Nigerian relationship expert, Blessing Okoro, has advised married women not to give out money to their husbands as they are only helpers, not providers.

The matchmaker made this known in a new video she posted via her official Instagram over the weekend.Speaking further, Blessing Okoro went on to advise women to desist from dating or getting married to men who are jobless and poor.

In her words, ”Your husband or your man does not have any business with your money or income as a woman. You are a helper not a provider. A lot of men tend to put eyes on their woman’s money.

”They want to know how much their women are earning, they want to know how much is in their wife’s bank accounts, they share bills… that is nonsense.”

Speaking further, Blessing Okoro went on to advise women to desist from dating or getting married to men who are jobless and poor.

In her words, ”Your husband or your man does not have any business with your money or income as a woman. You are a helper not a provider. A lot of men tend to put eyes on their woman’s money.

”They want to know how much their women are earning, they want to know how much is in their wife’s bank accounts, they share bills… that is nonsense.”



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when its the man that has the fund, it's our money. When it belongs to the woman, it's her money. No wahala...........

This one that is fond of posing with people's properties and saying it's hers is the one advicing women

The other day she was almost beaten to death for posting pictures and Videos of another man's mansion in Lagos and claiming it was her own

What's the big deal if a woman shares her money with her husband aren't we suppose to compliment and support each other

Mumu

Sebi na the woman wey get money...Who say make this mumu dey talk. Borrow pose.

This is how they go about destroying peaceful marriages with their useless advice that haven't gotten them any man to call husbands. Idiots

If you reasarch further you will find out she is not married

Nonexistent2:
This is how they go about destroying peaceful marriages with their useless advice that haven't gotten them any man to call husbands. Idiots

If you reasarch further you will find out she is not married and have never kept a relationship for more than a month
What qualifies her as a relationship expert, I rather say she is relationship destroyer expert

only a jobless man would be fighting over the money the wife earns but the wife can also be a helper by contributing her own quota.I am talking about loving couples not the hateful ones who live like cat and rat in their homes.

Woman mentality:

My money is my money

Your money is family money.

And they want gender equality.

When my Dad retired back in the days you wait and wait for pension, carry file about the country for gratuity... My mum shared her salary with him, even when he was reluctant

When the Gratuity later got paid, they vacationed together and she got some share

There are no rules when it comes to finance and relationship, what works for you might not work for others




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Marriage is a partnership.

Both actors must contribute equitably.

She's right,men need to learn to a take their eyes off their woman's money

I'm freaking tired of hearing shits about marriages. Romance section should focus on romance and leave finance to family section.
Waris all these sef

I truly believe a wife is supposed to be a helper. Plus it's wrong for the husband to be so inquisitive about his wife's finances.

I also believe the husband is the provider and it's very WRONG for the wife to be so inquisitive about how much the husband earns (if she won't disclose hers). The wife has no business knowing her husband's finances if they aren't into a family business. The husband has to drop anything he feels like if he's dealing with a woman with this mentality.

What more?
In a the world of today where unemployment & underemployment is the order of the day in Nigeria, if a husband is playing his role as a provider and dropping whatever he can afford, and the woman isn't playing her role as a wife to help if the funds available aren't enough, the kids will suffer and will be the victims. I saw this well while growing up. Women looking gorgeous with kids looking like maids & houseboys because things aren't currently smooth for their father. LMAO.

We that grew up with mothers that help or provide when needed have no idea of how blessed we are.
Ladies nowadays just want to relax & be taken care of like a trophy wife. I don't object to this, but they should expect junior wives

Marriage is a partnership.Both actors must contribute equitably.

and some useless gals will adhere to her advise

Omihanifa:
This one that is fond of posing with people's properties and saying it's hers is the one advicing women

The other day she was almost beaten to death for lying that bought a mansion in Lagos

How these kind of people have followers is what amazes me

Lol. I believe in equality, my sister Bring, I bring too. That's how it should be.

How can you marry someone and then place all the financial responsibility on his head?

Some women sef.

This is what breeds disrespect when he's the only one making the financial contribution at home.

To hell with "focus on the message instead of the messenger"

An idiot like this who was disgraced because she claimed someones property, is not fit to give couples relationship advice.

Sure her money is hers and your money is yours, so she won't mind if you stop buying the foodstuffs and paying important bills. Keep your chicken change but nor chuk eye for your husband money

Omihanifa:
This one that is fond of posing with people's properties and saying it's hers is the one advicing women

The other day she was almost beaten to death for posting pictures and Videos of another man's mansion in Lagos and claiming it was her own

What's the big deal if a woman shares her money with her husband aren't we suppose to compliment and support each other

Seriously

I always know some of all these, infact many of all these so called social media influencers and relationship experts are fake ars biatches...

The look on her face tho,
When did this happen?

Then they will scream gender equality after this. Gender equality my foot.... Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Typical Naija Farm Tool

Disgraceful lot

The good thing about her message is that we would have more unmarried ladies in the society who will be sexually liberal and available.

Fantastic!

I will take her advice if she opens the door of that car and drive off.

pharmagba:
If you reasarch further you will find out she is not married

And doesn't have any source of income.