Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by gevans(m): 8:44pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
I am here to learn. However, I think a guy will not bother a lady too much if he doesn't spend heavily on her. He thinks sex will be his only gain if the relationship did not lead to marriage 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:44pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Misslilbootay:
FYI She has never asked the guy for money She needs commitment ,attention and validation at least one 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by izuu20(m): 8:45pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Uzomacharles:
Please eeh
Can you date a guy with no dick?
This is for those saying sex is not important in a relationship..
If you ain't ready for sex while indulging in a relationship *#VERY SIMPLE#*.... YOU CAN'T GO AROUND FIRE EXPECTING NOT TO SWEAT. 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 8:45pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
eyinjuege:
Coincidentally, Jesus equates murder, fornication and adultery as sins that even THOUGHTS of them alone is enough to defile you. Matthew 15:8-19, Jesus said, "Out of the heart proceeds evil thoughts, of murder, adultery, and fornication, things that defile a person." 1 Corinthians 6:18, also shows Paul warning Christians too flee from fornication, because you defile your body. This is a religious belief, you don't really need any theological explanations for this, as it is pretty straightforward. I agree that Fornication is a SIN in the eyes of God but I always like people to practice what they preach! |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by tega2luv(m): 8:46pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
You said it all but my little contribution is that what if you stick to that partner till wedding only for you as the woman to notice he cant perform in ther other room or you as the man find out she doesnt enjoy sex and cant satisfy your sexual desires, what do you do then,what worked for mr A might not work for mr B, like what my brother has have sense in all you do. Nazgul: To me sex isn't necessary.
From my past relationships, if I'm to advice any girl I'll tell them to avoid sex and stand on it. Sex makes you suspicious of your partner. It makes you have unnecessary problems, unnecessary commitments, unnecessary responsibilities.... etc. How many guys would you keep offering your body to just to make them stay?
What makes most guys wants sex is when the financial demand from the girl becomes too much. Most girls will tell you that they're not ready for sex, but will still want you to show dedicated financial commitments towards them. No guy will ever agree to that.
Many girls naturally lack wisdom. Let me share a my own experience here. I met this girl some years ago, she told me her usual no sex till marriage. I asked her if she's a virgin she said no that she dated just one guy who broke her heart and now she has decided to zip up till her wedding night.
To me, I didn't have any problem with that. My problem was that this girl literally flirts on the phone with guys even in my presence. When I confront her she'll tell me they're just toasters that she doesn't have anything with them. She receives calls like a call center agent. Always on Facebook and WhatsApp till even midnight. And to make matters worse she's the urgent 2k type. So tell me would any guy in my shoes honour her request to date without sex....of course not. I had to end the whole stuff cos she wasn't contributing to my life in anyway. Most times I initiate a discussion with her on chat, she can't even sustain it without indirectly telling me one problem or the other she has.
My take...if you don't want sex in a relationship and you don't want to have any problem with your man concerning your stand, then avoid unnecessary request so it won't make him feel that you're owing him. Avoid flirting with other guys on phone and in reality. Concentrate on your relationship by looking for ways to make an impact in his life. It could be through business ideas, could be counseling, could be partnership in business, education...etc. also develop yourself. Let him see that your life is progressing. That you're successful in whatever it is that you're into.
Make him see you as someone he can't do without and he'll stick to you regardless of your no sex stand. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by wirinet(m): 8:47pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
AnonymousRebec: My dear, don't let anybody pressure you into having sex. Let the people who want to stay, stay. Those that want to go should go If she believes in no sex before marriage and her boyfriend believes opposite, why is she still in the relationship. Common sense dictates she quits the relationship and find someone with similar beliefs. It's obvious they are not spiritually compatible. In this world there is what is called a niche. It applies to all spheres of life. If you find yourself with someone in a different niche as far as sex is concern, just quit and find someone in your own niche instead of complaining. 4 Likes |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 8:47pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 8:48pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Lazykulture: 8:49pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Liposure: i like your honesty there. It shows you are human afterall even tho you sound weak How do I sound weak |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by gevans(m): 8:49pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Nazgul: To me sex isn't necessary.
From my past relationships, if I'm to advice any girl I'll tell them to avoid sex and stand on it. Sex makes you suspicious of your partner. It makes you have unnecessary problems, unnecessary commitments, unnecessary responsibilities.... etc. How many guys would you keep offering your body to just to make them stay?
What makes most guys wants sex is when the financial demand from the girl becomes too much. Most girls will tell you that they're not ready for sex, but will still want you to show dedicated financial commitments towards them. No guy will ever agree to that.
Many girls naturally lack wisdom. Let me share a my own experience here. I met this girl some years ago, she told me her usual no sex till marriage. I asked her if she's a virgin she said no that she dated just one guy who broke her heart and now she has decided to zip up till her wedding night.
To me, I didn't have any problem with that. My problem was that this girl literally flirts on the phone with guys even in my presence. When I confront her she'll tell me they're just toasters that she doesn't have anything with them. She receives calls like a call center agent. Always on Facebook and WhatsApp till even midnight. And to make matters worse she's the urgent 2k type. So tell me would any guy in my shoes honour her request to date without sex....of course not. I had to end the whole stuff cos she wasn't contributing to my life in anyway. Most times I initiate a discussion with her on chat, she can't even sustain it without indirectly telling me one problem or the other she has.
My take...if you don't want sex in a relationship and you don't want to have any problem with your man concerning your stand, then avoid unnecessary request so it won't make him feel that you're owing him. Avoid flirting with other guys on phone and in reality. Concentrate on your relationship by looking for ways to make an impact in his life. It could be through business ideas, could be counseling, could be partnership in business, education...etc. also develop yourself. Let him see that your life is progressing. That you're successful in whatever it is that you're into.
Make him see you as someone he can't do without and he'll stick to you regardless of your no sex stand. On point |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 8:50pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Misslilbootay: I am not a virgin because the guy I dated before made it seem like sex was the only thing that could keep him. Unfortunately, that is another story of its own.
Recently, a friend of mine came and asked me if sex was necessary to keep a relationship. She told me the guy has given her everything she needed in a man but he couldn't stop asking for sex. She said that she wasn't ready to compromise her faith that premarital sex was a sin but she didn't want to lose this guy as he felt that her refusal to have sex with him meant she didn't love him.
The question I'm throwing now is 1. Can a man stay without sex in a relationship and wait till she is ready. (As in this case, she wants to wait till she is married) 2. Why is sex so important to men in a relationship? Do they see it as reciprocating of love especially when they spend heavily on the lady? 3. Also, most men wants a decent lady. Here is a lady who wants to keep herself for her husband but the boyfriend sees it as she manipulating him. Since you guys want a lady that isn't a borehole, why do you demand for sex when you are not sure if it will work out?
Your intelligent opinions will be appreciated. 1)Virginity is a man's worst nightmare, so a man should never marry as a VIRGIN. BUT VIRGINITY IS A WOMAN'S TREASURE. 2)Sex is very important in a relationship because that's the only thing a man cannot do to himself. Men want women, women need men. In a relationship men drop commitment, attention and resources asides others while women drop sex and submission asides others 3)BECAUSE MEN NEED WOMEN, WE ARE ALWAYS IN A DILEMMA. Men are polygamous by nature so we have to acknowledge this nature and also confirm to monogamy structure and its difficult because most men constantly fight this nature. Men see women firstly as sex objects before anything else. WE WANT TO WIFE VIRGINS who have good marriageable qualities BECAUSE THEY RAISE THE BEST CHILDREN AND KEEP A GOOD HOME. So if women can accept men are polygamous by nature then there won't be constant cases of cheating and women will enjoy their husbands. We Bleep hoes and whores but wife virgins that's our natural makeup. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Lazykulture: 8:50pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
wirinet:
If she believes in no sex before marriage and her boyfriend believes opposite, why is she still in the relationship. Common sense dictates she quits the relationship and find someone with similar beliefs. It's obvious they are not spiritually compatible.
In this world there is what is called a niche. It applies to all spheres of life. If you find yourself with someone in a different niche as far as sex is concern, just quit and find someone in your own niche instead of complaining. I just tire o. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 8:52pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Misslilbootay:
FYI She has never asked the guy for money Women need commitment, attention and resources asides others before they can submit to a man. Women love conditionally So she's getting either of those three or even all three from the guy |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 8:52pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by calcal: 8:54pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
BLACK PEOPLE!
EVERYONE bleeps AND PRETENDING.
POPULATION KEEP INCREASING LIKE NO MAN BUSINESS 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Uzomacharles: 8:54pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
izuu20: *#VERY SIMPLE#*.... YOU CAN'T GO AROUND FIRE EXPECTING NOT TO SWEAT.
No mind them.... They just want someone they will be billing for nothing.... Just tell the dude you ain't intrested in any sort of relationship.. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 8:54pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
DEMZEE:
We Bleep hoes and whores but wife virgins that's our natural makeup. BUT KARMA IS A BITCH! |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 8:55pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
calcal: BLACK PEOPLE!
EVERYONE bleeps AND PRETENDING.
POPULATION KEEP INCREASING LIKE NO MAN BUSINESS How's population affecting black people |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Uzomacharles: 8:55pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
omotola90: how long will a guy continue doing sampling technique?? Sex is no ultimatum for a perfect relationship you know Then tell the dude that no need for relationship.... You want to be the only one benefitting 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 8:56pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
fati2001:
BUT KARMA IS A BITCH!
It's our nature We train our daughters to be virgins and respect their feminity. We don't train them to end up like the hoes and whores we bleeped before marrying their mom 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Liposure: 8:58pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Lazykulture: How do I sound weak i expected a contrary stance from you being a chaste person |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 8:59pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
DEMZEE:
So if women can accept men are polygamous by nature then there won't be constant cases of cheating and women will enjoy their husbands.
. that's why in the beginning GOD created Adam,Eve and Evelyn .to reduce the cheating... |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by prodev986: 8:59pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Very necessary. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 9:00pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
DEMZEE:
It's our nature
We train our daughters to be virgins and respect their feminity.
We don't train them to end up like the hoes and whores we bleeped before marrying their mom SO DUMB |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by SweetDipBenny(m): 9:00pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Sex is d pillar |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 9:02pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Ochyes: 9:03pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
CalliDora1: Capital NO!
Only wordly men and sinners practice premarital sex. Take it or leave it!
Spirituality asides. Sex does not keep a man or determine a successful relationship or marriage.
Morally speaking, it is not good. Keep your chastity. It pays. You hit right on the spot. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Askme2020(m): 9:03pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Nazgul: To me sex isn't necessary.
From my past relationships, if I'm to advice any girl I'll tell them to avoid sex and stand on it. Sex makes you suspicious of your partner. It makes you have unnecessary problems, unnecessary commitments, unnecessary responsibilities.... etc. How many guys would you keep offering your body to just to make them stay?
What makes most guys wants sex is when the financial demand from the girl becomes too much. Most girls will tell you that they're not ready for sex, but will still want you to show dedicated financial commitments towards them. No guy will ever agree to that.
Many girls naturally lack wisdom. Let me share a my own experience here. I met this girl some years ago, she told me her usual no sex till marriage. I asked her if she's a virgin she said no that she dated just one guy who broke her heart and now she has decided to zip up till her wedding night.
To me, I didn't have any problem with that. My problem was that this girl literally flirts on the phone with guys even in my presence. When I confront her she'll tell me they're just toasters that she doesn't have anything with them. She receives calls like a call center agent. Always on Facebook and WhatsApp till even midnight. And to make matters worse she's the urgent 2k type. So tell me would any guy in my shoes honour her request to date without sex....of course not. I had to end the whole stuff cos she wasn't contributing to my life in anyway. Most times I initiate a discussion with her on chat, she can't even sustain it without indirectly telling me one problem or the other she has.
My take...if you don't want sex in a relationship and you don't want to have any problem with your man concerning your stand, then avoid unnecessary request so it won't make him feel that you're owing him. Avoid flirting with other guys on phone and in reality. Concentrate on your relationship by looking for ways to make an impact in his life. It could be through business ideas, could be counseling, could be partnership in business, education...etc. also develop yourself. Let him see that your life is progressing. That you're successful in whatever it is that you're into.
Make him see you as someone he can't do without and he'll stick to you regardless of your no sex stand. more blessings I pray for u. 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by dsdwaya: 9:03pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Infact relationship has not started if sex hasn't occured yet.. at that point both y'all just friends. 3 Likes |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 9:04pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
fati2001:
that's why in the beginning GOD created Adam,Eve and Evelyn .to reduce the cheating...
But the reality is that Christianity isn't the only religion that uses God. Polygamy was never a sin and is never A sin in any religion. Men are polygamous by nature not by God And women are hypergamous by nature Not by God 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by odonkoro: 9:04pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Don't ever look for a boyfriend if want sex. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 9:04pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
DEMZEE:
1)Virginity is a man's worst nightmare, so a man should never marry as a VIRGIN. BUT VIRGINITY IS A WOMAN'S TREASURE.
. VIRGINITY IS NOT A MAN'S WORST NIGHTMARE (EXCLUDING YOU AND THE SO CALLED MEN LIKE YOU), SO BOTH GENDERS SHOULD MARRY AS A VIRGIN AND IT'S ALSO A TREASURE TO BOTH... |