no matter how nice people treat you please dont ever take it seriously because it's not real, one day you will wake up and nobody will stare at you anymore..it will just stop and there will be no reason why just age and life. so imagine you through away all the opportunities you had to marry or do tangible things all because people kept admiring you and you kept feeling special only to wake up one day and realise you dont get admiration anymore. please hustle and never take admiration personally because it's not real.

Exactly this is especially for our ladies.

It is only what u achieved that people will remember u for not your looks.

* clapping *

They will never learn

Increase the volume

Keep it up OP

na women need this advise more.imagine a lady calling me on her birthday all because her female friends did not wish her happy birthday and put up her pic on their statuses.i had to talk sense into her for over 45minutes on phone not to be seeking attention and validation from people but instead be thankful for life and forge ahead.i really weak that day and on a serious note most fine ladies have plenty issues and like too much attention.Do you know that she was almost depressed that day.

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na women need this advise more.imagine a lady calling me on her birthday all because her female friends did not wish her happy birthday and put up her pic on their statuses.i had to talk sense into her for over 45minutes on phone not to be seeking attention and validation from people but instead be thankful for life and forge ahead.i really weak that day and on a serious note most fine ladies have plenty issues and like too much attention.Do you know that she was almost depressed that day.

lol she has every right to be worried and alarmed na, to ladies recognising and validating each other comes naturally, they can't cope with episode of not getting attention compared to guys.

Lol @ depressed it was indeed enough to steal her joy and make her wear a long face.