Wel i cant see anyneed 4 housemaid that is why we have our youthful age to plan and time our future. You wil have to creat time 4 everything .your baby should not disturb ur work and viceversa.likewise ur housechores shouldn't disturb ur resting hours just as ur CHM is not disturbing ur GNS and other courses being sitted 4 all within short hours

Career women are really having it rough with house maids. The women in my office keep changing them and complaining. It seems quite difficult for them to find a suitable maid. I for one do wonder how they can leave their child in the hands of a total stranger and go off to work.

male . cos i don't wnt any female house -help sleeping with my husband.

I prefer female cos I don't want a soldier in my house. Males can be tougher to control when they misbehave. The last I will do is sleep with a maid. Disgusting!!!

^^^^not so easy dude. unless u are in the game- (having and keeping potential mistresses and gf at standby- which is nt beans, when u re married the charge u quadruple. ) or u can self service good enuf.

i guess u re nt married. That night wey u go dey touch your wife expecting action, suddenly ogbanje go enter her head she go turn ask u : "jide, remember its next sunday the bishop is coming ooh."



" And i wud need a new bubba. "



of course u wud say :" No problem, i will give u the money." ( thinking say na normal price)

subconsciously u wud then ask: "how much is it again?"

" the Senegalese na 350,000 but i don't like that wan i prefer the Mali one, that one na 380 - 420,000."

no body go tell your body say 12:00  don nacki .

The prob wudnt end there ooh.

For the next 1 - 2 weeks plus (of course u dont hav that kind of money and u wud hav nt given her that much if at all) dey no born u well to place your hand for her body for bed, let alone to open mouth ask, how u wan keep mouth?  : " please love, i humbly and sincerely with kindness need to perform my  matrimonial duty.  .  .  ."  hahahahahaha ,  God help us!

I would rather have a male housemaid than female. Only because no matter how much you trust a man/husband, temptation arises and body no be wood. (especially judging by the earlier replies of some males talking about "polishing my dish when my wife is on disposal", BS)

Anyway, another thing that I will consider are my kids. It would be good if i had kids of one gender. If not, no housemaid what so ever because they can only (intensionally or unitensionally) destroy one's home.

Some people talk by thinking with their legs. D question is diff, d inputs differ too, na wa oo. @ op if yu need a jack n do all in d house, get a male househelp but if yu want to subtitute d tastless food or laziness of ur wife den get a female house help. To watch against ur hubby n wify take a very. Very very Ugly maid or househelp.

@pinkrex, men don't mind sleepin with ugly girls.

the male househelps will vandalise your girls, and the female househelps will seduce your husband. they both have thier disadvantages. i suggest a nanny for you.

Nanny fine, they causes problem if given the chance e.g advising your wife negatively.

ANY WAY FOR I PREFERRED NONE. I WOULD BATH MY CHILDREN AND WASHING THEIR CLOTHS IN ABSENCE OR PRESENCE OF MY WIFE, IF I HAVE TO. NOTE! NO MATTER HOW RICH I AM. BUT HOUSEMAIDS OF NANNY'S TOTALLY NOT SO OKEY.

None really if I have my wish. I hate the idea of a stranger 'taking over' my house especially my KITCHEN.

However if you & hubby work full time where do you keep your kids after school I.e before you return from the office?

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Re: Which Housemaid Would You Prefer? Male Or Female?
« #72 on: March 14, 2011, 11:05 AM »

@pinkrex, men don't mind sleepin with ugly girls.


The fraction will be reduced. Men goes by what they see in most cases you knw.

I wish to have none!