Good day fellas, I need your suggestion or idea on step to take.

My wife that stays with me at home, though I have not paid bride price yet, planning doing it next year by God grace just opened up to me today that our neighbor who stays in the same compound approached her when she went out to brush her teeth and started telling her that he will like to befriend her and that he heard when we were quarrelling at home, that I'm not supposed to santion her for whatever reason, that he loves her and sees her in his dream that he will like to friend her.

So she told him that he has someone already which he knew and she told him that if he didn't stop he will tell me, he now begged her not to let me be aware of it.

This incidence happened about a month ago, so I was surprised when she opened up to me today.
I was not happy at all. I need to take an action before it's out of hand.

Meanwhile we are only 2 Tennants living in the compound

Pls guys what do I do?

Ajax99:
Relocate

Coward.

Take no action now. Make u no go fight o! If he does it again u can calmly tell him not to disturb your wife to be!

tylerboy1501:


I got plan but not now

CamusMidas:

Coward.

??

tylerboy1501:


I got plan but not now

Tell her make she play along, then catch am pants down and deal with him.

Ajax99:
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Running away is the solution to all your life problems.

Where is pastor righteousness39 when you need him?

Confront him but make sure that it does not end in physical altercation

Go and screen shot this my post for reference purposes

That neighbour of yours will later fork your wife it's just a matter of time

The more the two of them see each other everyday in that compound, the more the urge and attraction will grow

** The best thing for you to do is to PACK OUT or LET HER ENGAGE IN SOMETHING PRODUCTIVE THAT WILL BE MAKING HER TO LEAVE THE HOUSE EARLY AND COMING BACK IN THE EVENING

if all of the above options fails, sharply IMPREGNATE her ASAP

tylerboy1501:
Good day fellas ,I need your suggestion or idea on step to take.

My wife that stay with me at home,thou I have not pay bride price yet, planning doing it next year by God grace just open up to me today that our neighbor who stay in the same compound approach her when she went out to brush her teeth started telling her that he will like to befriend her and that he heard when we were quarrelling at home ,that I'm not supposed to santion her for whatever reason, that he love her and see her in his dream that he will like to friend her.

So she told him that he has someone already which he knew and she told him that if he didn't stop he will tell me, he now beg her not to let me be aware of it.

This incidence happened about a month ago, so I was surprised when she open up to me today.
I was not happy at all. I need to take an action before it's out of hand.
Meanwhile we are only 2 Tennant living in the compound

Pls guys what do I do?

Is that what she told you Tunde?

I did not toast her o

There's nothing to worry yourself over. She won't do anything with him. And if he keeps disturbing her confront him and warn him that you'll have him arrested if he doesn't stay away from your wife.

If a woman opens up to you that another guy is asking her out, just know that she has already rejected him and doesn't find him attractive enough.

If she found him attractive, believe me, she wouldn't tell you. She'll be doing it secretly behind your back.

if he tries it again, approach him as a man but don't quarrel or fight him, just talk to him let him will know you know what is going on, he will relocate for you out of shame.

Nazgul:
There's nothing to worry yourself over. She won't do anything with him. And if he keeps disturbing her confront him and warn him that you'll have him arrested if he doesn't stay away from your wife.

If a woman opens up to you that another guy is asking her out, just know that she has already rejected him and doesn't find him attractive enough.

If she found him attractive, believe me, she wouldn't tell you. She'll be doing it secretly behind your back.

Arrest him on what basis? Which crime did he commit?

@OP, this shouldnt even worry you as long as he didnt touch her. Some guys are so randy that they dont even care if a lady is married or not, whether she is a family or not, they just want to knack. No matter what, dont confront that guy because it might not end well

That ur girl sef, something happened and she is telling you after one month, don't take her serious ogbeni.

Womanizer:


Arrest him on what basis? Which crime did he commit?

Charge him with being a nuisance to public peace. He's bothering his wife. Opening a file of 5k in a police station will see them deal with him terribly.

And knowing our our police, they can even change the charge to rape, so as to get more bail funds from him. By the time he's done paying himself out from their net, even if the wife greets him, he won't respond.

tylerboy1501:
Good day fellas ,I need your suggestion or idea on step to take.

My wife that stay with me at home,thou I have not pay bride price yet, planning doing it next year by God grace just open up to me today that our neighbor who stay in the same compound approach her when she went out to brush her teeth started telling her that he will like to befriend her and that he heard when we were quarrelling at home ,that I'm not supposed to santion her for whatever reason, that he love her and see her in his dream that he will like to friend her.

So she told him that he has someone already which he knew and she told him that if he didn't stop he will tell me, he now beg her not to let me be aware of it.

This incidence happened about a month ago, so I was surprised when she open up to me today.
I was not happy at all. I need to take an action before it's out of hand.
Meanwhile we are only 2 Tennant living in the compound

Pls guys what do I do?

#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv


No matter what... Never fight him... No woman except your mother is worth fighting over..
Caution her and per adventure she entangled with him.. you let her go..
If you fight and kill him or he kills you.. your woman go wakka go and Bleep other men.. use your head bro..

nobe your wife jare we call it "girlfriend"

moreover since she's not yours yet , anybody can approach her me self can,

moreover it is because of her backside the shape is cool

Your wife and you have not paid her brideprice? No sir, she is still a public property. It happened a month ago and she is just telling you. I am sure your neighbor is as poor as church rat if not, she would be fuccking him by now and you won't do nada. First verify that story somehow because ladies of today can cause trouble between two men with lies. If the story is true, talk to your neighbor. He is a man like you.

I don't know why a man will deliberately meet somebody wife,when you know her husband... Even thus some wife na devil..they will be attracting the man,seducing the man,asking for this and that...My advice's for you,just tell your woman to be faithful to you..if it's your's.No matter his efforts it won't work..

Your girlfriend want you to go and pay bride price early before the neighbors snatch her from you

https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/16/relate-dont-marry/

Nazgul:
There's nothing to worry yourself over. She won't do anything with him. And if he keeps disturbing her confront him and warn him that you'll have him arrested if he doesn't stay away from your wife.

If a woman opens up to you that another guy is asking her out, just know that she has already rejected him and doesn't find him attractive enough.

If she found him attractive, believe me, she wouldn't tell you. She'll be doing it secretly behind your back.

Who knows if shes playing the card of telling the guy indirectly to man up nd seal the deal fast fast which is marriage. And dont 4gt the said lady is one/two approach away to lie down flat in the guy bedroom...

Note: if a lady tells you another dude is disturbing her bro trust me two things are involved

1: she has no interest in the guy at all.

2: she gonna sleep with the guy and blame it on u for not protecting her away from temptation...

"My wife that stays with me at home" I yaff taya honestly.

Does she work? If she stays at home, there's a possibility that they'll bleep theirselves one day and females are not to be trusted at all.

Womanizer:


Arrest him on what basis? Which crime did he commit?

No mind him, he dey catch cruise with ops with arrest girls wey their matter dey one kind one kind person wey fit give officer he own share make he bury matter abi officer no dey do level again?

CamusMidas:

Running away is the solution to all your life problems.

poor choice words here

I remember Wasiu (Wosseh) that broke a guy's leg when the smooter, more handsome and richer guy put the moves on his girlfriend. Go and ask around Hassan Idowu street in Aguda. Same guy was on clutches for months, i dont know if the guy fully recovered for that assault. Hehehehe.

Ajax99:
poor choice words here

Why ask him to relocate just because someone is hitting on his wife. That's just cowardice.

Pay her bride price or lose her




Your are lucky the dude mouth is not sweet ... Aunty would have mhyfdu#'°df.....