Is it true that my younger brother is a "love victim" if he calls his girl friend which he sees once in a month everyday with more than 20mins on each call 2-3 times a day, meanwhile the girl is a University Student of OOU (200L). And also, for over 2 years he has never seen her bra talkless of her pant, even kiss hun! hun!

hhhmm, so what does he want from the relationship to see his girl friend's pants and bras?

Your brother is a catch

But i'm yet to decide a name for you - - its your kind that put evil thoughts to a relationship and talk them to a break up, why? because you stick your nose where it shouldnt be What biz of yours is it if he hasnt seen her bra? *bussybody*

If both of'em are happy where and how they are, buzz off!!!

Love is a good thing to be a victim of, but how could you know, when you're busy moving from spot to spot looking for who sees pants and who doesnt see boxers

Love isn't necessarily a good thing to be a victim of. Love can hide all faults and make you do things you don't want to do. Love sometimes will leave you feeling sad and blue; two people who're supposed to be in love, and one decieves the other through their love.   

cheers
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proverbial:

Love isn't necessarily a good thing to be a victim of. Love can hide all faults and make you do things you don't want to do. Love sometimes will leave you feeling sad and blue; two people who're supposed to be in love, and one decieves the other through their love.   

Thats the point, some misplace "love", and make it to be what its not

When you've been in the real love, i mean love love  . .mutual love, unselfish love and patient love and enduring love and understanding love and trusting love

Believe me, you'll not want to look back, and you'll see what a desiring feeling it is.

The problem today is that everything that waves by is termed love . . if its "a victim of love" in the sense of being very much in love with someone who is in love with you, there's absolutelty nothing wrong with it

Being a "victim of love" in a case that you're used, dumped, and left heart broken, then its a different story altogether

But this poster's case is the first instant, hence my answer

Thats the point, some misplace "love", and make it to be what its not

some exploit love at the other person's expense.  That other person in turns becomes a victim.

When you've been in the real love, i mean love love  . .mutual love, unselfish love and patient love and enduring love and understanding love and trusting love

love is so multifaceted I see.  In this case you need not worry much(if at all) about being 'used and abused'

The problem today is that everything that waves by is termed love . . if its "a victim of love" in the sense of being very much in love with someone who is in love with you, there's absolutelty nothing wrong with it

you can't be a victim of love in that sense because you're being showered with so much 'love' and the person is not trying to extort you. I don't consider 'spoiling your lover' as nigrification. Other than that, it's more of a sacrifice for love than victimization - since you've got nothing to lose .
The subject in the other situation is being traumatized because he/she's genuinely in love and the partner is toying with that love.

by the way, I understand the context of your response I just wanted to explore what I talked about.
cheers. pardon me OP didn't mean to digress.
Let your brother have his fun, he's catching feelings  .
but come o, ralph did you say OOU? beware o.

hats the point, some misplace "love", and make it to be what its not

When you've been in the real love, i mean love love . .mutual love, unselfish love and patient love and enduring love and understanding love and trusting love

Believe me, you'll not want to look back, and you'll see what a desiring feeling it is.

The problem today is that everything that waves by is termed love . . if its "a victim of love" in the sense of being very much in love with someone who is in love with you, there's absolutelty nothing wrong with it

Being a "victim of love" in a case that you're used, dumped, and left heart broken, then its a different story altogether

But this poster's case is the first instant, hence my answer Wink Wink

@cute-ass
thats some deep stuff, hmmm, interesting to see u talk about love like that!!!

what
can't you tell she's in love. I mean "the real love, i mean love love . .mutual love, unselfish love and patient love and enduring love and understanding love and trusting love"

proverbial:

what
can't you tell she's in love. I mean "the real love, i mean love love . .mutual love, unselfish love and patient love and enduring love and understanding love and trusting love"

Hen-Hen!!! No wonder, don't know why i didn't think of that in the first place!

@ proverbial

Exactly my point oo, How can he be wondering if his brother is a "victim" just becasue he shows love to his girl but the girl doesn't widen her legs for him

When did "reciprocation of love"  =   Sex ??

The girl hasnt done anything to jerpardise or belittle his trust and love for her, and until she's proven guilty of that fact, the girl is as good as gold. The brother isnt complaining, but he takes it upon himself to be a watch-night . . . na wa ooh!! The things "Ogidi" will go through before celebrating the "Nwafor" tradition

When you're in the real love, love love  . . no , you're not a victim,but if that's his definition of victim then i'll be honoured to be served

ghengis:

@cute-ass
thats some deep stuff, hmmm, interesting to see u talk about love like that!!!

My brother na so i see am too ooh

proverbial:

what
can't you tell she's in love. I mean "the real love, i mean love love . .mutual love, unselfish love and patient love and enduring love and understanding love and trusting love"

I didnt tell you that ooh, hmmmm