People often have this notion that what makes relationships thrive is always spending time together. Every day we see lovestruck duos on social media who travel, eat, and go on exotic adventures hand in hand. They’re all beautiful, but unfortunately, many couples today live miles apart and cannot share in similar activities.

Another common obstacle to picture-perfect moments such as these is time itself.

Your partner’s full schedule doesn’t mean they don’t love you. Keep the romance flowing with understanding. Here’s the secret to dating a busy partner.

Millennials in particular, thrive on full schedules. They chase careers, build businesses, and transfer to new locations on a whim. If you’re one of those people in a relationship with a perpetually busy person, it’s natural to feel left out. These emotions are totally normal, particularly for individuals who crave a lot of togetherness and physical intimacy .
So what do you do when your partner asks for a night with the boys? Or what if she cancels your dinner date because of an unscheduled board meeting? Or probably can’t take your call when you really want to talk to them.

The first thing you need to remember is to NOT let your time go to waste—use it wisely by living the full life you want, too!
Here are several suggestions.

=> Knowing His Schedule

Find out your partner’s schedule. This will let you know when he is truly free and when he needs to be left alone to get on with things.What days and times does he attend school, travel for work or have off-site work related events? When does he have sporting practice, when does he pursue his hobbies or interests? When is he at work? Most of these times are “off limits” for bothering him
Find out when his schedule can accommodate your calls or presence. This isn’t just about guesswork; use your common sense, as well as asking him directly about when he doesn’t like to be bothered.Think of reasonable times when he’ll be most likely to answer your call. If he has to get up early in the morning, call him early in the night before he goes to sleep instead of holding him up first thing.Ask him if he has any down time at work/school/college or when he’s doing things that he doesn’t mind you calling or turning up to say hello. Maybe he is free for lunch once a week, or maybe he likes to hear from you at 4pm in the afternoon. But don’t presume; actually ask him for his preferences
Avoid prying. When asking him about his schedule, let him know that it’s so that you know when not to bother him. However, if he doesn’t want to tell you what he’s doing every second of the day, avoid an inquisition. He is entitled to some free time without you having to know about it! (Equally, so are you.)

=> Meet-up with friends.


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https://loverealities.com/dating-a-busy-partner/

op I love you for this.

solution is for you to get busy too

loverealities:
People often have this notion that what makes relationships thrive is always spending time together. Every day we see lovestruck duos on social media who travel, eat, and go on exotic adventures hand in hand. They’re all beautiful, but unfortunately, many couples today live miles apart and cannot share in similar activities.

Another common obstacle to picture-perfect moments such as these is time itself.

Your partner’s full schedule doesn’t mean they don’t love you. Keep the romance flowing with understanding. Here’s the secret to dating a busy partner.

Millennials in particular, thrive on full schedules. They chase careers, build businesses, and transfer to new locations on a whim. If you’re one of those people in a relationship with a perpetually busy person, it’s natural to feel left out. These emotions are totally normal, particularly for individuals who crave a lot of togetherness and physical intimacy .
So what do you do when your partner asks for a night with the boys? Or what if she cancels your dinner date because of an unscheduled board meeting? Or probably can’t take your call when you really want to talk to them.

The first thing you need to remember is to NOT let your time go to waste—use it wisely by living the full life you want, too!
Here are several suggestions.

=> Knowing His Schedule

Find out your partner’s schedule. This will let you know when he is truly free and when he needs to be left alone to get on with things.What days and times does he attend school, travel for work or have off-site work related events? When does he have sporting practice, when does he pursue his hobbies or interests? When is he at work? Most of these times are “off limits” for bothering him
Find out when his schedule can accommodate your calls or presence. This isn’t just about guesswork; use your common sense, as well as asking him directly about when he doesn’t like to be bothered.Think of reasonable times when he’ll be most likely to answer your call. If he has to get up early in the morning, call him early in the night before he goes to sleep instead of holding him up first thing.Ask him if he has any down time at work/school/college or when he’s doing things that he doesn’t mind you calling or turning up to say hello. Maybe he is free for lunch once a week, or maybe he likes to hear from you at 4pm in the afternoon. But don’t presume; actually ask him for his preferences
Avoid prying. When asking him about his schedule, let him know that it’s so that you know when not to bother him. However, if he doesn’t want to tell you what he’s doing every second of the day, avoid an inquisition. He is entitled to some free time without you having to know about it! (Equally, so are you.)

=> Meet-up with friends.


Visit my blog to continue reading...

https://loverealities.com/dating-a-busy-partner/

Nice one, she needs to see this. I try but can't just give her all the attention/time she craves.

If you have all the time in this world but your partner doesn't, please show alot of understanding.

Get busy your self you won't notice

BabbanBura:


Nice one, she needs to see this. I try but can't just give her all the attention/time she craves.

If you have all the time in this world but your partner doesn't, please show alot of understanding.

My ex was always thinking I don't love her

Seriously girls make una try to dey understand abeg.