mj31:
I dont thinks guys get emotional attached to the girl that took their virginity... but as for the second one using my self as an example yes i do get emotional about girl who is a virgin or who i took her virginity...

mj31:
I dont thinks guys get emotional attached to the girl that took their virginity... but as for the second one using my self as an example yes i do get emotional about girl who is a virgin or who i took her virginity...

Kondomatic:
Taking a girl's virginity is one thing that I will never ever do.

Zzor:
Why? please explain

Zzor:
Do guys get attached emotionally or in any other way after loosing their virginity? Or do guys get emotionally attached to girls whose virginity they take? The rest of you should answer me please, also does the lady who took your virginity have any strong grip over you till now ( like kind of make you do things you will be stubborn about ordinarily,vulnerable and succumb easily to her requests) ? Don't insult or abuse anyone here please

pansophist:
No men don't. Men stay because she is a beautiful woman not because she is his first, or he is her first. By default, men cum and go. But you want him to stay, then more is needed.

Regex:


Virginity can not and will not control a man. Whether it's his or the woman. To get a grip on a man, take his money. Not sex, not even being wife material as Pansophist said. Just his money. Get him to invest in you.

Dasol.

Zzor:
Meaning you didn't get attached to the lady you had your first sex with and also no emotional attachment whatsoever with the lady whose virginity you took? or are you trying to form redpill? Or most men generally don't get attached?

virginprincess:
Zzor, nairaland men usually says there is nothing like virginity for men, so why do you possibly think they would answer this question.

pansophist:


Madam bia here, take ya time.

Why the personalisation? I told you how it is. You don't need my life story to support it. So if you want to pin a good man, have good behaviors. Don't you see how men will flex with hot city babes but go to the village to pick a wife? A good woman is better than a good sex. Understand that.

Oya, repent, ask for forgiveness and beg your man to come down from that roof you've pushed him to

Zzor:
You men hates owning up, just tell me the effect it has on you back then and the little it still has on you now, i understand you are now a hardcore redpill member ,just tell me everything.

Zzor:
Most men will tag that gold digging, I'm more interested in the effect the topic has on men

pansophist:


But seriously, it has no effect on men. You see why I told you to stop being a feminist ? Men and women are not same. Ok, I'll support this with a generally agreed fact in the scientific community.

During sex, women release oxytocin (generally known as the bonding chemical), mind you, men do not release oxytocin, but dopamine (also known as pleasure hormone). So women fall in love with sex and bond more, but for men, its nothing more than pleasure. Men do not love women because of sex, but how she made him feel, and if she is a good woman.

This is why premarital and reckless sex is bad for women. The more sex a woman have with numerous, the harder it is to bond with one man, and her sexual elasticity breaks off. Remember the biblical story when God instructed moses to kill off all the males and women, but only spare children and virgin women"? Yes, there is your biblical answer.

It is an historically acceptable truth that sex bond with women, so a captured virgin women after having sex with a warrior, will easily identify with the tribe if she gives birth.

Regex:


Thank you. She wants to convince herself men feel the same way after sex (first sex). Nah we move to another and try to conquer.


Men release oxytocin when spending. Psychologist should go investigate the spending feeling.

Zzor:
I don't take them serious on that, you know how they like forming hard online, just want to know some secrets

pansophist:


But seriously, it has no effect on men. You see why I told you to stop being a feminist ? Men and women are not same. Ok, I'll support this with a generally agreed fact in the scientific community.

During sex, women release oxytocin (generally known as the bonding chemical), mind you, men do not release oxytocin, but dopamine (also known as pleasure hormone). So women fall in love with sex and bond more, but for men, its nothing more than pleasure. Men do not love women because of sex, but how she made him feel, and if she is a good woman.

So if a man promising you heaven and love just to have a taste of your honeypot, na lie, he is just h.orny lol for women, you know its not the same.

This is why premarital and reckless sex is bad for women. The more sex a woman have with numerous men, the harder it is to bond with one man, and her sexual elasticity breaks off. Remember the biblical story when God instructed moses to kill off all the males and women, but only spare children and virgin women"? (Numbers 31:17-18). Yes, there is your biblical answer.

It is an historically acceptable truth that sex bond with women, so a captured virgin women after having sex with a warrior, will easily identify with the tribe if she gives birth. If men tell you to close your leg, you will say its oppression. You don see am?

Regex:


Thank you. She wants to convince herself men feel the same way after sex (first sex). Nah we move to another and try to conquer.


Men release oxytocin when spending. Psychologist should go investigate the spending feeling.

virginprincess:
Ok o, let see the answers they will give.

pansophist:


Abi o. The more I dig deep trying to understand gender dynamic, I keep seeing evidences that truly, we are nothing but a pencil in the hand of the creator.

Look at it this way. Female hypergamous instinct is even hardwired in their biology, hence, they bond with the strongest man they can find. As we all know, women are quality-oriented. They mate above dominant hierarchy, not below. This also suggest why polygamy has always existed and not the opposite. The women sexually bonds with their husband, but for the men, its all fun. Just negodu Ned Nwoko. As far Regina no turn feminist tomorrow, Ned will perform his husband duty. Just be a good woman, that's all.

This is why sex is important for men in relationships, because he is biologically wired for pleasure, and will keep hustling to retain that pleasure in his otherwise disposable life. So when a man is not given brain shattering sex, he is more likely to cheat, leave, or just go go fulltime soapy mode.

Zzor:
Most are saying it has no effect on them, i think ladies should really be very careful with this men, you can compare the way they beg for sex and their reactions here smh

Zzor:
Most are saying it has no effect on them, i think ladies should really be very careful with this men, you can compare the way they beg for sex and their reactions here smh

Zzor:
Most are saying it has no effect on them, i think ladies should really be very careful with this men, you can compare the way they beg for sex and their reactions here smh

Regex:


Zzor, I want you to understand something. Having sex for a man is the same thing as women receiving monetary valued gift from men.

Reason this with honesty within you. Assume we have met and for some reason known to you, it turns out you don't like me. But I keep forcing you to take gifts from me, with the hope that one day you will like me. Now let's ignore [i]"me forcing my gifts on you with the hope you like me" [/i]and focus on you actually receiving those gifts from me.
Will my gifts make you stay against your wish when you meet someone who fits the kind of man you have in your head?

Whatever you answer is how men view their first sex, and sex in general.