Blackteeth:

  I told them they havent seen me yet so why should they be in love with me? Their reply was usually ''I don't care how you look". Those this make sense?  So can a lady fall in love with a guy without setting his eyes on him?

Orikinla:

Hello Dumb, Dumber and Dumbest! Only a dumbass will fall in love with a guy she has not met before. What majorities of the babes mistake for FALLING IN LOVE is nothing but FALLING IN LUST. One member of Nairaland was already moaning and ejecting from my phone calls before we met. "Oh, you have made me wet my underwear, " she claimed during our romantic phone chats. She swore that she was in love and we made love for hours the first time we met. But when I did not give her the money for a laptop, she showed me her true colours. The other one was an American military officer who saw my picture on MySpace and swore that she was in love after several phone calls and listening to me singing love songs to her on the phone and soon claimed to have multiple heavenly feelings from our ordinary phone intimacy. When I did not join her in the US, she was weeping on the phone. Only sick girls and women will fall in love with men they have never met or examined. It takes time to really and truly fall in love with someone. The so called "Love at first sight" is actually lust at first sight.

livedit:

Anything is possible.  But quite frankly, I believe someone can fall "in-like" not "in-love".  I believe these "girls" fell "in-love" with the "ideal" guy they think this person is over the phone.  Looks may not actually matter to everyone, but I still feel, they are working off of their "emotions" rather than what's really in their soul and hearts.  Because as someone mentioned earlier, you can chat, text, IM, even do webcam and think the world of this person and feel you two have this great imaginerable "chemistry" and then when you actually meet in person, either you or him or both like what the bleep?  What was I thinking? So many people can develop that false sense of security with the person on the other line that's when their mind  "tricks" them to believe that they have met the man/woman of their dreams.  But when in actuality, you don't know this person from Adam.  So you have to be careful whom you talking to and investing all your emotions in, you never know who you are actually believing in.  God blessed us all with common sense and his spirit to lead us if we listen.