I have a neighbor who throws something like bids or pebbles/stones to the floor every early morning (nights), I always hear the sound of it, at first I didn't take it for anything until my wife noticed the same thing. I wanted to confront the person but my wife said no. This person lives alone in that flat upstairs.
Should I confront this person, because we are flats neighbor and we attend the same church, though the person attends mostly Sunday service, but since it became obvious this person doesn't attend church as before again.
Please has any body experience this before or any idea about what this means

Fm2019:
I have a neighbor who throws something like bids or pebbles/stones to the floor every early morning (nights), I always hear the sound of it, at first I didn't take it for anything until my wife noticed the same thing. I wanted to confront the person but my wife said no. This person lives alone in that flat upstairs.
Should I confront this person, because we are flats neighbor and we attend the same church, though the person attends mostly Sunday service, but since it became obvious this person doesn't attend church as before again.
Please has any body experience this before or any idea about what this means

Why exactly do you have a problem with the pebble sounds? Is it because ot constitutes a nuisance of sorts( noise pollution) or you simply have an issue with the fact that you don't understand the reason for it?

Minding your business pays. Sometimes, being patient and ignoring some things averts misunderstanding. Anyway, confronting is a second option but use wisdom and friendly approach.

In the olden days and till now, beads stones and pebbles were used for counting.



Perhaps after every fast she throws one to see how many fasts she has left.


Think the best of people yet pray and be cautious in your everyday life.

Kobojunkie:
Why exactly do you have a problem with the pebble sounds? Is it because ot constitutes a nuisance of sorts( noise pollution) or you simply have an issue with the fact that you don't understand the reason for it?

All of the above
The sound disturb every morning that one must wake up at that particular time. My apartment is directly under this person's.

I don't just understand why the consistency (every day)

I don't know the meaning of the whole thing

Fm2019:

All of the above
The sound disturb every morning that one must wake up and that particular time. My apartment is directly under this person's.

I don't just understand why the consistency (every day)

I don't know the meaning of the whole thing

Oh ok! If it is a noise problem, especially when it impacts your sleep and all, please let your neighbour know of a better time he could instead throw his beads around.

Origin:
In the olden days and till now, beads stones and pebbles were used for counting.



Perhaps after every fast she throws one to see how many fasts she has left.


Think the best of people yet pray and be cautious in your everyday life.

Always in the morning between 4:30-5:30am before she leaves for work

JaneYave:
Minding your business pays. Sometimes, being patient and ignoring some things averts misunderstanding. Anyway, confronting is a second option but use wisdom and friendly approach.

That's true and that's my wife's thought too but it's beginning to disturb. Sure if I'll confront her I'd do it in love and carefulness because we attend the same church for that matter

Don't be a weakling or hide in the guise of being civil not to fight for your existence.

No person who wishes you well will tell you to ignore your neighbor.
Please confront her.
As someone who has been to Mecca and visited at least 80 native doctors from diverse tribes, I can authoritatively confirm that what she's doing has a spiritual connotation; it is a remixed ramy al-jamarāt.

She is stoning the spirit man of someone in that compound whom I believe is you at the time of his least consciousness.

You should also be wary of your wife; it is obvious she doesn't want your progress.
For her to advise you to keep mute means she might even be secretly wishing you die so she can jump on to a younger preek.

Very typical of the 21st century wife.
They act like they are after your best interest when their only prayer point is to either become widows or divorcees so they can freely fvck.

Ogbeni use your head.
If I were you, I'd just act like I don't know what they are doing and mind my business.

Is the sound disturbing you? If yes, approach him and talk to him like you'll want to be addressed if you're causing such in your abode. If no, then shift bro

You suppose costume better dish in form sacrifice drop for your neighbour door step too
Make they for know say no be only them get monopoly to madness
Or better yet buy pigeon slaughter am keep for their door step comot some of the feathers too disperse am for their wing too Make we see who go tire

NwaAmaikpe:




Don't be a weakling or hide in the guise of being civil not to fight for your existence.

No person who wishes you well will tell you to ignore your neighbor.
Please confront her.
As someone who has been to Mecca and visited at least 80 native doctors from all tribes...I can authoritatively confirm that what she's doing has a spiritual connotation; it is a remixed ramy al-jamarāt.

She is stoning the spirit man of someone in that compound whom I believe is you at the time of his least consciousness.

You should also be wary of your wife; it is obvious she doesn't want your progress.
For her to advise you to keep mute means she might even be secretly wishing you die so she can jump on to a younger preek.

Very typical of the 21st century wife.
They act like they are after your best interest when their only prayer point is to either become widows or divorcees so they can freely fvck.

Ogbeni use your head.
If I were you, I'd just act like I don't know what they are doing and mind my business.

I think say you deh go church eh this man?

Fm2019:
I have a neighbor who throws something like bids or pebbles/stones to the floor every early morning (nights), I always hear the sound of it, at first I didn't take it for anything until my wife noticed the same thing. I wanted to confront the person but my wife said no. This person lives alone in that flat upstairs.
Should I confront this person, because we are flats neighbor and we attend the same church, though the person attends mostly Sunday service, but since it became obvious this person doesn't attend church as before again.
Please has any body experience this before or any idea about what this means

Mind your business mate! That flat was paid for just like you did yours. S/he has every right to do as like so long as it does not violate the contract between the landlord and him/her.

Is the sound disturbing you? If yes, approach him and talk to him like you'll want to be addressed if you're causing such in your abode. If no, then shift bro

NwaAmaikpe:




Don't be a weakling or hide in the guise of being civil not to fight for your existence.

No person who wishes you well will tell you to ignore your neighbor.
Please confront her.
As someone who has been to Mecca and visited at least 80 native doctors from diverse tribes, I can authoritatively confirm that what she's doing has a spiritual connotation; it is a remixed ramy al-jamarāt.

She is stoning the spirit man of someone in that compound whom I believe is you at the time of his least consciousness.

You should also be wary of your wife; it is obvious she doesn't want your progress.
For her to advise you to keep mute means she might even be secretly wishing you die so she can jump on to a younger preek.

Very typical of the 21st century wife.
They act like they are after your best interest when their only prayer point is to either become widows or divorcees so they can freely fvck.

Ogbeni use your head.
If I were you, I'd just act like I don't know what they are doing and mind my business.

Boss

It's African culture. That's the same casting of lots you read about in the scriptures. Like the Ifa beads.

I'm not recommending Ifa, I'm just explaining it. Before you confront him, ask yourself, do I follow white Jesus? Do I celebrate Christmas, Easter and other pagan feasts? If yes, you are probably even worse than him.

I suggest you mind your business.