fati2001:

what you offer is what you get, and how you set your basic statics .

You never answer my question o

Wow!

Had to read through, and I actually agree with you.

When females say they have a male "bestie" I really wonder what they mean by that.

When females go to visit a male "friend" at night or pass the night in his place in ONE ROOM, I get confused when they say they weren't expecting the guy to make a move on them.

As a medic, I've come across rape cases. Most times, it's the female visiting a supposed male friend ALONE in the evening. Someone has even traveled to another town to meet a male Facebook "friend" and was raped.

Myself too, I'm not immune. That's why I don't discuss with females behind closed doors, just two of us. Anything can happen.

Ladies need to understand that a man will get sexually aroused when you keep hanging around him for a while, with no clearly defined boundaries. Even those with boundaries and principles may fail

xynerise:


You never answer my question o

why should I do so are we dating ?
my answers might not be ur answers, ur like might not be as same.
the only thing find someone with positive goals, if you see say the person dy bend for life... you quit quickly.

fati2001:

why should I do so are we dating ?
my answers might not be ur answers, ur like might not be as same.
the only thing find someone with positive goals, if you see say the person dy bend for life... you quit quickly.

Though I am not interested in knowing what you have to offer. I just want you to answer yourself that question. The fact remains that if you have nothing to offer and the guy does more of the offering, please, don't deny him what he benefits from you. If you can't offer him that,then you are not ready to be in a relationship. Just park well.

Men are not robots, they want something too. Sex or something else in place of sex. You make your choice

@Xynerise
Sometimes u should not engage ursef in arguement with that 2001 girl child.She's always talking nonsense,and I wish she's close by,lehmi knock her head one day,she's too childish and I hate when people talk to her.

xynerise:

Though I am not interested in knowing what you have to offer. I just want you to answer yourself that question. The fact remains that if you have nothing to offer and the guy does more of the offering, please, don't deny him what he benefits from you. If you can't offer him that,then you are not ready to be in a relationship. Just park well.

Men are not robots, they want something too. Sex or something else in place of sex. You make your choice

then he should date a prostitute.... I can't open my legs for a stupid man not husband for the sake of offering me money (what is he talking me for? a hoe because you have money) pls move to the next bus stop....
that's why they said "average ninezeria men don't have anything to collect apart from sex in relationships " a stable man will ask him self those questions.
1, is she worthy
2, why do she only show gratitudes in a similar way (opening of her legs)
3, what value have she offer to my life.
so many...... I can't say, everyone with his /er choice.
but some go sit-down gidibaaa! because of sex... later open their fuckin Negro wide mouth screaming "she has nothing to offer apart from sex "
WHAT A 21 CABBAGE!!!!
and GOD forbid me depending on man money (when I got hands and legs).
and me as a man can't demand for sex because I give a girl a cheap cent or she asked for favour.

[quote author=fati2001 post=94252858]
then he should date a prostitute....

You are indeed a wife material

coming from an adult baby with rotten dead brain.... @Mandela27 pls stop disgracing that honorable name (RIP).
did I begged anyone for a conversation?
you quote me I quote U back no offence.
some adult forgo their senses in their mothers womb or their umbilical cord was cut off mistakenly or the brain box is not positioned properly.. I WONDER! .. no wonder some adults don't get respect for the younger one's because of their abnormal maturity, the way they live, instead of showing the youths the truth... but you guys will be leading them to destructions.
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pls stay in ur limits that's all I got to say.
someone hating on himself.... talk it easy guy before you will be consume by depression and anxiety =loading to suicide.
don't worry attentions are coming to ur way.

[quote author=shamsin6300 post=94252966][/quote]
good morning.
yesterday ,my battery was dead... I saw ur message this morning.

fati2001:

good morning.
yesterday ,my battery was dead... I saw ur message.

Eya
Maybe we can continue leta wen u are free or possibly now.

Pass me that juice let me sip a bit

shamsin6300:


Eya Maybe we can continue leta wen u are free or possibly now.
Pass me that juice let me sip a bit

oya take.

fati2001:

then he should date a prostitute.... I can't open my legs for a stupid man not husband for the sake of offering me money (what is he talking me for? a hoe because you have money) pls move to the next bus stop....
that's why they said "average ninezeria men don't have anything to collect apart from sex in relationships " a stable man will ask him self those questions.
1, is she worthy
2, why do she only show gratitudes in a similar way (opening of her legs)
3, what value have she offer to my life.
so many...... I can't say, everyone with his /er choice.
and GOD forbid me depending on man money (when I got hands and legs).
and me as a man can't demand for sex because I give a girl a cheap cent or she asked for favour.

Well said @bolded.

fati2001:
nah only you i dy see for here.

That's because you gat eyes only for me hun

Relationship without sex is like tea without sugar. Sip it or leave it. Its not by force

Stephenmoka4:
Well said @bolded.

SERIOUSLY ? *clap *

UyaiIncomparabl:


I am not in any romantic affair, that's why keeping my virginity has been easy for me. And I endorse the motion.

Sometimes people mistake virginity for no sexual penetration. But do know once that hymen is opened either using hands to finger it or engage in other non sexual penetration by the opposite sex organ, one can't term herself a true virgin.

Some that always claim to be virgins are not actual true virgins. If u use dildõ or any other form of penetration, you can't term yourself a pure virgin.

Maybe a second class virgin then I will agree.

Vyzz:




That's because you gat eyes only for me hun

*close eye * *walking out *

fati2001:

oya take.

Lolx
I no want again

fati2001:

then he should date a prostitute.... I can't open my legs for a stupid man not husband for the sake of offering me money (what is he talking me for? a hoe because you have money) pls move to the next bus stop....
that's why they said "average ninezeria men don't have anything to collect apart from sex in relationships " a stable man will ask him self those questions.
1, is she worthy
2, why do she only show gratitudes in a similar way (opening of her legs)
3, what value have she offer to my life.
so many...... I can't say, everyone with his /er choice.
but some go sit-down gidibaaa! because of sex... later open their fuckin Negro wide mouth screaming "she has nothing to offer apart from sex "
WHAT A 21 CABBAGE!!!!
and GOD forbid me depending on man money (when I got hands and legs).
and me as a man can't demand for sex because I give a girl a cheap cent or she asked for favour.

An average Nigerian man has nothing to collect but sex?

Erm....I am lost here

Maybe because that is what an average woman has to offer

A reminder:

God's word doesn't change. And, for those who believe in Him, take heed, lest ye fall.


Shalom!!

xynerise:

You never answer my question o

That girl is a kid, stop engaging her.

Lol

true talk op

xynerise:

An average Nigerian man has nothing to collect but sex?
Erm....I am lost here
Maybe because that is what an average woman has to offer

find urself.

God knows I can't be in a no sex relationship.
I'll just friendzone the person.

and more mature than some wrack ass humans parading in the name of adult... decreasing adulthood.

Mandela27:
@Xynerise
Sometimes u should not engage ursef in arguement with that 2001 girl child.She's always talking nonsense,and I wish she's close by,lehmi knock her head one day,she's too childish and I hate when people talk to her.

Noted

If you don't want sex...don't go to his house

Iceyjayz:
That girl is a kid, stop engaging her.

Touché

ShakurMY:
A friend of mine told me last week that his relationship of 5years with his babe no sex, i was like wtf!!! I just dey pity him for my mind. I no trust babe reach that one. Hin go shock him on wedding night when he realize she is not a virgin.

I dey that WhatsApp group before.

Abeg any girl that says no sex before marriage you guys should block her asap cos even some of our parents tasted the soup (kpekus) before approving of it, most stable marriages today involved sex before the main thing it's not sin in anyway this thing has stage by stage

Stage 1 character assessment

Once he/ she passes this stage and you're okay with her character especially if it's something you can live with on the long run you can proceed to stage

stage 2 friendship

Friendship plays a big role in marraige, it doesn't end in love you to the moon and back because love is like a flame that you have to keep burning, just like passion it'll burn out one day and you guys will be living like roommates, always make sure you at least marry someone you are good friends with, although friendship can be formed during the course of marriage but just know that friendship is very important because if the flame of love stops burning friendship will keep it going forever, remember no one understands each other better than friends do


stage 3 family background/history

This part is very important cos majority of people skip this part it involves things like religious background of the family, how the family treats you (important), if you can relate with these people on the long run and if they will accept your intentions, it doesn't have to be on the D day like in our stupid Nigerian movies that you will introduce your wife or husband, the intending partner has to use style and befriend them if he's serious and the family will give him thier blessing


stage 4 sexual compatibility

This stage too is very important which is what brought about this talk, you guys have to be sexually compatible or at least comfortable so the other half doesn't go seeking for the better things, always make sure you compliment each other in bed before delving into marriage, it will even be better if both of you are virgin (hopefully she's honest) most virgins especially ones who are committed to thier marriages will never go outside seeking for gratification especially when a picture of blood on thier bedsheet comes to thier mind, same with the guy if he's responsible enough




This is my little formula for a successful marriage for peope finding it difficult ... remember to always taste the kpekus first cos that is important and will guarantee you that marriage the girl or guy is looking for, also guys should make sure they are sexually healthy so they won't frustrate someone's daughter in long term, thanks