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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by etrouble: 3:07pm On Nov 30, 2020
It shall end in tears.

The amount you mentioned is so small, you can still give her and forget it. Do not see it as investment, if not, you may weep.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 3:07pm On Nov 30, 2020
The best investment you would ever make is that which you channel to yourself.You are the only one that truly love you don't let no one lie to you.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by stillmaticOG(m): 3:07pm On Nov 30, 2020
kokaneprodigy:

Dude 60k is a lot to someone than earns 40k per month. The fact he has to save up for 60k speaks volume and you are saying it’s not a lot. You better read his post again.

Any money you have to save up to raise it’s a lot,
It isn't a lot of money to make him regret. I'm certain he has spent close to that amount or more into the relationship already and if they were to break up, it would be painful.
But the 60k won't be enough to cause him a break down

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by kellybently(m): 3:07pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?

If she is not your wife dont invest in her. She ll take you as mugu and dump you at the end.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 3:08pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?
Bro. Don't Do It. Dis Is Not D Right Time.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 3:09pm On Nov 30, 2020
JONNYSPUTE:
....Think bro. Before you invest in anybody be it man or woman now with this your tiny change you call salary,invest in yourself.

I know what am telling you.

Please avoid had I known.

Cheers.
What is wrong with you, can't you help someone you love. Go Jor.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by COdeGenesis: 3:09pm On Nov 30, 2020
Some guys sha. How can you be earning 40k per month and all you xan think of is renting a shop for a girl. How do u even survive on 40k permonth? That means u do not having savings as a man. You should be thinking of helping yourself to amass more than 40k a month and not investing in a woman who isnt your wife. Any money invested on a gf is wasted money.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Jasy(m): 3:10pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?
Except you want to marry her and she has agreed, dont you dare!!!!
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by MightyHand(m): 3:11pm On Nov 30, 2020
You can HELP her for real, provided you can stand in her wedding reception without feeling any guilt...

But I'll advice you help your siblings first they can't deny you no matter what BUT GF will use your sweat feed another dude

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by alizma: 3:11pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?
I still wonder what we find difficult to understand in this relationship stuff. If as a girlfriend you love her and have the financial strength enough to help her realize her dream by giving her some money, do it not because you want to marry her tomorrow but because you think she deserves it AND you have enough from where you can give her that little one. People should stop helping others with the hope that they will marry the other person or so. Give as a way of saying in appreciation of the good time we have shared, not in expectation of what you are going to share, you give your partner some money and then expect him/her to control the future that you can not control.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 3:11pm On Nov 30, 2020
OP you are a poor man, you should be ashamed of your self. you call ordinary 60k an investment?. That hard working girl deserve a better person not a poverty human being like you.
the girl is even paying her own school fees and here you are calling 60k that cannot buy infinix nite 4 an investment? am so ashamed of you, you deserve serious beating.
look at the way he said he does not want to later regret it in life. ordinary 60k? so you mean you will remain poor in life like this. I wish that innocent girl can see this your useless post and run for her life. nonsense.

Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by akilo1: 3:12pm On Nov 30, 2020
When u thought u have see and hear all..when did woman become an investment?

Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by lekki1444: 3:13pm On Nov 30, 2020
get her pregnant then invest in her lol
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by MadeMan01(m): 3:13pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?
Never.
Wife her. Then invest in her.
Women are inconsistent and inconsiderate.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by blackbone989(m): 3:14pm On Nov 30, 2020
If u avnt invested in your family n u r investing in your girlfriend u r same as Buhari and Nigerian politicians. Both PDP and APC. Misplaced priority

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by AududuNine11: 3:15pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?
Bros, if you wan help, help and comot mind.

If I see someone like your gf whose head is correct and needs this kind of help for her business, I would gladly give her the 60k to help her.

I won't see this as an investment. Cos it's NOT.

Let me remind you that she's only your gf and not your wife.

So don't expect anything in return, or else, you go get high BP.

If you dey find investment, come invest for my rabbit business and collect profit.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Sunkyapogee(m): 3:16pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:

my parents are doing well, dad is even taking care of his brothers children. my sister's are all married. the only thing my parents need from me is my love and present not money
what about your cousins?
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by KillamanJoe: 3:16pm On Nov 30, 2020
Execute the business plan with her, if possible sit her down and tell her you want to invest. Be there strictly as an investor. If not she will see it as dash money. Anyway, are you ready to wife her if she says yes?
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by ComputerWiz007: 3:17pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
am working because i don't want to sit at home demanding for money from my parents and I've invested on Forest trading...

Sha na me be Manager where i go put am there
and yes she has help me out when i had pending items at my work place...
(SHAKING MY HEAD) In capital letters.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Pzpropertylimit(m): 3:17pm On Nov 30, 2020
Brother , is it's self is one chance , enter it . What ever it gives u , smile at it .
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by bendike: 3:18pm On Nov 30, 2020
Bros, you earn 40k a month and you wanna save to spend 60k on a lady?
Hmmm. Young man, eat that money. It's better you use it to lick ice cream Untill your tommy ruptures.
On the alternative if you can afford it (which you can't) give the lady and act the fool.
Most of us on this forum, 40k is money that from Saturday morning finishes before Sunday yet we do not stupidly invest in women not married to.
I can bet you might have not seen the ladies pant sef.
I have told story before of a lady that worked for me years back. Once this customer that likes her comes around she will always form sick or have problems. This guy will give her money, big money. Once he leaves, will boastful show the cash her mugu paid to her Coworkers. The one I notice that pained me, as the guy came around she faked sadness and knacked him 50k bill (10years ago). This customer left to go find the money. The girl was already rejoicing with lady Co workers. I had to codedly call the man to warn him.
Meanwhile this girl was forming virgin for this man oh. She never gave him congo. On the other hand small small boys ie other customer were poking her for free.
Oga use your money to buy jeans and polo.
You will give her money, another man will poke her. She will spend the gains from the shop on another man.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Ugo4hotish(m): 3:18pm On Nov 30, 2020
Nuyokoi:
yes, I am stupid
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by chinchonglee(m): 3:19pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?
You will regret it
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by baby124: 3:22pm On Nov 30, 2020
Marry her first
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by lereinter(m): 3:22pm On Nov 30, 2020
From the way you put it, you will be angry if you release money and she didn't marry you


You are not sure if she will marry

I have seen a lady who was impregnated by another man different from the guy that paid her rent and school fees

It's better you save the money till you both are married
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Libatine: 3:22pm On Nov 30, 2020
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Skyfornia:
First give am belle..
Baddest boy
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Nychillax(m): 3:23pm On Nov 30, 2020
2dice01:

Invest in her massively bruh
Trust me her love for you will skyrocket

Don't mind all these booless guys telling you otherwise cheesy


It might end up in premium tears, I did it in the past bro, hmmmmmm....
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by kunkelhanspeter(m): 3:23pm On Nov 30, 2020
JONNYSPUTE:
....Your parents are doing well and you re working in a place they pay you 40k a month? Smh.

When will fools learn to invest in theirsef first?

Your own simping is out of this world. Tueh.

Why not resign from your work place and put her there instead?

If you were in her shoes,can she do same for you?

Mind you some states and cities that 40k is like 400k in Lagos. I have seen someone living comfortably well with 45k in Eket.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by britiko: 3:23pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?

If its so heavy on your heart to assist, please do but do not expect anything in return.

However, if you are expecting her to pay ur good deeds with marriage or something, then treat urself with self-care to avoid disappointment.

Invest in ur future.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 3:23pm On Nov 30, 2020
COdeGenesis:
Some guys sha. How can you be earning 40k per month and all you xan think of is renting a shop for a girl. How do u even survive on 40k permonth? That means u do not having savings as a man. You should be thinking of helping yourself to amass more than 40k a month and not investing in a woman who isnt your wife. Any money invested on a gf is wasted money.
Honestly, MIRACLES are really happening in Naija..
He shouldn't come back here crying..
Else we shall banish him.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by 123Map(m): 3:24pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:

my parents are doing well, dad is even taking care of his brothers children. my sister's are all married. the only thing my parents need from me is my love and present not money

Your male friends nko?? grin
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by CashDiMkpa: 3:25pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?

If you are earning N40k a month, you still need help yourself.

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