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Re: 9 Foolish Things Nigerian Ladies Do Everyday In The Name Of Love by Mypeople2(m): 9:45am On Dec 22, 2020
Sarita01:


Ehya, sorry o, many babes dey wey like to dey wash clothes, e be like Say you dey search in the wrong places, change your search location, you go jam your spec. Wish u luck
Lol.
Re: 9 Foolish Things Nigerian Ladies Do Everyday In The Name Of Love by debbydams(f): 10:20am On Dec 22, 2020
Olaideolayemi:
Sorry let me divert to other issues,I saw a post you posted around Nov,that you hate love...Sister don't hate love..Men are not the same,the fact that A attend to you badly,doesn't mean B will do the same..This your story relate to mine small..That was my school days.. The ladies is given me money, wash my plate,brought food for me..do some crazy help for me...Initially I help her in all her courses and she is doing well,because of what I did for her,She get close to me a lot to extend that friends notice her..And deep inside me..love don carry me go...She understand me die, Are only weakness is that, she is stubborn and materialistic in nature..during that time,am very broke,and let say there is poverty,because I only depend on my mum for survival. I graduated before her,immediately she graduated, she change,she said I don't buy her anything,that are should go and look for a job..before you know,she set me up with her friend..sister I cried that day,the things pain me,the girl I dated for two good years with understanding.. Since that time,I don't believe in love again..rather I believed in understanding and peace of mind..immediately I notice a ladies is requesting what I don't have the capacity I quickly withdrawn, before what my ex did to me to happen again...After some years,she want to come back I said No..She send a friend request to me on Facebook this yr,but due to some policy am using in my life,I neglect till next yr by the Grace of God... But today..Her rejection have taken me to a blessed life..Today am comfortable, all her materialistic intention are under my foot..Today ladies want me,but I decided I don't want them until I achieved the last one..I won't tell you that, so that It won't be proud or Arrogance. Am telling you this, because of your formal post..just give up..if she has Patience, she would have been enjoying her sacrifices she did for me then. because me I like Appreciation to people that help me during the hard period of my life..Sister thanks and take Care..the first post has some little mistake.. Am sorry for that..
hummmm thanks.. M not lucky when it comes to relationships.. Due to some past experience nd what m goin tru now m depressed. As m speaking to u now m I can't even go to my shop, am just indoor crying �..anyway God understands. Don't bother checking on me..pls I don't want anybody.. Bye.
Re: 9 Foolish Things Nigerian Ladies Do Everyday In The Name Of Love by EmmaLege: 10:39am On Dec 22, 2020
ZIINI:
1O . constant begging of 2k cool

Ya a real nigaarrr grin grin grin wink
Re: 9 Foolish Things Nigerian Ladies Do Everyday In The Name Of Love by Olaideolayemi(m): 11:34am On Dec 22, 2020
debbydams:
hummmm thanks.. M not lucky when it comes to relationships.. Due to some past experience nd what m goin tru now m depressed. As m speaking to u now m I can't even go to my shop, am just indoor crying �..anyway God understands. Don't bother checking on me..pls I don't want anybody.. Bye.
...sorry for the pains,you are presently pass through..it will surely go..sister share your pain to relieve your mind....As am I speaking to you,I am in serious pain,This year deals with me financial, my income fall to the extend that I can't pay my bill any longer,but what keep me is Grace... Am so close to God, and God is suppressing my mind for better future..I have boss/mentor that advice's me what to do at any particular period of time...To be sincere to you, I have a debt,close to #100000 on my head,without any plan to pay...but if my God is in the heaven, I will pay and I will feel better than before..don't just be crying,speak to people for help,guidance and miss with peoples to have fun,in order to reduce the tension..stand up and go your shop..my God will guide you on the best ways to overcome your pain...This 2020 tough for everybody,not only you...God will easy your pain..
Re: 9 Foolish Things Nigerian Ladies Do Everyday In The Name Of Love by Sarita01(f): 11:52am On Dec 22, 2020
NasMaleeq:
but you'll expect me to pay some bills on you rights?
and you are expecting me to pay ur bride price when you've not been useful to me?
why do you think courting is necessary before getting married if not for us to study each other
If you cant do it while we are dating Definitely you won't find it easier to do wen we get married
So, you just want to come to my house spend my money, eat my food, have fun and that's all
NA ME BORN YOU?

Hahaha, what if I'm also a co-provider in the house, after busting my ass at work, you'll still expect me to come home, gather your clothes and wash them? You're funny, NA ME BE YOUR MAMA?

Relationship and marriage is team work between two individuals, everyone got their roles to play, nowadays the rules are changing, men no longer want to be the sole provider, but they want women to be the sole caregiver and house help, what kind of one sided rules are you guys playing at. Make up your mind baby and I would be all in, but if you want to eat your cake and still have it, then I got nothing else to say to you

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Re: 9 Foolish Things Nigerian Ladies Do Everyday In The Name Of Love by Nobody: 12:09pm On Dec 22, 2020
Shortyy:



You're just making baseless points. Low self-esteem women always want to be accepted by men. Women with no self respect, or self confidence. They do anything for them just to be accepted and picked. At the end of the day they'll still either leave them, cheat on them, or both.

A woman that knows what she wants won't waste her time washing or cooking for any man in the name of boyfriend just to be accepted.

Y'all just want women to be worshipping you so as to massage your bloated ego. To hell with y'all. cheesy




i can see these are the things you make up in your head to make you sleep better @ nite, do you know a virgin lady will also consider you desperate & a pick me sha for having sex with a man that is yet to pay your dowry or marry you.
the same way you don't see big deal in pre marital sex is the same way some ladies don't see big deal in premarital house chores.
A woman that knows what she want will go all the way for what she wants even it is means to violate her own principles n code, people around might call it desperation buh someone with an high esteem won't give a fvck.
What a man needs a woman for is care, God created only male angels to worship him, kings of earth only employ male to sing there praises even in clubs big boiz are praise by hypemen, a queen serves a king, serving is different from worshipping, the ability of a man to provide & the care he gets in return is what massages a man's ego. i never knew you prefer hell, ladies 1st grin
Re: 9 Foolish Things Nigerian Ladies Do Everyday In The Name Of Love by Shortyy(f): 12:14pm On Dec 22, 2020
anslem04:




i can see these are the things you make up in your head to make you sleep better @ nite, do you know a virgin lady will also consider you desperate & a pick me sha for having sex with a man that is yet to pay your dowry or marry you.
the same way you don't see big deal in pre marital sex is the same way some ladies don't see big deal in premarital house chores.
A woman that knows what she want will go all the way for what she wants even it is means to violate her own principles n code, people around might call it desperation buh someone with an high esteem won't give a fvck.
What a man needs a woman for is care, God created only male angels to worship him, kings of earth only employ male to sing there praises even in clubs big boiz are praise by hypemen. the ability of a man to provide & the care he gets in return is what massages a man's ego. i never knew you prefer hell, ladies 1st grin




I don't have strength to read your gibberish Mr. Only someone that doesn't know her worth will pack her things and go and live with someone she's not married to. Washing his clothes and cooking for him. So despicable.

Even my parents will disown me if they hear that one.
Re: 9 Foolish Things Nigerian Ladies Do Everyday In The Name Of Love by Nobody: 12:25pm On Dec 22, 2020
Shortyy:



I don't have strength to read your gibberish Mr. Only someone that doesn't know her worth will pack her things and go and live with someone she's not married to. Washing his clothes and cooking for him. So despicable.

Even my parents will disown me if they hear that one.



only a LovePeddler would have sex with a man she is not married to, if your parent will disown you for cooking for a man, then they should assasinate you for sleeping with a man you're not married to grin grin see you in hell sweetheart kiss
Re: 9 Foolish Things Nigerian Ladies Do Everyday In The Name Of Love by Shortyy(f): 1:14pm On Dec 22, 2020
anslem04:



only a LovePeddler would have sex with a man she is not married to, if your parent will disown you for cooking for a man, then they should assasinate you for sleeping with a man you're not married to grin grin see you in hell sweetheart kiss

You're also a whóre for sleeping with a woman you're not married to. wink

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Re: 9 Foolish Things Nigerian Ladies Do Everyday In The Name Of Love by Nobody: 2:16pm On Dec 22, 2020
Shortyy:


You're also a whóre for sleeping with a woman you're not married to. wink


I accept i'm a whure with all my full chest, buh as for you.

Re: 9 Foolish Things Nigerian Ladies Do Everyday In The Name Of Love by Sixfeetbelle: 2:18pm On Dec 22, 2020
deepwater:
10. Insulting Nairaland boys anyhow
No more respect for our men

Do the men have respect for themselves?
Re: 9 Foolish Things Nigerian Ladies Do Everyday In The Name Of Love by Sixfeetbelle: 2:43pm On Dec 22, 2020
pocohantas:


It is just food. He will eat it and shit it out. What if it is my hobby?

Why will you knack someone raw, lick dick, drink postinor 2 every other day- but cooking regularly becomes foolishness? I see nothing foolish in this one.

It shouldn't be a problem for people that like cooking. But taking it up as a hobby just because you now have a boyfriend is a no.

I may help you cook if you're already about to cook when I show up, but that I showed up and you now expect me to go cook because 'I'm a woman' is a no from me.

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Re: 9 Foolish Things Nigerian Ladies Do Everyday In The Name Of Love by duality(m): 8:10am On Jan 16, 2021
Jodha:
Yhure actually right op... especially staying with a man yhure not married to....he will never respect yhu or take yhu serious....

That cooking stuff sef I can't do that in the name of any foolish love.... washing yhur clothe and cooking for yhu when yhure not my husband... tufiakwa... I'll sit down and gist with yhu till yhu wash yhur clothe by yhurself and for yhurself...


How will he know you can cook. Most Ladies these days are not good cooks.

Unfortunately, they've passed it to the next generation and built unfortunate philosophies on this issue. so women no longer strive to better their culinary skills.

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Re: 9 Foolish Things Nigerian Ladies Do Everyday In The Name Of Love by wealthtrak: 11:17pm On Apr 18, 2021
propynich123:
Love can make someone sometimes mad; believe me, I was a victim, the person in love can do whatever it takes to please the person that he is in love with, no matter how much it takes.

Today, we will be discussing 9 foolish things Nigerian ladies do everyday in the name of love.

1. Marrying an older man:
I don’t think i will marry someone that is old enough to be her father, if not for love. Will you?

2. Pleading, begging and crying for men to marry them; Dear sister, you don’t have to do all that to make him marry you, if he is interested he will ask you himself, you don’t have to beg or plead; By doing so, you will tarnish your image in his eyes.

3. Cooking for the guy you are not married to Just to cook for him once is not the problem, but if that became a regular thing that is foolishness.

4. Not quitting an abusive relationship:
My sister, the guy that is interested in you will never abuse you in any way because he loves, and he is willing to spend the rest of his life with you.

5. Moving in with a guy that you are not married to, thinking that moving in with him will make him love you. My sister, you are mistaken that will never happen. Sometimes, some even take-in for the man.

6. Dating a man for a long time without talking about your future together, or where your relationship stands.

7. Living in a man resident, that you are not married to:
This is common in our higher institutions today, even outside our unis, and poly, you find this life style too.

8. Sharing secrets:
Girls are always victims of this, they always like to share their past stories with the men they barely know.

9. Unfriending your friends because of a man you are in love with:
Believe my sister, if you are doing so believe me you are in a deep mess.

Have you witnessed this before? Do you really think it's normal?
LET'S HEAR FROM YOU

grin
Re: 9 Foolish Things Nigerian Ladies Do Everyday In The Name Of Love by wealthtrak: 11:29pm On Apr 18, 2021
pocohantas:


It is just food. He will eat it and shit it out. What if it is my hobby?

Why will you knack someone raw, lick dick, drink postinor 2 every other day- but cooking regularly becomes foolishness? I see nothing foolish in this one.
grin grin... Your comments crack
me up.
Re: 9 Foolish Things Nigerian Ladies Do Everyday In The Name Of Love by AwesomeStormy00(m): 6:35am On Apr 20, 2021
pocohantas:


It is just food. He will eat it and shit it out. What if it is my hobby?

Why will you knack someone raw, lick dick, drink postinor 2 every other day- but cooking regularly becomes foolishness? I see nothing foolish in this one.

You erh, you no dey hold back @pocohantas you say iit uncensored truth. Thank you for always being yourself ma. You post making me laugh here grin

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