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Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by 190: 4:11am On Mar 03, 2011 |
ogugua missed the basic Points here Non Virgins on nairaland keep attacking the ones that are virgins Simple ![]() ![]() ( we men have nothing 2 do with it, ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by sweetguy10(m): 4:13am On Mar 03, 2011 |
190: Abi oooo , she intentionally dragged men into it . E consign us ? abi na we send them ni ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by Nobody: 4:14am On Mar 03, 2011 |
sweetguy10: Fine, most wouldn't want to marry such a girl, but they'll have no qualms about contributing. Some women are not satisfied, non-virgin or virgin. Blame women for male incompetency too lol. That becomes a communication issue in most cases, not necessarily an issue of her being used. 190: Prove it. Don't make me find all the posts and threads I've just mentioned to silence you. It concerns you because you started the topic and neither of you can prove a thing. |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by 190: 4:16am On Mar 03, 2011 |
sweetguy10: Abi, e nor concern us ![]() ![]() Prove it. Don't make me find all the posts and threads I've just mentioned to silence you. Each time i look at you >> I become weak and speechless Im weak again!! why do you keep doing that 2 me!! ![]() ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by 190: 4:19am On Mar 03, 2011 |
ogugua88: Ogugua Well You are saying men should be blamed for making the women loose dem virginity rite the OP is saying non virgins attack the virgins cos of jealousy so what we dragging for, im not prepared 2 loose my 2nd wife to argument!! I rather step down and allow u please yourself so you can cook some good soup for me!! ![]() ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by Nobody: 4:21am On Mar 03, 2011 |
hmmmm. brb ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by 190: 4:22am On Mar 03, 2011 |
MzD@rkSkin: Coughs **shes here** |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by sweetguy10(m): 4:23am On Mar 03, 2011 |
ogugua88: I can't bring them up at the moment but I can Vividly remember the thread about Virgin ladies in Nigeria that were given some awards . Most ladies that contributed to the thread did not write something constructive , you can tell that most of their posts were filled with Venom and bitterness and they quickly E-attack most men that commended the award giving . Another example is a thread at the moment on the romance section where the guy asked if dis-flowering a lady will make one love her the more , Instead of answering the question some were busy pin pointing the guy's grammatical error (shows that they are embittered or does it not ?) |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by sweetguy10(m): 4:24am On Mar 03, 2011 |
190: Abi ooo , na to dey enjoy in the already used booty ja re ![]() ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by 190: 4:28am On Mar 03, 2011 |
I have even seen a post where a lady said she wants to loose her virginity and 838,378394 of nairaland women cheered her on to loosing it ![]() ![]() ( Ive lied again ) |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by Nobody: 4:35am On Mar 03, 2011 |
190 I have soup on the stove. One from yesterday. Another from today. Neither are for you. Free me. sweetguy10: 1) Grammatical errors are funny, but should be corrected nonetheless. If you see a fool and don't tell him he's foolish, he'll remain a fool. 2) Are you seriously wondering why a non-virgin female would become embittered at the word "virgin"? Sorry but I'll have to excuse that behaviour given that several NL men make non-virgin women feel worthless. I see some of them being bitter but it doesn't bother me. Imagine if ALL non-virgins behaved bitter based on how men make lewd comments by the minute. Do notice how you have a problem with some women being bitter about the word "virgin". That's why I said this "virginity syndrome" is for men. Men are the ones discussing it, day in, day out, yet you, a man, have an issue with a few women being embittered. I watched this documentary in my Cultural Anthropology class last week called "Tough Guise". If there was an NL class, I would show it to you too because I see the tough guise and masculinity-front on NL, too. |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by Nobody: 4:36am On Mar 03, 2011 |
sweetguy10 (m) Smh! OxyMORON ![]() ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by sweetguy10(m): 4:40am On Mar 03, 2011 |
MzD@rkSkin: Lol , not what you think . I meant the Fabled Cockaigne in greek folk lore where whatever one wants comes true |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by sweetguy10(m): 4:49am On Mar 03, 2011 |
ogugua88: Well haven't you known it's men's world ? well i'm not in the class of people that crucifies non virgins or make them feel like shit . In fact i've an elder sister and I'm sure she's not a virgin but it still does not change my opinion about they trying to vent unwarranted venom whenever they come across the V word . This time we're in now , men don't really care about if the lady is a virgin or not but the thing should still be a little tight ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by Nobody: 4:50am On Mar 03, 2011 |
lol whew! I was going to say. . . ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by sweetguy10(m): 4:54am On Mar 03, 2011 |
MzD@rkSkin: Lol , you were going to say what ? the white powder ? |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by Nobody: 5:18am On Mar 03, 2011 |
sweetguy10: Firstly, "a man's world". Secondly, it's not a man's world, considering you and your kind are not capable of giving birth. It's not a woman's world either considering we are not capable of impregnating ourselves. The sooner everyone understands this elementary concept, the better. Thirdly, I wasn't singling you sha. Women didn't lose their virginity one day and then vex with virgins. If you hold meat for lion front, at some point e go comot your hand. A lot of non-virgins have no problem being virgins. They simply can't disclose this information because they'll be insulted. I called Advocator out the other day because he labeled non-virgins as promiscuous harlots. Non-virgins are disrespected on this site on a daily basis by what appears like a majority of the men posting on this romance forum. I'm only understanding where they're coming from. Thank you for admitting the red. I think the reason why you haven't had much response to this thread apart from the viewers and myself is because people are not connecting with this thread. I really don't feel this issue is prominent. If I posted, with the same title, why men are obsessed with virgins, the outcome would be different; probably filled with rude comments as well. I'm not a hypocrite. I wouldn't say or see something and then deny saying or seeing it. I'm telling you, I've never seen women descend on other womens due to virginity. |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by Nobody: 6:07am On Mar 03, 2011 |
sweetguy10: You said it not me! ![]() ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by Atreides(f): 7:45am On Mar 03, 2011 |
I would have to agree with the OP here. Nobody's outright attacked me or anything,but sometimes i get this lingering resentment from ladies,like they're mad at me somehow. They sometimes make these snide remarks(not neccessarily to me but other chicks-i've seen it),like i can almost see them turning up their noses cattily in my head. And having people tell you how sweet sex is doesn't really help you remain uninterested. I mean,please. I'm a curious person. You give me enough tidbits about how earth-shattering sex is,i'll get mildly curious ![]() But the guys are just as bad. It's either they choose not to believe you(as if anyone is paying me money to say i haven't been de-virginized),or they make it out(staying a V)to be suuch a Herculean task,saying such sh*it like oh when i meet a smart guy i won't know when he'll hammer me or some such crap,or oh i'm still too young and when i experience life a bit i won't be able to stop myself(which is rather condescending,if you ask me). However i think Nl men are more obsessed with virginity than the women are. And i think that sometimes people attack V's so much-saying things like Virginity isn't dignity,it's lack of opportunity(which is soo friggin' annoying! Like i couldn't get de-virginized right this minute if i wanted ti. Okay not right this minute,maybe by 7 p.m but you get the idea. ![]() When some Non-V's get all defensive and whatnot,it makes me wonder what they're feeling so giuilty about. |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by koolchicco: 8:00am On Mar 03, 2011 |
190: Natural traits of jealousy in women. ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by InkedNerd(f): 8:27am On Mar 03, 2011 |
190: You know sometimes I just don't what to do with you. Each and everyday you give me reason to question what kind of person you really are ![]() sweetguy10: No, you dragged men into this thread--not ogugua88. If the main point of this thread was to discuss the content of this section and the young individuals that visit then why was there such an explicit need to reference women? Majority of the people I see here on Nairaland complaining about virginity are men not women. Yes, I will admit, I am one of those people who talks openly about sex and my sex life but its not just posts from women that discuss sex. A lot of men here seem to have this twisted notion about a woman's "worth" being linked to her virginity. If you truly want to have such a discussion on the nature[b]/[/b]content of the threads then I suggest you call out all participating members--not just women. As ogugua88 has stated, it is hypocritical. As women, we are worth more than just our bodies. When someone speaks of the joys that they've experienced when being intimate at times, there is a backlash--especially if its a woman!! There's no denying that a lot of people are reckless in the manner which they talk about sex on this section. Personally, I would only advise someone to engage in sexual activity if and only they are physically, emotionally, and psychologically able to accept and understand the repercussions of their actions and how it may affect them and others. |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by 190: 9:37am On Mar 03, 2011 |
@Inkerd ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by InkedNerd(f): 9:50am On Mar 03, 2011 |
190: Well, its true. You baffle me at times ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by 190: 9:52am On Mar 03, 2011 |
( Crying profusely and stampin feet on the ground ) |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by InkedNerd(f): 10:06am On Mar 03, 2011 |
190: ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by 190: 10:11am On Mar 03, 2011 |
( Inkerd does it mean our marriage is over ) ![]() ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by InkedNerd(f): 10:13am On Mar 03, 2011 |
190: Over? When did it start? Was there some sort of ceremony that took place that I didn't know about? ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by 190: 10:15am On Mar 03, 2011 |
Inked_Nerd: ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by InkedNerd(f): 10:16am On Mar 03, 2011 |
190: No answer eh? ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by 190: 10:17am On Mar 03, 2011 |
Inked_Nerd: ![]() ![]() |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by Tosinville(m): 10:29am On Mar 03, 2011 |
190 Guy, ppl are willing to see your pic too since 2008, ~haba!! e don tey na no be today~ cos i've starting suspectin maybe you even look like CHIMPAZEE NEPHEW sef. Abeg we need one asap to folks to know who u really are and it doesn't take time just use ur phone camera no need of going to the studio to apply some make-ups to it just to be perfect cos i personally i'll really appreciate even look like a BABOON for u to take a bold step and upload it here u know it isn't easy. |
Re: Nairaland Ladies And The "virgin" Syndrome by 190: 10:31am On Mar 03, 2011 |
So cos reality ran away its my turn now abi~ |
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