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If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Poloyanabo2(m): 4:34pm On Jan 05, 2021
Good day guys, so I've been stuck on this topic lately, Both genders especially the females have always claimed sex doesn't prove love in a relationship,
But why is cheating so painful, up to the extent that some relationships end because of cheating?

Lalasticlala Seun Mynd44
Bosses please move to front page for wider audience, let's learn.

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Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Kriss216: 4:38pm On Jan 05, 2021
Who and who said sex does not prove love in a relationship?


I can’t love a woman without sex. I’m sexually active. One of the ways I express love is through sex. The importance of sex can not be downplayed in any serious relationship.



Cheating is painful cos humans are naturally selfish and self-centered. We want the kpekus/gbola all to ourselves without sharing.

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Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Samakus(m): 4:39pm On Jan 05, 2021
Poloyanabo2:
Good day guys, so I've been stuck on this topic lately, Both genders especially the females have always claimed sex doesn't prove love in a relationship,
But why is cheating so painful, up to the extent that some relationships end because of cheating?

Lalasticlala Seun Mynd44
Bosses please move to front page for wider audience, let's learn.


Cheating is painful, not because of the intercourse that happened, but because of the trust that was broken

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Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Henrywalker: 4:42pm On Jan 05, 2021
Not every man will be comfortable with eating from the plate with his fellow guy. Men always wants to be men!

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Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Poloyanabo2(m): 4:46pm On Jan 05, 2021
Samakus:



Cheating is painful, not because of the intercourse that happened, but because of the trust that was broken
Is the sex an indicator of broken trust?
Cos most times the cheating partners still show the same care, affection and love even while they're cheating.

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Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by NextD18: 4:47pm On Jan 05, 2021
Cheating painful because there's more to sex than orgasm in a marriage.

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Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Poloyanabo2(m): 4:49pm On Jan 05, 2021
Kriss216:
Who and who said sex does not prove love in a relationship?


I can’t love a woman without sex. I’m sexually active. One of the ways I express love is through sex. The importance of sex can not be downplayed in any serious relationship.



Cheating is painful cos humans are naturally selfish and self-centered. We want the kpekus/gbola all to ourselves without sharing.
So you've not heard ladies campaigning that sex doesn't prove love? , that guys who ask for sex early in relationships don't really love them but are only after their bodies.

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Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Poloyanabo2(m): 4:50pm On Jan 05, 2021
NextD18:
Cheating painful because there's more to sex than orgasm in a marriage.
But what about in relationships that have gotten into marriage yet?
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Poloyanabo2(m): 4:51pm On Jan 05, 2021
Henrywalker:
No everyone is comfortable with eating from the plate with his fellow guy. Men always wants to be men!
What about ladies?
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Kriss216: 4:51pm On Jan 05, 2021
Poloyanabo2:

So you've not heard ladies campaigning that sex doesn't prove love? , that guys who ask for sex early in relationships don't really love them but are only after their bodies.
Next time you come across such ladies, ask them if Money proves love.


The truth is, I can’t love a woman without first having sex with her. Her sex game determines my true emotions and feelings.
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Nobody: 4:52pm On Jan 05, 2021
let me just be reading
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Poloyanabo2(m): 4:54pm On Jan 05, 2021
Kriss216:

Next time you come across such ladies, ask them if Money proves love.

OK man grin
Kriss216:

Next time you come across such ladies, ask them if Money proves love.


The truth is, I can’t love a woman without first having sex with her. Her sex game determines my true emotions and feelings.
Kriss216:

Next time you come across such ladies, ask them if Money proves love.

OK so I can conclude that your love is conditional, if her sex game is poor or zero then she can't get your love.
What then happened to unconditional love, and "love is blind" quotes?
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Poloyanabo2(m): 4:55pm On Jan 05, 2021
Zzor:
let me just be reading
Don't just read, your opinion is needed too.
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Kriss216: 4:56pm On Jan 05, 2021
Zzor:
let me just be reading
Run along please, this thread is for matured minds.. we don’t need kids here.
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by zealousayo(m): 4:57pm On Jan 05, 2021
There's more to a relationship than just sex. The reason why people vex when their partners cheat is, most don't like sharing things with other people especially when it involves persons they love. Like Yorubas will say: Nkan wa ni, oyato si nkan mi ni( what's ours is different from what's mine).
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by WeNoGoDie(m): 5:13pm On Jan 05, 2021
Samakus:



Cheating is painful, not because of the intercourse that happened, but because of the trust that was broken

Thank you. Plus the fact that the cheating partner will introduce STD and HIV into the relationship.
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by paulolee(m): 5:23pm On Jan 05, 2021
its painful because others are eating from ur plate but less painful when u are also eating from other's plate..

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Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by AgathaMoses(f): 5:23pm On Jan 05, 2021
Zzor:
let me just be reading
hi
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Poloyanabo2(m): 5:30pm On Jan 05, 2021
paulolee:
its painful because others are eating from ur plate but less painful when u are also eating from other's plate..
But that plate(sex) does not prove love in a relationship right?
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by fati2001(m): 5:32pm On Jan 05, 2021
Zzor:
let me just be reading
coolcoolcool

I'm behind you
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Nobody: 5:42pm On Jan 05, 2021
AgathaMoses:
hi
stop chasing women. boy!!
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by blinking001(m): 5:43pm On Jan 05, 2021
Na Orisirisi something na
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Ordinarybob: 5:44pm On Jan 05, 2021
Poloyanabo2:

Is the sex an indicator of broken trust?
Cos most times the cheating partners still show the same care, affection and love even while they're cheating.
that is also a fraud
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by DirtyGold: 6:09pm On Jan 05, 2021
Because we are human beings... higher mamals and emotions are usually involved plus sex is supposed to be a private individualized affair. That the world has now decayed so much that people now do it by street corners and upload their private sexual moments doesn't change the fact that we are human beings with hardwired natural instincts.

Sex ordinarily should be a product of love which is why the hurt from cheating goes beyond just the physical activity of the sex - pleasure your partner had with someone else but, that feeling of betrayal it causes

What's tha business?

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Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by mosdii(m): 6:11pm On Jan 05, 2021
Zzor:
let me just be reading
Nigerian Girls Are Nitwits...All Of Them
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by AgathaMoses(f): 6:58pm On Jan 05, 2021
miracood:
stop chasing women. boy!!
I should chase men?
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by ayobade15094: 8:10pm On Jan 05, 2021
:its painful because others are eating from ur plate but less painful when u are also eating from other's plate..But that plate(sex) does not prove love in a relationship right?
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Enceladus(m): 9:02pm On Jan 05, 2021
Humans are territorial beings. We mark our partners unconsciously as our personal territory. Much like how the head of a lion pride will kill any lion that mates with any of his queens.
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Poloyanabo2(m): 2:31am On Jan 06, 2021
Lalasticlala, please move this to front page, it must not be a snake thread to make front page right?
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Samakus(m): 2:42am On Jan 06, 2021
WeNoGoDie:


Thank you. Plus the fact that the cheating partner will introduce STD and HIV into the relationship.

That, too
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by Samakus(m): 2:44am On Jan 06, 2021
Poloyanabo2:

Is the sex an indicator of broken trust?
Cos most times the cheating partners still show the same care, affection and love even while they're cheating.

No. The sex is not the indicator of broken trust. The pain is!
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love In A Relationship, Why Is Cheating Painful? by zexy2030(m): 6:24am On Jan 06, 2021
The pain is living in deceit. The time spent and the resources, pains more.

A man is hurt if he invest Alot of money into that relationship.

A woman is pained, when she realized she has denied better men her body for her boyfriend.

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