Palema007:
So a friend of Mine posted the above question on his status which i responded to affirmatively. He sent a voice note in response arguing that Most ladies don't. At first i argued profusely, maintaining my stance but along the line I got to see things from his Perspective. One question which threw me off balance was "If you are right Dee, why are ladies always in need of URGENT 2k?" Lol.... While trying to find the right answer to that, another came. Why do Ladies hardly celebrate their Men? , then another : Why are most women dependent? Why do they see relationship as a source of livelihood?. After the long chat I asked myself his initial question , Do women ever consider themselves too broke for a relationship?

"Relationship should be between two people with an agreement to do things MUTUALLY." he said. Everything in a relationship should be reciprocated. Financial expenses in relationship shouldn't be on a person. Relationship becomes sweeter when your partner (the lady precisely) can afford to surprise you, relieve you and be there for you"

Honestly, dude is right. Women hardly ever consider their financial capability before agreeing to date. The average Nigerian lady sees relationship as a Charity home, in her mind all she needs is good face, nice body. She believes she should be taken care of, unfortunately this mentality of hers does more harm to her than good.

Every woman wishes to be treated like Queen but do not know How to be a Queen. When the lady vith no value but with the dreams of a queen gets what she deserves, she starts jumping from pole to pole screaming "Men are Scum" little does she know that she gets what she could offer.

Be a Woman of value and you will never be replaced, Queen attracts Kings!...

What do you think of this?

ePoster:
Except you're proudly a gigolo, sorry that wouldn't work.

Women can get away with "looks for money", men can't.


Few Nigerian women would date a handsome but broke dude.

Most would settle for an ape who's more than financially stable.


You would end up as a fvck mate.


The pretty boy she sneaks away at night to meet.


Not important,


Easily replaced.


Sugar daddies and Gboys would be of more value.


Can your ego take that?

Hassanmaye:

I like Igbo girls die but they will never give me to marry.

Kalatium:

@ bolded

I never knew prick was this cost

vickydevoka:

Bros u knw like them u lyk their beauty. Na infatuation fit de worry u. If u marry some Igbo gal without having money steady income , brother na ur grave u dig no that.
All this Yoruba celebrity like akpororo, shayi law n Elenu way marry Igbo gals get money

jaydeevaa:


I am scared of telling a prospective boyfriend that I work in a bank because they end up doing "beggie beggie"...they also begin to need 2k urgently

Palema007:
Babe, I know you of this opinion because the focus is on ladies...

No problem, I hear you. Love conquers all, even poverty.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
that's for those who have a Virgina to offer. Some do t even have a Virgina for a gift.
However, if you deserve only a Virgina from a babe, you shouldn't be given more cos some men actually don't deserve more than a smelly cunt. Yes, a smelly one.
So saying women naturally believe the o ly thing they should offer a man in a relationship is Virgina is and understatement.
That means those of us who won't thing of a relationship if we can't afford what we need are not women but guys.

Palema007:
So a friend of Mine posted the above question on his status which i responded to affirmatively. He sent a voice note in response arguing that Most ladies don't. At first i argued profusely, maintaining my stance but along the line I got to see things from his Perspective. One question which threw me off balance was "If you are right Dee, why are ladies always in need of URGENT 2k?" Lol.... While trying to find the right answer to that, another came. Why do Ladies hardly celebrate their Men? , then another : Why are most women dependent? Why do they see relationship as a source of livelihood?. After the long chat I asked myself his initial question , Do women ever consider themselves too broke for a relationship?

"Relationship should be between two people with an agreement to do things MUTUALLY." he said. Everything in a relationship should be reciprocated. Financial expenses in relationship shouldn't be on a person. Relationship becomes sweeter when your partner (the lady precisely) can afford to surprise you, relieve you and be there for you"

Honestly, dude is right. Women hardly ever consider their financial capability before agreeing to date. The average Nigerian lady sees relationship as a Charity home, in her mind all she needs is good face, nice body. She believes she should be taken care of, unfortunately this mentality of hers does more harm to her than good.

Every woman wishes to be treated like Queen but do not know How to be a Queen. When the lady vith no value but with the dreams of a queen gets what she deserves, she starts jumping from pole to pole screaming "Men are Scum" little does she know that she gets what she could offer.

Be a Woman of value and you will never be replaced, Queen attracts Kings!...

What do you think of this?

whytediamond:



You see why ladies don't deserve all the attention and care they seek.

They love prick too, just like guys love pvssy too. Why bill me for what we both love?

This shows you how entitled they feel to another man's sweat (wealth).

Imagine Pocohantas leaving a guy because he was smarter than she was. You no want spend on a guy but you want him to stay put as long as he's the one paying the bill.

Girls are something else.

lisa286:



Poverty conquers all things including love, health and sanity

Palema007:
So a friend of Mine posted the above question on his status which i responded to affirmatively. He sent a voice note in response arguing that Most ladies don't. At first i argued profusely, maintaining my stance but along the line I got to see things from his Perspective. One question which threw me off balance was "If you are right Dee, why are ladies always in need of URGENT 2k?" Lol.... While trying to find the right answer to that, another came. Why do Ladies hardly celebrate their Men? , then another : Why are most women dependent? Why do they see relationship as a source of livelihood?. After the long chat I asked myself his initial question , Do women ever consider themselves too broke for a relationship?

"Relationship should be between two people with an agreement to do things MUTUALLY." he said. Everything in a relationship should be reciprocated. Financial expenses in relationship shouldn't be on a person. Relationship becomes sweeter when your partner (the lady precisely) can afford to surprise you, relieve you and be there for you"

Honestly, dude is right. Women hardly ever consider their financial capability before agreeing to date. The average Nigerian lady sees relationship as a Charity home, in her mind all she needs is good face, nice body. She believes she should be taken care of, unfortunately this mentality of hers does more harm to her than good.

Every woman wishes to be treated like Queen but do not know How to be a Queen. When the lady vith no value but with the dreams of a queen gets what she deserves, she starts jumping from pole to pole screaming "Men are Scum" little does she know that she gets what she could offer.

Be a Woman of value and you will never be replaced, Queen attracts Kings!...

What do you think of this?

tosinhtml:


Congrats, you did the right thing. Money directly or Indirectly makes people Lord over you, whether we choose to accept or not.
Even my parents started respecting me when I started earning some money.

proclinician:


It baffles me you can't correctly spell the female reproductive organ. How did you get to this level?

MISSCONGENIALITY:
You don't have respect for womanhood abi?

mariahAngel:
Would a man want to be in a relationship where the lady takes care of all her needs?
How would a man feel when his woman never needs him for anything?
Can a man be comfortable in that kind of relationship?

Mimiey:
So sad the kind of ladies y'all attract.

Lotta women out here grounding for themselves, so many.

Why haven't you found yourself a decent one who believes in being dependent, who works and also sorts the bill whether she is made, hustling or almost there?

There is a diff between a leech and those who are also trying to make ends meet.

Why are u attracting leeches?

GeezBitz:
why should they, are you gonna need urgent 2k three days into the relationship?

proclinician:


I swear shame catch me on your behalf. If you can't spell vagina, then there's a problem. A very very big one. How far madam.

pansophist:

You get sense. You get an independent mind, and not thinking like a photocopied robot lol.

My woman is the most feminine ever. and it is because she thrives in her feminine domain, while I thrive in my masculine. She can work, but it's optional for her. She works to avoid boredom, and to have meaning in life. If she decides not to work till the kingdom comes, she will live perfectly fine in the comfort of my hustle and protection, and she would rather submit to me, than a boss out there that expects her to radiate masculine energy in order to integrate seamlessly in the workplace.

Men hate work, we do it because God, the creator has laid a curse on us that it is our burden to till the ground, while for women, it is giving birth. We both understand this, and carry our burden without the nonsensical doctrines of gender fluidity, switching of roles, or her proving a point by becoming a hustler. Instead, I, the man does that, my body, psyche, and mind are optimized for work, evolution has designed a man that way. I am taller, stronger, with more muscle mass than her, and no business partners will want to sleep with me to give me contracts, or the catcalling and unwanted advances from colleagues as compared to a woman. I can work under pressure, less emotional, and won't deal with cramps, pregnancy, menstruation, etc.

My kids won't be transferred from one nanny to the other like poultry chicken because they mother is at work, but instead, grow and bond healthily in the nurture of their mother who loves them, and their father (me) who will protect and provide for them. The happiness I get when I return home to a happy family, with a smiling wife that is meek and beautiful is priceless. Few females work for me and I just can't help but feel sorry for them, even if they see themselves as ''independent''. How the hell did women fall for this scam? So a woman will contend with the burden of womanhood such as pregnancy, breastfeeding, nurturing, and the body changes that go with it, and still hustle cash to prove that is equal to a man? How about finding a man that loves you, let him be your hero? If she brings cash and I bring cash, how is there a polarity that compliments?

A woman that has unlocked her feminine power will get any man to do anything for her, and no, feminism is an instant turn off to real men, a woman can keep proving how equal she is to a man, but his d!ck won't stand, as simple as that. What is the point of winning the battle, but losing the war? Men want femininity in women, and competition, proving a point and measuring shoulder is not feminine. Femininity is wholesome, it is complete and doesn't have to prove itself. It is the most expensive and delicate energy out there, and I will do everything it takes to make sure my partner retains her, and that comes with providing for her and shielding her from the chaos of the outside world. Happy wife, happy life.

magnoliaa will not like this

LMFAOO. This, tbh, is actually painfully sweet it pierced my heart. ohmagoishh. You mean to tell me I forfeited all these by growing a d+ck when I became a feminist and started a nuclear war to topple the order of the world?? To have a world where women are tillers and coal miners and spread their eggs, while men breastfeed; wipe babies' poop, singing lullabies; maintain a banging size 2 body for segz anytime and all-round manage the home with their feminine touch as a haven from worldly elements?

Damn! You're right. This is "paining to my veins."

The Bull in Me said I shouldn't Poke Its Horn of Tantrums in All You've Said, though. xD

So, catch your fun.

pansophist:


You are an expert in twisting words. Are you related to Cathy Newman?

CHoccolaTE:



When they get married their eyes go clear.
Is it not Nigerian men?
The men will still expect them to continue being independent in marriage.
They will remind you that you were taking care of yourself before marriage so why are you now turning into someone else?

Miss independent, miss independent, that's how they will marry a stingy man that has no interest in providing for them or a man that expects his wife to be obedient submissive slave and co-provider.

Look at the lamentations of these two women that were doing miss independence before marriage


https://www.nairaland.com/6173928/life-story#94833128


https://www.nairaland.com/6173928/life-story/1#95793133