult to leave. The belief that one has found the perfect woman, puts a man in a position wherein he may put up with increasing levels of poor behavior without consequence, after all she is his one, and therefore there is nobody else out there for him. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:10pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
¶ The End-State is a Monogamous Relationship with Children and a Job While reproduction is why we are on this earth as a species, our cardinal purpose so to speak. The conflation of long-term relationships with reproduction is a social and cultural one. One can reproduce outside of a relationship, and one can be in a relationship without children. The narrative is that you are not an adult unless you are married with children, other arrangements may not apply. A man who lives his life as a carefree bachelor is often referred to as “ prolonging adolescence “, "incomplete man" a “ man-boy ” or various other shaming statements to make him conform and “ man up and marry that slut “. I refer to this as the Bachelors Dilemma. This is promoted as the ideal arrangement for humans. 7 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:19pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
¶ It is What You Can Do For Others Blue Pill encourages that men put off their own life and pleasures in order to enable same pleasures for those around them, especially women. This is a contributing factor for Putting Women On Pedestal. ¶ Men and Women are the Same This is a fairly recent addition to the framework, having been added in less than 100 years or so. If one goes back to previous generation , one would find that the accepted cultural and social narrative was that the two sexes are different from each other in meaningful ways. The mantra that we are the same can take both soft forms and hard forms. The soft form being “ Men and women are equal but different” and the hard form “ Genders are social constructs “. In many ways this began when it became common to conflate equality of worth, meaning that all humans are of equal value in the form of their humanity, with “ all humans are identical in ability “. The extreme position being a case where the person accepts that humans are a species characterized by sexual dimorphism, yet that the very hormones and genetics that cause this dimorphism does not affect the brain. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:24pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Curvinus:You are welcome bro. Your imput is succinct. |
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