bob55dave:

Hmmmm, I don't know how to say this, but I will just try, I want to know people opinion on it. I want to know if am at fault, or taking it too serious or am doing anything wrong.

Firstly, I like to state that am not a play boy at all. Am the kind of guy that likes to be with one woman and build and good relationship with her that can possibilly lead to something. What am saying is that when am in a relationship I take it serious. If am single fine, I believe I am free too do whatever with as much girls as possible.

Last year I broke up with my ex and its wasn't a good experience at all, I mean d way it all ended, I was in my final year then she was in her 3rd year. The break up affected me alot not only because I love her but because of the things that happened and d way it happened. I caught red handed with the guy that I have always been suspecting her with, that she has always denie ever having anything to do with. What even made me angry more was that she was the one on top of the guy. It broke my heart. It took me months to get my self back together. Cos I was already planning a life with this girl.
Fast forward to this year
Currently am dating a girl, its been just a month now but am already seeing signs. I have discuss it with her several times but she always change and makes it look as if its my fault. she gets and takes calls always with different guys. And they will be calling her baby. And sending her love message. If I ask, she will say he just a friend. Same thing my ex always say.
She says all her friends are guys and try to make me feel bad for suspecting her.


She time will have this conversation. She changes things and start making look like my fault. But me on the other hand. I know what I have experience. My ex used to swear that she has nothing to do with that guys until I caught her.


Right now guys I don't know what to do about this my current girl. I don't know weather she try to play games or what? what do you guys think? How do I go about this? I do not want to waste my time?

bob55dave:

Hmmmm, I don't know how to say this, but I will just try, I want to know people opinion on it. I want to know if am at fault, or taking it too serious or am doing anything wrong.

Firstly, I like to state that am not a play boy at all. Am the kind of guy that likes to be with one woman and build and good relationship with her that can possibilly lead to something. What am saying is that when am in a relationship I take it serious. If am single fine, I believe I am free too do whatever with as much girls as possible.

Last year I broke up with my ex and its wasn't a good experience at all, I mean d way it all ended, I was in my final year then she was in her 3rd year. The break up affected me alot not only because I love her but because of the things that happened and d way it happened. I caught red handed with the guy that I have always been suspecting her with, that she has always denie ever having anything to do with. What even made me angry more was that she was the one on top of the guy. It broke my heart. It took me months to get my self back together. Cos I was already planning a life with this girl.
Fast forward to this year
Currently am dating a girl, its been just a month now but am already seeing signs. I have discuss it with her several times but she always change and makes it look as if its my fault. she gets and takes calls always with different guys. And they will be calling her baby. And sending her love message. If I ask, she will say he just a friend. Same thing my ex always say.
She says all her friends are guys and try to make me feel bad for suspecting her.


She time will have this conversation. She changes things and start making look like my fault. But me on the other hand. I know what I have experience. My ex used to swear that she has nothing to do with that guys until I caught her.


Right now guys I don't know what to do about this my current girl. I don't know weather she try to play games or what? what do you guys think? How do I go about this? I do not want to waste my time?

Zzor:
Ain't you too young for all these,you better don't loose focus all because of your erection

dorin27:
sorry but the bolded part got me laughing.

Zzor:
Ain't you too young for all these,you better don't loose focus all because of your erection

Sonnobax15:
what's funny there ?

dorin27:
read it once more.

Dpsychologist:
For a start your instincts are most times 95% correct.
How is your relationship like with this girls cos it seems like you are weak

Sonnobax15:
she was the one smashing the guy....na wetin pain am pass be that ?

NawtiKingRealer:
Your remote buttons are SIMPly blues, thats why she press it at will. Oga, change that remote to bloooody red she go sit up and respect your command anytime you press it by yasef. Girls no dey give simpers better attention o.

dorin27:
You dey ask me?

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

Is not trust issues you have, the problem is you are dating the wrong persons.

Just skip those kind of girls or don't even take them serious.

And lastly avoid being played, like be in charge tell her if she can't stop all those attitude of hers you are done.

You are in a relationship for God sake not an irate relationship Sir

Be a half redpiller to spice up

Sonnobax15:
ehen ?.....na why you dey laugh be dat ?

dorin27:
wetin concern you with wetin make me dey laugh?

Sonnobax15:
op dey complain of him wife wey dey pump another guy tyre,you Cor dey laugh am join

dorin27:
I no laugh am. na wetin him talk make me dey laugh

dorin27:
I no laugh am. na wetin him talk make me dey laugh

bob55dave:


My brother, I do follow nairaland very well, o know about ubanja red pills and those simps stuffs. But trying to be careful. That's all. I love her tho but I don't really care, if its not real and true no need.

bob55dave:




You know, that's what I actually had in mind, not to take it serious at all, I just wanted to know if I was taking the right step and not making another wrong move.
Thanks