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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by Nobody: 3:27pm On Sep 29, 2020
lefulefu:
na food be the main intention nau cheesy..u think na romance or dating b4? grin
If u invite a girl for an outing and she brings along 14 of her friends that should tell u what their main intention is grin grin grin
Na wah for u oo 14 of her friends.. na world cup we wan play grin

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by mariahAngel(f): 3:27pm On Sep 29, 2020
DZTech:
Bros, food is 3rd date agenda na undecided
It's d precedent from day1 dt spurs d mentality.
If she needs someone to feed her, she should ask her father or family.
Dating is to know u.
Guys wey don spend dey look for ROI, no story.

She was on her own jeje o , before your busybody asked her out on a date o!

She beg you food?

...but why some guys weak like this sef? undecided
Na food o! Food! No be car o!
Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by lielbree: 3:30pm On Sep 29, 2020
Happyguy201:
absolutely brother but then again . nigerian girls have poor mentality most of them think that when you ask them out on a date it means free food and drinks for them

If you can't afford to buy food and drink for your date, stop asking people out!

Anyone who ask out pays, be it man or woman.

Allow the lady ask u out. Simple!

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by mariahAngel(f): 3:33pm On Sep 29, 2020
Only a poor mind with inferiority complex would be ashamed to ask for food when they're hungry or shame those who are not ashamed to eat.
Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by Nobody: 3:33pm On Sep 29, 2020
Liposure:
thats not fair. Awoof de run bele

You don't seem to catch my drift here. I simply mean, go on a date with someone who loves you. Whatever you order for her would be enough as she won't have the mind to rip you.

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by dfrost: 3:34pm On Sep 29, 2020
lefulefu:
see bro if food is cheap and affordable in naija e no go dey freak ppl.Imagine common jollof rice u would see nigerians fighting each other in parties and burial ceremonies.Ordinary jollof rice oooo wey no don well and wey dem go put one tiny meat wey be like wetin kwashorkor affect cheesy.na hunger.Some girls how dem dey take get daily meal na wen man take dem out..such situation they will bring along five or seven more of their hungry friends with them cheesy.In a place where food is plentiful and cheap food will be the least of our issues wen it comes to dating cheesy.Wen i see grownup adults fighting over food d tin dey make me shame one kind cheesy.

cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin grin grin grin grin lefulefu lemme oooo. I'm having a bad day at work. I no just wan laugh. grin grin grin grin

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by mrpackager(m): 3:37pm On Sep 29, 2020
Tell them ooo
Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by criuze(m): 3:47pm On Sep 29, 2020
it's simple and natural psychology but it is aimed you'll be able to feed your presumed partner

even the roaster uses food to stick the hen

probably we may still cross that, way up evolution

on the other hand if the food is plentiful in Nigeria probably you shouldn't have been complaining, you'll rather complain that she disliked eating your food

Las Las everything na your pocket. if you have feed those girls they can only eat and push population

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by Oturatetuala(m): 3:48pm On Sep 29, 2020
sapphiere:
The kind of drink I'd order, you'd rather prefer I go for food instead. My drinks are expensive.


We know people like you hennessey to wash mouth... Ologogoro cheesy .
Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by Jaqenhghar: 3:54pm On Sep 29, 2020
DZTech:
How can food be the primary focus of a new outing/dating?

How can you get to know someone better when hunger is your main focus?
Times are hard, but life goes on; so, it's high time we used our common sense.
The entitlement mentality must stop.

Ladies, gents - if you're going on a date, eat at home and go out for drinks in a bar.
how many cans of malt can you drink in 2 hours?
las las, 1,500 don cover am.
enough of the nonsense.

What d'you think?
I like me a girl with a healthy appetite so when we are going out to eat I expect her to eat well. Its part of the fun.

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by armyofone(m): 3:55pm On Sep 29, 2020
Everyone pays for their own meals. Ladies should stop depending on a guy to pay for their lunch or dinner. No free meal in life. You work for your keep!
If guy is insistent of paying, allow him but on condition you will pay for next.

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by Jaqenhghar: 3:56pm On Sep 29, 2020
lefulefu:
see bro if food is cheap and affordable in naija e no go dey freak ppl.Imagine common jollof rice u would see nigerians fighting each other in parties and burial ceremonies.Ordinary jollof rice oooo wey no don well and wey dem go put one tiny meat wey be like wetin kwashorkor affect cheesy.na hunger.Some girls how dem dey take get daily meal na wen man take dem out..such situation they will bring along five or seven more of their hungry friends with them cheesy.In a place where food is plentiful and cheap food will be the least of our issues wen it comes to dating cheesy.Wen i see grownup adults fighting over food d tin dey make me shame one kind cheesy.
Lefulefu. Rushing food is our identity. If you go any wedding where Niggerians are weda na US or China, dem must rush food. You will see 2nd and even 3rd generation Nigerians when never near Naija dey rush food.

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by HantaVirus(m): 3:56pm On Sep 29, 2020
Must a date be about food? When I was in the states, all the dates I went to were adventurous ones... Kayaking ,hiking ,sight seeing at art galleries and grocery shopping etc

In the UK, the last date I went to, we
watched the talking heads monologues at the bridge theatre . .But here in naija, it's all about fast foods and restaurants..

Smh

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by shamsin6300(m): 3:57pm On Sep 29, 2020
Sarita01:

Lol,haba na no be like so,me and the guy just finish dey talk abt naija gals for one post not too long ago.and anytime way Dem dey bash gals,him must comment ,na him me want kw why,I no get ulterior motive

U seems very Intelligent
Ask me why?
Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by Ladycewhy(f): 4:01pm On Sep 29, 2020
Let's just say I have trust issue to go on a date with an empty stomach and with no money to pay for my own food and transportation.

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by freeborn02: 4:05pm On Sep 29, 2020
Ladycewhy:
Let's just say I have trust issue to go on a date with an empty stomach and with no money to pay for my own food and transportation.

It shouldn't just be because of trust issue; it should also be because of dignity and self respect.

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by Nobody: 4:06pm On Sep 29, 2020
Openbusiness:
Date or no date, women love food, they love eating, once you understand this, half of your problems with women is already solved grin If you have cohabited with a woman, you will understand. Dem no dey take food play. To a man, food is just food, food is just a casual thing we do to refresh ourselves. But to a woman, food is life, food is a relationship, food is a culture, it is an art, it is a profession, it is a job, it is a hobby, it is an obsession, it is everything. Women can talk to food grin. How many times do you see women snapping and posting food on social media, with an invisible caption, 'See the love of my life grin
Then why is there a proverb that says "the way to a man's heart is food" abeg we men love food pass.

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by 2cribz: 4:06pm On Sep 29, 2020
U better not eat, if purge hold u. U go hail. Highest carry atm or cash,place order. Yankee style ,no father xmas. Everybody pay for wetin dem chau. everybody answer dia papa name.

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by sweetrace(f): 4:08pm On Sep 29, 2020
DZTech:
How can food be the primary focus of a new outing/dating?

How can you get to know someone better when hunger is your main focus?
Times are hard, but life goes on; so, it's high time we used our common sense.
The entitlement mentality must stop.

Ladies, gents - if you're going on a date, eat at home and go out for drinks in a bar.
how many cans of malt can you drink in 2 hours?
las las, 1,500 don cover am.
enough of the nonsense.

What d'you think?

Stop acting like a total loser. If you invite a lady for drinks, that is what she’ll expect. If you invite her for dinner, then that’s what she’ll expect. You be upfront and state exactly what you’re offering. You’re probably some boring guy on a female bashing trip. Can’t you invite her for a picnic where you make a sandwich and a drink? Basically come with the food you can afford. Or a horse ride on a beach or even a walk on the beach? Unimaginative guys feeling like ladies are trying to grab their non existent money.

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by Frankmore96: 4:09pm On Sep 29, 2020
The way some ladies see Date/Dating is just the way a hungry person sees a jellof rice party.
wanting to finish everything that comes to the table. I was surprised when a certain young lady got hold of another can of malt as Soon as she dropped the empty one. I was like "Haa you never drink malt for past one Month?"
Even the way she was rushing the pepper soup was amazing.
Am not saying it's bad to showcase your consuming ability anywhere, just that you need to apply caution knowing that food wasn't the main
purpose of the invite.
(Write from experience)

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by sweetrace(f): 4:10pm On Sep 29, 2020
HantaVirus:
Must a date be about food? When I was in the states, all the dates I went to were adventurous ones... Kayaking ,hiking ,sight seeing at art galleries and grocery shopping etc

In the UK, the last date I went to, we
watched the talking heads monologues at the bridge theatre . .But here in naija, it's all about fast foods and restaurants..

Smh

Exactly!!

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by Sarita01(f): 4:21pm On Sep 29, 2020
shamsin6300:


U seems very Intelligent
Ask me why?
Why
Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by mrksquare: 4:22pm On Sep 29, 2020
DZTech:
How can food be the primary focus of a new outing/dating?

How can you get to know someone better when hunger is your main focus?
Times are hard, but life goes on; so, it's high time we used our common sense.
The entitlement mentality must stop.

Ladies, gents - if you're going on a date, eat at home and go out for drinks in a bar.
how many cans of malt can you drink in 2 hours?
las las, 1,500 don cover am.
enough of the nonsense.

What d'you think?



your submission is spot on.
Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by Openbusiness: 4:39pm On Sep 29, 2020
SegFault:

Then why is there a proverb that says "the way to a man's heart is food" abeg we men love food pass.
That proverb was just coined by our ancestors to keep their wives and concubines busy in the kitchen, so they will be cooking food customized to their own desire for them to eat, our ancestors were socially smart grin. How many girls have guys got laid through food? Uncountable. Women love food more than men, if u no u no grin

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by baralatie(m): 4:43pm On Sep 29, 2020
OBku4:


How much is your 'expensive'

Personally, I gauge the exposure of whomever I hang out wit.

Take my Rich folks mainly to palmwine/nkwobi joints... Then once in a while, to dinner dates

...I've found out that girls that form & and are a lil exposed but weren't brought up in money tend to go 4 most costly... and trust me, I luv embarrassing them wink

her drink na that #3 million champagne bottle
Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by Munzy14(m): 4:43pm On Sep 29, 2020
Kekereekun123:
Who still does dates in 2020 First date these days na hot sex

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by Munzy14(m): 4:45pm On Sep 29, 2020
Erojepromise:
e be like say one girl don show you pepper ntorr
The ntorr iz epic...

Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by baralatie(m): 4:46pm On Sep 29, 2020
lielbree:


If you can't afford to buy food and drink for your date, stop asking people out!

Anyone who ask out pays, be it man or woman.

Allow the lady ask u out. Simple!
ehn!
grin
na there the guy go old o!

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by shamsin6300(m): 4:46pm On Sep 29, 2020
Sarita01:

Why

Pay me first hunger wan tear my waist grin
Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by Ladycewhy(f): 4:46pm On Sep 29, 2020
freeborn02:


It shouldn't just be because of trust issue; it should also be because of dignity and self respect.
I guess so. But how people go out without emergency fund and basing the pocket of another person to be able to fill your stomach is carelessness to me.

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by jornwhite: 4:49pm On Sep 29, 2020
pocohantas:
Whether she eats before going on a date is totally her business. I used “she” because we know the gender on this table. The main thing is, do not forget what it is, a DATE, not the last supper. It should be for two people to know themselves. Don’t go there and order your future. Come seal am with takeaway.

Are you that hungry?

I don’t know why Nigerian dates are always all about food. Not like they even go to classy restaurants. Mtcheew, small children them. angry



i would av bin surpised how someone who knows date is not about food could conclude it about venue, buh naa miumiu grin must we sit in a five star hotel restaurants to know each other well, i alway say it you are just an overhype here, those places you go n consider classy are regulars to some gurls not even up to your age ... you might as well be part of those small children dem grin me tew don't bother asking.

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Re: Everyone, Eat Before Your Date! Haba! by Munzy14(m): 4:50pm On Sep 29, 2020
Ategberoson:
this thread is for those that take ladies to eatery and fast food on a date, you take her to eatery for a date, what were you expecting?


as for me, I don't have a date outside of my house, if you can't visit me in my house then stay in your house
guy man... cheesy

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